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Posted on Sun, Jun 12, 2005 18:27


Mandy2004 write:
Ladies and Gentlemen cherish your children you never know when they will leave you.
My son left for heaven in March and I miss him so much! So so much.....you just can't fathom your child leaving first. It is the worst hurt your heart will ever feel.

Mandy my sicere apologizes to you and yours.. may your days be filled with happiness from this day on and I am sure I speak for moslty all the brothers and sisters on here.. If not im sorry... But you are in my prayers.. I know its not much but here is a single rose for you...

  


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Posted on Fri, Jun 10, 2005 09:08

Ladies and Gentlemen cherish your children you never know when they will leave you.
My son left for heaven in March and I miss him so much! So so much.....you just can't fathom your child leaving first. It is the worst hurt your heart will ever feel.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 12:47

By the way thats why I posted that and wanted everyone to read it and read it well because it is very very true.. they all learn from us as parents.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 12:46


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As a mom of a girl (18) and a boy (21) who are not happy with me right now this gives me hope.
I have to pray that the years before this last 1 1/2 will be the most meaningful and that they did watch and learn b/c all was love then.
I went crazy (know it now, didn't see it then) for awhile there after their dad died. I am back on track now.
My son hold's grudges...
My dtr does not ..she tries..I actually heard her tell a friend on the pho*ne.."yea she did it..my mom did her class and passed all on her own by herself..I am so proud of her". WOW She never let on to me she felt that way.
I am me and I can only be me..the person who I am..I am hopeful we will be a family again.

Char... I know its hard for you to think that but it will happen they do realize what they do to you and come back with sorries as I am one that knows... But you will take them in your arms and hug them and tell everything will be ok... I have been through alot in this past month and now everything is ok for now.. I am praying for you hon..

  


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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 12:28


thunderunderme write:
As a mom of a girl (18) and a boy (21) who are not happy with me right now this gives me hope.
I have to pray that the years before this last 1 1/2 will be the most meaningful and that they did watch and learn b/c all was love then.
I went crazy (know it now, didn't see it then) for awhile there after their dad died. I am back on track now.
My son hold's grudges...
My dtr does not ..she tries..I actually heard her tell a friend on the pho*ne.."yea she did it..my mom did her class and passed all on her own by herself..I am so proud of her". WOW She never let on to me she felt that way.
I am me and I can only be me..the person who I am..I am hopeful we will be a family again.



char i do believe all will be forgiven with you--i think sons hold their mom's to a different standard than our daughters do--my son and i haven't been the same since i moved back to jersey--when he really needs to talk he calls but other than that he doesn't
i needed to be here to heal my inner child--we all have to do for ourselves at one point or another and have the right not to be thinking with a clear head when the chit of life decides it is going to hit us across the face and pull us into the pandimonium(sp)of life--my daughter is with me and realizes truely what i have gone thru and accomplished

i do believe that time does heal all of our wounds just as it will heal all of our sons wounds--what we need to do is give them the space they need to heal and not force--when they are ready they will come to us

luv ya

  


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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 10:58

As a mom of a girl (18) and a boy (21) who are not happy with me right now this gives me hope.
I have to pray that the years before this last 1 1/2 will be the most meaningful and that they did watch and learn b/c all was love then.
I went crazy (know it now, didn't see it then) for awhile there after their dad died. I am back on track now.
My son hold's grudges...
My dtr does not ..she tries..I actually heard her tell a friend on the pho*ne.."yea she did it..my mom did her class and passed all on her own by herself..I am so proud of her". WOW She never let on to me she felt that way.
I am me and I can only be me..the person who I am..I am hopeful we will be a family again.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 07:15

BG
Kool chit darlin, for all the things that I feel like I came up short on, I'll talk to my kids and hear things come out of their mouth that makes me realize that they did pay attention more then I knew way back when. They'll make mistakes like everyone but I know they all got my heart which ain't a bad thing cause I got mine from my Mom.

  


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Posted on Thu, Jun 02, 2005 04:45


BabyGirl4You831 write:
Someone sent that to me.. I couldnt resist posting it.. Especially since I have kids and they do watch and learn..


BG~ That was great! Being a mom, now seeing her as an adult, her actions show me, she was looking,listening,learning. BabyBlues (thats my girl),turns 20 tomorrow, I can't imagine my life without her!!
When she tells me how proud she is of me, when i hear her tell her friends, my mom did it, so can I, or when she tells her boyfriends, never look the beast directly in eye, I know I did good. We are great friends, but I am her mom first and foremost.

  


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Posted on Wed, Jun 01, 2005 09:00

Someone sent that to me.. I couldnt resist posting it.. Especially since I have kids and they do watch and learn..

  


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Posted on Wed, Jun 01, 2005 04:35

babygirl
how true it is--and what we need to also realize is

when you thought i wasn't looking i saw you hit my mom--or me--or display anger in an inappropriate way
when you thought i wasn't looking i saw you belittle someone for the color of their skin
etc--etc---etc

little minds absorb not only the good they see us do but the not so nice things they see us do

can you imagine the hatred that will come out of those little minds having to do with 9/11 blaming a whole group of people for the small group fiantics(sp) that were truely responsible

we all need to be aware of who is around us to see our actions--and remember that there are consequences that we may never know!!!!!!

  


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Posted on Tue, May 31, 2005 20:40

WHEN YOU THOUGHT I WASN'T LOOKING
Written by a former child)

A message every adult should read, because children
are watching you and doing as you do, not as you say.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you hang my
first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately wanted
to paint another one.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you feed a
stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind
to animals

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make my
favorite cake for me and I learned that the little things can be
the special things in life.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I heard you say a
prayer, and I knew there is a God I could always
talk to and I learned to trust in God.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make a
meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I
learned that we all have to help take care of each other.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you give of
your time and money to help people who had nothing
and I learned that those who have something should
give to those who don't.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you take
care of our house and everyone in it and I learned
we have to take care of what we are given.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw how you
handled your responsibilities, even when you didn't
feel good and I learned that I would have to be
responsible when I grow up.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw tears come
from your eyes and I learned that sometimes things
hurt, but it's all right to cry.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw that you
cared and I wanted to be everything that I could be.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I learned most of
life's lessons that I need to know to be a good and
productive person when I grow up.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I looked at you
and wanted to say, "Thanks for all the things I saw
when you thought I wasn't looking."

LITTLE EYES SEE A LOT.



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Posted on Mon, May 23, 2005 15:29

got 3 boys of my own 15-8-6,single mom is hard for me as im just starten out.im sure things will get better.had a family for 15 yrs now he is gone,and on my own,my kids depend on me for so much and worry everyday if im gonna make it

  


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Posted on Fri, May 06, 2005 10:56

seeme, thanks for posting that.


TS, you are very welcome. That helps to start my day out nice and peaceful. I hope it does the same for you! And how are you doing since the accident? I hope you are healing up well and that everything is going smooth for you.



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Posted on Thu, May 05, 2005 18:45


ThighSyn write:

razar65 write:

One last thing, I have this hanging in my office at work, and I pass it on to you....

"Good Morning, this is God. I will be handling all of your problems today. I will NOT need your help, so relax and have a Great Day!"


razar~ This will be in my office tomorrow morning...that was well worth your time to share it.
Thanks!



Who more qualified then God to handle our problems. I live by this and it works. Sure takes a load off of my shoulders leaving room for more enjoyment which is what God gave us life for and to praise him. Love, Dances



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Posted on Thu, May 05, 2005 16:38


razar65 write:

One last thing, I have this hanging in my office at work, and I pass it on to you....

"Good Morning, this is God. I will be handling all of your problems today. I will NOT need your help, so relax and have a Great Day!"


razar~ This will be in my office tomorrow morning...that was well worth your time to share it.
Thanks!



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Posted on Thu, May 05, 2005 13:21

The Serenity Prayer
(full text)

GOD, grant me the serenity

to accept the things
I cannot change,
Courage to change the

things I can, and the
wisdom to know the difference.
Living ONE DAY AT A TIME;

Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardship as the
pathway to peace.
Taking, as He did, this

sinful world as it is,
not as I would have it.
Trusting that He will make

all things right if I
surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy

in this life, and supremely
happy with Him forever in
the next. Amen
Reinhold Neibuhr-1926

  


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Posted on Thu, May 05, 2005 12:47

that's good too seeme1st. you should post it.



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Posted on Thu, May 05, 2005 12:44

the serenity prayer is what got me thru all

  


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Posted on Thu, May 05, 2005 11:50

Deva,
You are welcome. I don't know everything going on with you, just the bits and pieces I have read, and I haven't read everything, but I know your hurt and pain. My ex was unfaithful to me, and thus the reason we got divorced. The affairs and the divorce were very painful, and I had a lot of anger at first because I felt I did everything I could to make it work, and didn't understand why she did what she did. But she did it, and now has to live with the shame of people knowing what she did, the shame of losing custody of our three daughters, and a lot of other stuff like having to file bankruptcy and not being able to keep a job or a guy around for very long. she is reaping what she sowed, and that is punishment enough. She told a lot of lies on me, and I held my tongue, and in the end, the truth comes out, and you really do reap what you sow. Sometimes it just takes time.

Something I learned in all that I have been through, sometimes you have to take it day by day, sometimes hour by hour, and sometimes even breath by breath, but you will get through it, and it does get easier.

One last thing, I have this hanging in my office at work, and I pass it on to you....

"Good Morning, this is God. I will be handling all of your problems today. I will NOT need your help, so relax and have a Great Day!"



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Posted on Wed, May 04, 2005 14:36


devadevine write:
RAZOR6665, Thank You very very much for that kind message you sent out there I have always put myself on hold for my children and other in my life and now I have finally realized many years later that I have alot to be thankful for and like I said as long as I Love Myself and do the best I can than God will be there for Me in the End. I sacrifised alot in my life to make others happy but sometimes that is not enough is it WINGRIDER1. THE DEVA/SUE



deva

i'm going to recommend several books for you--and anyone else that needs or wants

the gift of taking--by dr jill kahn(short)

codependency -by melody beady--she has several great books--i met her when i lived in ga at a seminar--unreal special woman

the dance of anger--not sure of the author--and there are several of these

healing for the damaged emotions by david seamands

overcoming hurts and anger by dwigth carlson

i know it isn't easy--i had alot of family of orgin garbage to handle--went to caron for their 5.5 day program almost 3 yrs ago--best thing i ever did for myself

i know you are hurting--and angry because you know you deserve better--the thing is what we forget sometimes is to take care of self--if you let the anger fester it will only eat you apart and cause dis ease--i have several friends that are into holestic medicine--anger eats away at the gall bladder--it can turn it gangrine(sp)

peace and serenity to you

  


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