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Posted on Sat, Jan 21, 2006 01:32

Wish I hadn't started reading this one Now I want a cig.

  


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Posted on Wed, Jan 11, 2006 16:05

I was married to a smoker,was not the reason for the split but I won't be in a relationship with one again,which makes it tough here in the middle of tobacco country



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Posted on Fri, Jan 06, 2006 14:39

openroad888 write:
As a smoker i belive it has turned people away


It depends....if she's smoking because she's on fire,well yeah its a problem! :-)



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Posted on Thu, Jan 05, 2006 16:37

Personally, it matters to me...I can't stand the smell or the taste when u kiss. I can't date someone that smokes. I just couldn't deal with it.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 20, 2005 19:52

DoubleDelight write:
sweetpeasoup write:
If I like someone...It won't matter if they got dog crap on their face.. Alcohol is different. Social drinkers no problem, but a alcoholic? No way!! Drug addict No way!!

Ditto,
except, hope they take a shower first!

Or a shower ever...lmao.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 16, 2005 08:35

sweetpeasoup write:
If I like someone...It won't matter if they got dog crap on their face.. Alcohol is different. Social drinkers no problem, but a alcoholic? No way!! Drug addict No way!!

Ditto,
except, hope they take a shower first!

  


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Posted on Tue, Dec 13, 2005 11:34

If I like someone...It won't matter if they got dog crap on their face.. Alcohol is different. Social drinkers no problem, but a alcoholic? No way!! Drug addict No way!!



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Posted on Mon, Nov 07, 2005 11:35

Lady2rideWithU write:
NY has banned smoking in all bars, restaurnts and for that matter any building. You can smoke herbal ciggerttes...go figure...I am a non smoker but i dont think the govt has the right to tell a business owner who owns the building they cant let someone smoke in it...JUST NOT RIGHT!!! Now would i date a smoker...just hand him lots of gum...LOL


mmmmm..... schmokin herb, but not tobacco, ya I can go along with that



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Posted on Fri, Nov 04, 2005 20:28

Norty: You said drinkers. Did you mean heavy drinkers, or people who drink at all?

mmm...?

DD

  


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Posted on Thu, Nov 03, 2005 04:30

DoubleDelight write:

If you quit smoking and start up again: Don't beat yourself up. Just quit again. This is the first moment of your new life.
Success is failure: turned inside out.
Never giving up. That's the secret.
DD

I agree completely. I been off em 16 years. I bet I quit a hundred times before I was done for good...



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Posted on Thu, Nov 03, 2005 04:13

Rides said."4 all u smokers that can't quit...ur bikes going 2 miss ya...can i have it.."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Ha. funny! I'll take one of those!
Bikes, I mean.

If you quit smoking and start up again: Don't beat yourself up. Just quit again. This is the first moment of your new life.
Success is failure: turned inside out.
Never giving up. That's the secret.
DD

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 23, 2005 19:25

For me it is a problem because I have sinus problems. Which s*cks because I like a good cigar now and then. As for smoky bar rooms, I absolutely hate them. Only because of how I feel that night or the next day. That is why I usually look for places that are outside or have seperated smoking areas. In Maryland we do not have a smoking ban for bars and clubs. It has come up several times in the state legislature. But, it often gets pushed aside for other issues.
For me it is a problem because I have sinus problems. Which s*cks because I like a good cigar now and then. As for smoky bar rooms, I absolutely hate them. Only because of how I feel that night or the next day. That is why I usually look for places that are outside or have seperated smoking areas. In Maryland we do not have a smoking ban for bars and clubs. It has come up several times in the state legislature. But, it often gets pushed aside for other issues.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 09:31

wildbluetruck said: "Well if it is so bad then why doesn't the government ban them all together."

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.

Bikerman: Funny guy! roflmao!

I held my mother's hand while she died of lung Cancer. Six month's later I was sitting at my Surrogate dad's bedside while he lay dying of lung cancer. 2 years before that, his wife (not my mom, but like a mother to me); called me on the fone to tell me she loved me-then died of lung cancer a few days later.

When kissing__ breathing in tandom_sharing breath_.

Smell is 50% of taste.

Sweets for the sweet.

DD

  


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Posted on Sat, Oct 01, 2005 14:24

I don't smoke and never have, but if my date smokes thats ok with me. Just not in my house or my car. I'm around it when I bowl or shoot pool so to me it's no big deal.
Dakotacee



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Posted on Sat, Oct 01, 2005 07:51

Is smoking a dating a problem?
I hope not, cause I'd hate to quit dating!

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 14:20


soldonhd write:
I've dated smokers in the past but will not date a smoker in the future.It robs people of their vitality and eventually kills them.

My father died of cancer,he was a life long smoker.My uncle died of lung cancer,but he never smoked.He did however, own a tire distributorship and had is office located in the wharehouse.Unfortunately he was unaware of the chemicals that outgas from tires long after they have been manufactured.



I agree... to each his/her own but it is something I can't deal with well.. and sorry for your losses.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 22, 2005 05:58

I've dated smokers in the past but will not date a smoker in the future.It robs people of their vitality and eventually kills them.

My father died of cancer,he was a life long smoker.My uncle died of lung cancer,but he never smoked.He did however, own a tire distributorship and had is office located in the wharehouse.Unfortunately he was unaware of the chemicals that outgas from tires long after they have been manufactured.



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Posted on Wed, Sep 21, 2005 17:25


HarleyGurl35 write:

Happykitty47 write:
I wrote in this thread previously that I'd date a smoker.

I revise that. After recently seeing someone who is probably THE MOST chronic chain smoker I've ever been around (although a considerate smoker, I will say) I will no longer date a smoker. Sorry, but really being anywhere near the smoke gives me headaches and I just don't like the smell that lingers on their clothes and skin.



I'm with you on that one. I've never smoked and no one in the family does. I've tried to date those who do, but kissing just isn't that fresh and if that's not good, I just don't care to go f*arther. (Yes, f*arther was banned by the BK idiots.)

And another thing. I watched my ex's grandfather (who was one of the most incredible men I've ever known) die of lung cancer. He never smoked. Even WITH the cancer, he was healthy as hell. I watched Grandmother sit at his bedside through his last hours. Now she is alone at 85 and doing her best to move forward after a 60+ year marriage.

Beings we know smoking is a huge cause of lung cancer, I don't care to spend my later years in life sitting at a bedside. Don't care to lose my husband because he consistantly did something in his younger years that he knew had a big chance of killing him. It seems selfish to place your loved one in that position just for a bad habit you wouldn't cut.


I'm with you! My mom is barely able to walk across a room because her heart and lungs are so damaged by years of smoking... I can handle an occasional cigar, but cigarettes are the nastiest thing ever invented... I'll pass on smokers...oh yeah...and heavy drinkers, liars, cheats... ooops...WAIT...wrong forum....LOL

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 15, 2005 22:13


secretsquirrel write:

leggybrunette write:

bikeman542a write:
IS DATING AND SMOKIN A PROBLEM?
No but marriage causes dating problems!!!

DAYUM Bikeman! Ya made me blow beer out my nose again! Ya gotta stop doin' that hon!


Damn g/f put a top on the can before you read his posts!!!



nuttin!! nuttin!! nuttin!!

you folks crack me up

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 11, 2005 18:45


Happykitty47 write:
I wrote in this thread previously that I'd date a smoker.

I revise that. After recently seeing someone who is probably THE MOST chronic chain smoker I've ever been around (although a considerate smoker, I will say) I will no longer date a smoker. Sorry, but really being anywhere near the smoke gives me headaches and I just don't like the smell that lingers on their clothes and skin.



I'm with you on that one. I've never smoked and no one in the family does. I've tried to date those who do, but kissing just isn't that fresh and if that's not good, I just don't care to go f*arther. (Yes, f*arther was banned by the BK idiots.)

And another thing. I watched my ex's grandfather (who was one of the most incredible men I've ever known) die of lung cancer. He never smoked. Even WITH the cancer, he was healthy as hell. I watched Grandmother sit at his bedside through his last hours. Now she is alone at 85 and doing her best to move forward after a 60+ year marriage.

Beings we know smoking is a huge cause of lung cancer, I don't care to spend my later years in life sitting at a bedside. Don't care to lose my husband because he consistantly did something in his younger years that he knew had a big chance of killing him. It seems selfish to place your loved one in that position just for a bad habit you wouldn't cut.

  


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