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Posted on Thu, Jun 22, 2006 09:52

I tried to post this earlier, and something went wrong. Not that I have to explain myself to morons, but I do not take drugs. Yes, I would probably be in a better mood and probably have a man if I did, because I'd be so stupid, I'd put up with anything just to be on a man's arm. Fortunately, I have enough respect for myself and my daughter that I stay sober.
If you guys are such experts in the field of romance, what are you doing on here? You're probably just jealous cuz I don't want you, and wish I was a druggie so I'd lower my standards to your level.
At least I have the nerve to get on here and tell the truth. But men don't want honest women it seems.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 22, 2006 06:44

Wow getting deep on here..Its for sure a two way street..Very well said to all of you...



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Posted on Thu, Jun 22, 2006 05:38

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Hey gene I wasnt pissing moaning...damn now yer the women haters club?You obviously keep wanting to bring it up , go to yer own thread please!!!I am happy , like i said, I love all good men and hope you would love the good women.trust me when I say I aint no man hater , there are all kinds !

You know me better than that, Kitty. You know I just LOOOOOVE women. Probably too much. And you know I love you, too. If I didn't, I wouldn't waste my time with you. We just probably need to discus some things offline.

~Slim



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Posted on Thu, Jun 22, 2006 04:54

Paula wrote
"and Slim BTW
"I could sit here and say the same thing about a lot of the women out there - they are all liars, whores and users. But I have to accept ALL of the responsibility for the people I choose to let into my life. MY choices, MY descisions, MY mistakes, MY PROBLEM!!!"

I like what you're saying but we are ALL NOT "LIARS, WHORES AND USERS"

Some of us are pretty straight up"

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Read closer, Sweetpea. I said I COULD say that, but I don't.

If you look back at all my posts on this subject you will see that one of the main points I've been trying to make is that not ALL men are that way, no more than ALL women are that way. And that's why it pisses me off so much when people post in that manner.

Paula, don't make me come down there and have a 1-on-1 reading comprehension lesson. I might have to bring my ruler and spank your azz. And I can see right now you definitely will have to be kept after school.

~Slim



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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 15:28

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No man hater here! I am happy to report that there are plenty of good men around. Many of my male friends on here are all good men. But not everyone of them is looking for a committed relationship. Not every one of them plays by the same life rules that I do. Every one is looking for something different. The trick is to talk talk talk and figure out up front what it is the other wants. If you are a player look for a player don't go for the unsuspecting person looking for a commited relationship and hurt them with your activities, if you are a partyer look for a fellow partyer not someone who does not drink and will never be happy in your partying world. If you want a person who wants only you then you need to act like a person who can be with only one and not the one who is ready to do everyone you meet. If you talk to a person long enough BEFORE YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT WITH THEM, then you will find out what they are all about and there is less chance of misinterpreting what the relationship can and will be. And for gawd's sake do not place expecations on someone that they cannot live up to or are unwilling to live up to for it will only bring disappointment. "Expectaions are nothing but premeditated resentments". Keep searching my friends and may you find what you are looking for.

thanks kat ...very well said .



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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 14:56

Well, Ladies and (I use that term loosely for some) LOL, and Gents, We HOPE that you ALL find what you're looking for. We have, and that's some GREAT FRIENDS off this site...Time for us to say See Ya, take care and mostly RIDE SAFE!!!!



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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 13:06

Hey gene I wasnt pissing moaning...damn now yer the women haters club?You obviously keep wanting to bring it up , go to yer own thread please!!!I am happy , like i said, I love all good men and hope you would love the good women.trust me when I say I aint no man hater , there are all kinds !



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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 12:12

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No man hater here! I am happy to report that there are plenty of good men around. Many of my male friends on here are all good men. But not everyone of them is looking for a committed relationship. Not every one of them plays by the same life rules that I do. Every one is looking for something different. The trick is to talk talk talk and figure out up front what it is the other wants. If you are a player look for a player don't go for the unsuspecting person looking for a commited relationship and hurt them with your activities, if you are a partyer look for a fellow partyer not someone who does not drink and will never be happy in your partying world. If you want a person who wants only you then you need to act like a person who can be with only one and not the one who is ready to do everyone you meet. If you talk to a person long enough BEFORE YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT WITH THEM, then you will find out what they are all about and there is less chance of misinterpreting what the relationship can and will be. And for gawd's sake do not place expecations on someone that they cannot live up to or are unwilling to live up to for it will only bring disappointment. "Expectaions are nothing but premeditated resentments". Keep searching my friends and may you find what you are looking for.

Why are you hidden?



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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 08:40

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Actually, I have met good men, but there is usually something wrong. Either they are boring, or too short, etc. No, I am not a judgemental person, but everyone has there likes and dis-likes or we would just hook up with whoever or whatever like animals do. I have noticed that the older I get, the harder it is. The men I meet that have teh look I am attracted to and have the same hobbies and interests as me, are either already married, on drugs, cheaters or beaters, or a combination of any or all of the above. The men I meet at church that do not have these bad qualities also don't know how to have fun to save their lives. I actually did meet 1 cool guy at church and he's married. Why can't I find someone like me? Someone who looks cool, who likes to go out, listen to rock 'n roll, ride Harleys, but also has a sense of responsibility, respect for home and family. It's either druggies or goody two-shoes. I give up.

You need stronger drugs.

HA! HA! HA! TOO funny. Hey, you look almost just like Marzen, a little more serious looking tho....

  


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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 06:16

<----- A GOOD BAD BOY (MAN)!!! HE'S GOOD AT ALL THE RIGHT THINGS AND BAD AT ALL THE RIGHT TIMES!! P-E-R-F-E-C-T!!

SORRY IF I'M BRAGGIN
(not really *evilgrin*)

Ladies they are out there!! I swear it!!

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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 03:53

(just a repeat of what I said earlier)
I hear a lot of my friends (female) say they are looking for an honest man but when they run across one who really does just lay it on the line they call him a pig. WTF?? Likewise you guys want a good woman, honest and true but let one tell you that you're not the one then she's a slut or a lesbian. I would rather have a guy look me in the eye an say I just wanna have sex then charm me with lies to trick me into it. At least that way I can make the decision with all the facts, instead of fallin for him and gettin hurt. My great grandmother (God rest her soul) use to say, "As long as you know a snake is a snake you prolly won't get bit" Even as a kid I knew what she meant. Don't get me wrong, I'm not sayin an honest person is a snake I'm just sayin my vote is for the guy being honest, no games. I may not like what he's sayin but I damn sure respect him for sayin it.
So peeps, before you ask, "where are all the honest men/women" ask yourself how do you define honesty and what are you really lookin for. For me, personally, I can live without the smoke & mirrors...

Ya'll be safe!

and Slim BTW
"I could sit here and say the same thing about a lot of the women out there - they are all liars, whores and users. But I have to accept ALL of the responsibility for the people I choose to let into my life. MY choices, MY descisions, MY mistakes, MY PROBLEM!!!"

I like what you're saying but we are ALL NOT "LIARS, WHORES AND USERS"

Some of us are pretty straight up



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Posted on Tue, Jun 20, 2006 11:35

No man hater here! I am happy to report that there are plenty of good men around. Many of my male friends on here are all good men. But not everyone of them is looking for a committed relationship. Not every one of them plays by the same life rules that I do. Every one is looking for something different. The trick is to talk talk talk and figure out up front what it is the other wants. If you are a player look for a player don't go for the unsuspecting person looking for a commited relationship and hurt them with your activities, if you are a partyer look for a fellow partyer not someone who does not drink and will never be happy in your partying world. If you want a person who wants only you then you need to act like a person who can be with only one and not the one who is ready to do everyone you meet. If you talk to a person long enough BEFORE YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT WITH THEM, then you will find out what they are all about and there is less chance of misinterpreting what the relationship can and will be. And for gawd's sake do not place expecations on someone that they cannot live up to or are unwilling to live up to for it will only bring disappointment. "Expectaions are nothing but premeditated resentments". Keep searching my friends and may you find what you are looking for.



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Posted on Tue, Jun 20, 2006 06:32

Badbikerkitty write:
this aint no man haters club gene....get over yerself!!! This site has few good men , but once again , I will say that I for one am happy and don't need a man to make me happy either.oh and arent you the reason there are man haters?At least you do admit it though.Most women here are looking for the 'one"....like any other dating site , now whats wrong with that?
Ain't nothing wrong with looking for the "one" on this or any other dating site. But quit pissing & moaning & bithching about not finding anything but liars & cheaters.

I'm the reason? How can me being honest give men a bad rap? Yes, I am honest that I do not get up in the morning and set out on a "mission" to find a woman. I am not looking for a serious relationship. I am looking for (and to be) a friend. If I get laid along the way it wasn't because I lied or made any false promises.

Any solid relationship has to have friendship as the foundation for it to be successful. If not, when the passion wanes so does the relationship. If I find a friend on here and it develops into more than a friendship, great. I won't run from it. But I will let that HAPPEN on its own. I don't set out to try to MAKE it happen.

And, I personally am not attracted to any woman who gets sloppy drunk, nasty & mean. And I don't know many men who are. If that's all you got to offer, then that's the kind of men you're gonna attract. I ain't pointing fingers. I'm just making a point. If you want a good man, be a good woman.

I'm just sick of all this negative bullshit about men. There are just as many women on here that do the same thing to men. But you don't see the men on here crying about it and bashing women. Most of us accept responsibility for our part of the failure and just move on - hopefully wiser. A more positive attitude might bring more positive results. You get what you give.

Don't piss me off and make me get mean.

~Slim



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Posted on Tue, Jun 20, 2006 00:02

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The Man Haters Central Thread is alive and well.

I am sick and tired of all the whiny azz women on here pissing and moaning about they can't find a good man.

Let me get straight to the point - maybe if all you attract are loosers, liars and cheaters you might need to look at yourself. If that is what YOU ATTRACT, then what does that say about you? Stop trying to blame the rest of the world for your poor character.

I could sit here and say the same thing about a lot of the women out there - they are all liars, whores and users. But I have to accept ALL of the responsibility for the people I choose to let into my life. MY choices, MY descisions, MY mistakes, MY PROBLEM!!!

I have a suggestion for all the Man Haters who love to throw some kind of Pity Party for themselves and want everyone to feel sorry for them because THEY make poor decisions and poor choices in men ....

Shut The F'ck UP!

Love & Kisses,
~Slim

this aint no man haters club gene....get over yerself!!! This site has few good men , but once again , I will say that I for one am happy and don't need a man to make me happy either.oh and arent you the reason there are man haters?At least you do admit it though.Most women here are looking for the 'one"....like any other dating site , now whats wrong with that?



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Posted on Mon, Jun 19, 2006 20:23

The Man Haters Central Thread is alive and well.

I am sick and tired of all the whiny azz women on here pissing and moaning about they can't find a good man.

Let me get straight to the point - maybe if all you attract are loosers, liars and cheaters you might need to look at yourself. If that is what YOU ATTRACT, then what does that say about you? Stop trying to blame the rest of the world for your poor character.

I could sit here and say the same thing about a lot of the women out there - they are all liars, whores and users. But I have to accept ALL of the responsibility for the people I choose to let into my life. MY choices, MY descisions, MY mistakes, MY PROBLEM!!!

I have a suggestion for all the Man Haters who love to throw some kind of Pity Party for themselves and want everyone to feel sorry for them because THEY make poor decisions and poor choices in men ....

Shut The F'ck UP!

Love & Kisses,
~Slim



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Posted on Mon, Jun 19, 2006 11:28

gothic_biker_hippie write:
Actually, I have met good men, but there is usually something wrong. Either they are boring, or too short, etc. No, I am not a judgemental person, but everyone has there likes and dis-likes or we would just hook up with whoever or whatever like animals do. I have noticed that the older I get, the harder it is. The men I meet that have teh look I am attracted to and have the same hobbies and interests as me, are either already married, on drugs, cheaters or beaters, or a combination of any or all of the above. The men I meet at church that do not have these bad qualities also don't know how to have fun to save their lives. I actually did meet 1 cool guy at church and he's married. Why can't I find someone like me? Someone who looks cool, who likes to go out, listen to rock 'n roll, ride Harleys, but also has a sense of responsibility, respect for home and family. It's either druggies or goody two-shoes. I give up.

You need stronger drugs.



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Posted on Mon, Jun 19, 2006 10:04

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Ok heres my take on the whole situation................#1..it's not just the men that are players....there are plenty of women that fit that catagory! #2..The problem is it is just too easy now...to get your next "online fix" " "the grass is always greener syndrome" as I like to refer to it! #3..No one takes the time to put forth the effort to know each other REALLY know each other......#4..Men and women are 2 VERY different animals.....Women don't LIKE drama ..it is just part of OUR makeup however big or small ...we handle things differently...what seems like a tiny little thing to a man it is LARGE to us! And vice versa....#5..It's time for people OUR age to start realizing that there is more to life than a large....Bank account(GIRLS) or a perfect body (Boyz) Cuz at the end of the day when all that sh*t falls away you better like whats underneath! #6..Make the EFFORT....TAKE the TIME.........HAVE FUN!!! Don't expect everything NOW! And for GAWDS SAKE......TELL THE F**kin truth for ONCE in your life...HONESTY goes a long way! ...cuz you are hurting innocent people that are honestly looking for something good in their life! Give people a chance we aren't ALL A**holes!!! Cheers!!!!!!! Be safe!

you feel the same way I do girl...had to reread it with that pic in my face though....lmfao

Kitty How come you didn't post a sexy picture with yours? LOL

ok ok here it is....



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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 15:07

Actually, I have met good men, but there is usually something wrong. Either they are boring, or too short, etc. No, I am not a judgemental person, but everyone has there likes and dis-likes or we would just hook up with whoever or whatever like animals do. I have noticed that the older I get, the harder it is. The men I meet that have teh look I am attracted to and have the same hobbies and interests as me, are either already married, on drugs, cheaters or beaters, or a combination of any or all of the above. The men I meet at church that do not have these bad qualities also don't know how to have fun to save their lives. I actually did meet 1 cool guy at church and he's married. Why can't I find someone like me? Someone who looks cool, who likes to go out, listen to rock 'n roll, ride Harleys, but also has a sense of responsibility, respect for home and family. It's either druggies or goody two-shoes. I give up.



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Posted on Fri, Jun 16, 2006 04:40

Badbikerkitty write:
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Ok heres my take on the whole situation................#1..it's not just the men that are players....there are plenty of women that fit that catagory! #2..The problem is it is just too easy now...to get your next "online fix" " "the grass is always greener syndrome" as I like to refer to it! #3..No one takes the time to put forth the effort to know each other REALLY know each other......#4..Men and women are 2 VERY different animals.....Women don't LIKE drama ..it is just part of OUR makeup however big or small ...we handle things differently...what seems like a tiny little thing to a man it is LARGE to us! And vice versa....#5..It's time for people OUR age to start realizing that there is more to life than a large....Bank account(GIRLS) or a perfect body (Boyz) Cuz at the end of the day when all that sh*t falls away you better like whats underneath! #6..Make the EFFORT....TAKE the TIME.........HAVE FUN!!! Don't expect everything NOW! And for GAWDS SAKE......TELL THE F**kin truth for ONCE in your life...HONESTY goes a long way! ...cuz you are hurting innocent people that are honestly looking for something good in their life! Give people a chance we aren't ALL A**holes!!! Cheers!!!!!!! Be safe!

you feel the same way I do girl...had to reread it with that pic in my face though....lmfao

Kitty How come you didn't post a sexy picture with yours? LOL



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Posted on Thu, Jun 15, 2006 16:06

SECKSEAONE write:
Ok heres my take on the whole situation................#1..it's not just the men that are players....there are plenty of women that fit that catagory! #2..The problem is it is just too easy now...to get your next "online fix" " "the grass is always greener syndrome" as I like to refer to it! #3..No one takes the time to put forth the effort to know each other REALLY know each other......#4..Men and women are 2 VERY different animals.....Women don't LIKE drama ..it is just part of OUR makeup however big or small ...we handle things differently...what seems like a tiny little thing to a man it is LARGE to us! And vice versa....#5..It's time for people OUR age to start realizing that there is more to life than a large....Bank account(GIRLS) or a perfect body (Boyz) Cuz at the end of the day when all that sh*t falls away you better like whats underneath! #6..Make the EFFORT....TAKE the TIME.........HAVE FUN!!! Don't expect everything NOW! And for GAWDS SAKE......TELL THE F**kin truth for ONCE in your life...HONESTY goes a long way! ...cuz you are hurting innocent people that are honestly looking for something good in their life! Give people a chance we aren't ALL A**holes!!! Cheers!!!!!!! Be safe!

you feel the same way I do girl...had to reread it with that pic in my face though....lmfao



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