Are there any GOOD men left? Romance

  • View author's info posted on Jun 19, 2006 11:28


    gothic_biker_hippie write:
    Actually, I have met good men, but there is usually something wrong. Either they are boring, or too short, etc. No, I am not a judgemental person, but everyone has there likes and dis-likes or we would just hook up with whoever or whatever like animals do. I have noticed that the older I get, the harder it is. The men I meet that have teh look I am attracted to and have the same hobbies and interests as me, are either already married, on drugs, cheaters or beaters, or a combination of any or all of the above. The men I meet at church that do not have these bad qualities also don't know how to have fun to save their lives. I actually did meet 1 cool guy at church and he's married. Why can't I find someone like me? Someone who looks cool, who likes to go out, listen to rock 'n roll, ride Harleys, but also has a sense of responsibility, respect for home and family. It's either druggies or goody two-shoes. I give up.

    You need stronger drugs.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 19, 2006 10:04


    BadBikerDawg write:
    Badbikerkitty write:
    SECKSEAONE write:
    Ok heres my take on the whole situation................#1..it's not just the men that are players....there are plenty of women that fit that catagory! #2..The problem is it is just too easy now...to get your next "online fix" " "the grass is always greener syndrome" as I like to refer to it! #3..No one takes the time to put forth the effort to know each other REALLY know each other......#4..Men and women are 2 VERY different animals.....Women don't LIKE drama ..it is just part of OUR makeup however big or small ...we handle things differently...what seems like a tiny little thing to a man it is LARGE to us! And vice versa....#5..It's time for people OUR age to start realizing that there is more to life than a large....Bank account(GIRLS) or a perfect body (Boyz) Cuz at the end of the day when all that sh*t falls away you better like whats underneath! #6..Make the EFFORT....TAKE the TIME.........HAVE FUN!!! Don't expect everything NOW! And for GAWDS SAKE......TELL THE F**kin truth for ONCE in your life...HONESTY goes a long way! ...cuz you are hurting innocent people that are honestly looking for something good in their life! Give people a chance we aren't ALL A**holes!!! Cheers!!!!!!! Be safe!

    you feel the same way I do girl...had to reread it with that pic in my face though....lmfao

    Kitty How come you didn't post a sexy picture with yours? LOL

    ok ok here it is....
  • View author's info posted on Jun 18, 2006 15:07


    Actually, I have met good men, but there is usually something wrong. Either they are boring, or too short, etc. No, I am not a judgemental person, but everyone has there likes and dis-likes or we would just hook up with whoever or whatever like animals do. I have noticed that the older I get, the harder it is. The men I meet that have teh look I am attracted to and have the same hobbies and interests as me, are either already married, on drugs, cheaters or beaters, or a combination of any or all of the above. The men I meet at church that do not have these bad qualities also don't know how to have fun to save their lives. I actually did meet 1 cool guy at church and he's married. Why can't I find someone like me? Someone who looks cool, who likes to go out, listen to rock 'n roll, ride Harleys, but also has a sense of responsibility, respect for home and family. It's either druggies or goody two-shoes. I give up.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 16, 2006 04:40


    Badbikerkitty write:
    SECKSEAONE write:
    Ok heres my take on the whole situation................#1..it's not just the men that are players....there are plenty of women that fit that catagory! #2..The problem is it is just too easy now...to get your next "online fix" " "the grass is always greener syndrome" as I like to refer to it! #3..No one takes the time to put forth the effort to know each other REALLY know each other......#4..Men and women are 2 VERY different animals.....Women don't LIKE drama ..it is just part of OUR makeup however big or small ...we handle things differently...what seems like a tiny little thing to a man it is LARGE to us! And vice versa....#5..It's time for people OUR age to start realizing that there is more to life than a large....Bank account(GIRLS) or a perfect body (Boyz) Cuz at the end of the day when all that sh*t falls away you better like whats underneath! #6..Make the EFFORT....TAKE the TIME.........HAVE FUN!!! Don't expect everything NOW! And for GAWDS SAKE......TELL THE F**kin truth for ONCE in your life...HONESTY goes a long way! ...cuz you are hurting innocent people that are honestly looking for something good in their life! Give people a chance we aren't ALL A**holes!!! Cheers!!!!!!! Be safe!

    you feel the same way I do girl...had to reread it with that pic in my face though....lmfao

    Kitty How come you didn't post a sexy picture with yours? LOL
  • View author's info posted on Jun 15, 2006 16:06


    SECKSEAONE write:
    Ok heres my take on the whole situation................#1..it's not just the men that are players....there are plenty of women that fit that catagory! #2..The problem is it is just too easy now...to get your next "online fix" " "the grass is always greener syndrome" as I like to refer to it! #3..No one takes the time to put forth the effort to know each other REALLY know each other......#4..Men and women are 2 VERY different animals.....Women don't LIKE drama ..it is just part of OUR makeup however big or small ...we handle things differently...what seems like a tiny little thing to a man it is LARGE to us! And vice versa....#5..It's time for people OUR age to start realizing that there is more to life than a large....Bank account(GIRLS) or a perfect body (Boyz) Cuz at the end of the day when all that sh*t falls away you better like whats underneath! #6..Make the EFFORT....TAKE the TIME.........HAVE FUN!!! Don't expect everything NOW! And for GAWDS SAKE......TELL THE F**kin truth for ONCE in your life...HONESTY goes a long way! ...cuz you are hurting innocent people that are honestly looking for something good in their life! Give people a chance we aren't ALL A**holes!!! Cheers!!!!!!! Be safe!

    you feel the same way I do girl...had to reread it with that pic in my face though....lmfao
  • View author's info posted on Jun 15, 2006 04:42


    SECKSEAONE write:
    Ok heres my take on the whole situation................#1..it's not just the men that are players....there are plenty of women that fit that catagory! #2..The problem is it is just too easy now...to get your next "online fix" " "the grass is always greener syndrome" as I like to refer to it! #3..No one takes the time to put forth the effort to know each other REALLY know each other......#4..Men and women are 2 VERY different animals.....Women don't LIKE drama ..it is just part of OUR makeup however big or small ...we handle things differently...what seems like a tiny little thing to a man it is LARGE to us! And vice versa....#5..It's time for people OUR age to start realizing that there is more to life than a large....Bank account(GIRLS) or a perfect body (Boyz) Cuz at the end of the day when all that sh*t falls away you better like whats underneath! #6..Make the EFFORT....TAKE the TIME.........HAVE FUN!!! Don't expect everything NOW! And for GAWDS SAKE......TELL THE F**kin truth for ONCE in your life...HONESTY goes a long way! ...cuz you are hurting innocent people that are honestly looking for something good in their life! Give people a chance we aren't ALL A**holes!!! Cheers!!!!!!! Be safe!

    Beautifully said at the end of the day when all is said and done you need more than good looks and a big back account because they won't carry you thru the tough times you need to trust and truly care about each other don't say things just because you think someone wants to hear it say it because it's what you feel...I am no expert on this but I can tell you what I say is true I said it in a earlier post I'm not left but I am good Just ask Sharon! LOL
  • View author's info posted on Jun 14, 2006 17:32


    Ok heres my take on the whole situation................#1..it's not just the men that are players....there are plenty of women that fit that catagory! #2..The problem is it is just too easy now...to get your next "online fix" " "the grass is always greener syndrome" as I like to refer to it! #3..No one takes the time to put forth the effort to know each other REALLY know each other......#4..Men and women are 2 VERY different animals.....Women don't LIKE drama ..it is just part of OUR makeup however big or small ...we handle things differently...what seems like a tiny little thing to a man it is LARGE to us! And vice versa....#5..It's time for people OUR age to start realizing that there is more to life than a large....Bank account(GIRLS) or a perfect body (Boyz) Cuz at the end of the day when all that sh*t falls away you better like whats underneath! #6..Make the EFFORT....TAKE the TIME.........HAVE FUN!!! Don't expect everything NOW! And for GAWDS SAKE......TELL THE F**kin truth for ONCE in your life...HONESTY goes a long way! ...cuz you are hurting innocent people that are honestly looking for something good in their life! Give people a chance we aren't ALL A**holes!!! Cheers!!!!!!! Be safe!

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  • View author's info posted on Jun 11, 2006 08:46


    jes69 write:
    well kitty...i do have to agree with u..at 49 it is really hard to find someone who is looking for the same things in life...either too much baggage and b/s...would really like to find a partner who can also understand the need for a woman to be independant when she needs to be...i can find men, but either they have fear of committment or the complete opposite...oh well (sigh) will keep searching....nothing else to do...lol


    We men have the same problems too...as we get older..the chances start to slide away even further.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 11, 2006 05:01


    Suzananana write:

    Rescue1 write:
    TnTrBak write:
    We can also get badboy hooked on phonics.....ROTF

    That would be great! He's already hooked on being an idiot.



    Hahahahahhahahha..........

    sounds to me like he hooked on drugs!!!should be mrasshole
  • View author's info posted on Jun 11, 2006 01:42


    Rescue1 write:
    TnTrBak write:
    We can also get badboy hooked on phonics.....ROTF

    That would be great! He's already hooked on being an idiot.


    Hahahahahhahahha..........
  • View author's info posted on Jun 10, 2006 00:28


    We can also get badboy hooked on phonics.....ROTF
  • View author's info posted on Jun 09, 2006 22:11


    mrbadboy write:
    slim dos not want to date you ether!!!!

    "ether"

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  • View author's info posted on Jun 09, 2006 11:46


    mrbadboy write:
    slim dos not want to date you ether!!!!

    what the hell ya talking about now?gees
  • View author's info posted on Jun 04, 2006 23:28


    jes69 write:
    well kitty...i do have to agree with u..at 49 it is really hard to find someone who is looking for the same things in life...either too much baggage and b/s...would really like to find a partner who can also understand the need for a woman to be independant when she needs to be...i can find men, but either they have fear of committment or the complete opposite...oh well (sigh) will keep searching....nothing else to do...lol

    Pssst!! Try searchin the southwest, the dry desert climate preserves us longer, or it mummifies us quicker, I forget which......
  • View author's info posted on Jun 04, 2006 13:55


    Serenity912 write:
    SeminoleSlim write:
    i'm a lying, cheating dog. but i'm good at it. does that count?

    Slim...You don't seem like a liar to me..but what do I know just from your words?? As far a being a dog....I think if both people know what the nature of the relationship is...and agree, then no one gets hurt. That's why Baskin Robbins makes 33 flavors..to each their own...it's the bullchit of wantin' to have your cake and eat it too that sends me over the edge...the ol' Madonna/'Ho syndrome. I know you will crack me up with your come back..so I await your reply!! Peace/Serenity

    i only labeled myself as a liar so i would fit neatly into the category that some women have created for all men on here. although i am a very honest, upfront, and direct person ... i don't want any lady to have to burn any brain cells trying to figure out where they should file me. but really, i am honest - to a fault.

    if women were the equivalent of the 33 flavors from Baskin Robbins i be one fat son-of-a-biatch, cuz i like all flavors and want to taste them all. i might even find my favorite flavor and one that i would want to stick with as i went thru them all. and the licking is soooooo much fun. and i don't even mind getting some on me ....

    ~Slim
  • View author's info posted on Jun 04, 2006 08:43


    well kitty...i do have to agree with u..at 49 it is really hard to find someone who is looking for the same things in life...either too much baggage and b/s...would really like to find a partner who can also understand the need for a woman to be independant when she needs to be...i can find men, but either they have fear of committment or the complete opposite...oh well (sigh) will keep searching....nothing else to do...lol
  • View author's info posted on Jun 03, 2006 09:48


    BadBikerDawg write:
    KinMonmouth write:
    BadBikerDawg write:
    I'm DAMN GOOD but I'm not left! LMAO


    Hey when did you go to COUPLE?? lol.. I gotta pay more attention. Ok spi;; it.. who's the lucky girl? I want pictures too! Congrats :O)~

    She's someone who I have been seeing off and on for the last couple of years but with my most recent events has turned out to be more than just a friend, she has really been here for me and has shown me what it's like to have someone truely care about me and what happens to me, I never gave her the chance before but when my son passed away ahe was right there and then with my accident she never hesitated she stepped right up to help me she wanted to be the one I never looked at her that way before so she really opened my eyes and I really don't think I could be any happier well maybe I could but I'm not going there.

    Sounds like a keeper to me Ponch..Rock On bro!!!
  • View author's info posted on Jun 01, 2006 07:19


    Badbikerkitty write:
    BadBikerDawg write:
    I'm DAMN GOOD but I'm not left! LMAO

    So does this mean yer right?NOT!!!lmao
    But you aint single hunny!!!!!

    Hey what are you saying???LMAO no you know I'm not right but I'm not left either.... and your'e right I'm no longer a single man I've made the commitment I'm no longer in the game and damn Ms. Kitty I didn't even get to dance with you damn the bad luck!
  • View author's info posted on Jun 01, 2006 06:39


    KinMonmouth write:
    BadBikerDawg write:
    I'm DAMN GOOD but I'm not left! LMAO


    Hey when did you go to COUPLE?? lol.. I gotta pay more attention. Ok spi;; it.. who's the lucky girl? I want pictures too! Congrats :O)~

    She's someone who I have been seeing off and on for the last couple of years but with my most recent events has turned out to be more than just a friend, she has really been here for me and has shown me what it's like to have someone truely care about me and what happens to me, I never gave her the chance before but when my son passed away ahe was right there and then with my accident she never hesitated she stepped right up to help me she wanted to be the one I never looked at her that way before so she really opened my eyes and I really don't think I could be any happier well maybe I could but I'm not going there.
  • View author's info posted on May 31, 2006 22:46


    i'm a lying, cheating dog. but i'm good at it. does that count?
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