Are there any GOOD men left? Romance

  • View author's info posted on Jun 23, 2006 09:51


    Oh and BTW...here is one of the really good guys...

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  • View author's info posted on Jun 23, 2006 08:23


    SeminoleSlim write:
    Badbikerkitty write:
    Hey gene I wasnt pissing moaning...damn now yer the women haters club?You obviously keep wanting to bring it up , go to yer own thread please!!!I am happy , like i said, I love all good men and hope you would love the good women.trust me when I say I aint no man hater , there are all kinds !

    You know me better than that, Kitty. You know I just LOOOOOVE women. Probably too much. And you know I love you, too. If I didn't, I wouldn't waste my time with you. We just probably need to discus some things offline.

    ~Slim

    ROFLMAO!! Slimslam is in the doodie... I'll just sit here with my popcorn... ha ha ha..

    Rutrow Slim!! No disresepect intended but I just love to watch a man squirm.. ha ha ha... **evil grin***
  • View author's info posted on Jun 23, 2006 05:17


    Gothic wrote: "Not that I have to explain myself to morons"
    - well, that's a great start at atracting a man

    Gothic: ".. but I do not take drugs."
    - great! neither do i, never have. (does Viagra count?)

    Gothic: "Yes, I would probably be in a better mood..."
    - is your "mood" one that attracts men? or turns them away? if you have to have drugs to put you in a good mood, there might be a deeper problem.

    Gothic: "and probably have a man if I did, because I'd be so stupid, I'd put up with anything just to be on a man's arm."
    - again, if it takes drugs to get a man - red light!

    Gothic: "Fortunately, I have enough respect for myself and my daughter that I stay sober."
    - children are our number one priority, right behind ourseves. Respect is something you demand of yourself, and earn from others.

    Gothic: "If you guys are such experts in the field of romance, what are you doing on here?"
    - Uh, looking for women like you to say that we are ALL morons, ALL druggies, ALL liars, ALL dishonest, blah, blah, blah. You know, the usual Man Bashing of the ENTIRE species because you've had a few bad experiences.

    Gothic: "You're probably just jealous cuz I don't want you, and wish I was a druggie so I'd lower my standards to your level."
    - there's a difference between self respect and arrogance. so far, it sounds like someone would need to be on drugs to tolerate being around your nasty attitude.

    Gothic: "At least I have the nerve to get on here and tell the truth."
    - do you think EVERY MAN is as you describe in your post? If so, you don't recognize truth.

    Gothic: "But men don't want honest women it seems."
    - sure we do. we're still looking for one or two. we know they are out there somewhere. you know any?

    If you really think ALL MEN are as bad as you say you should probably just give up now and take up knitting. Like so many people have said (men and women) you can't take the bad actions of a few and apply that to ALL.

    Lighten up.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 23, 2006 05:11


    SNJGal write:
    Nezram write:
    SNJGal write:
    No man hater here! I am happy to report that there are plenty of good men around. Many of my male friends on here are all good men. But not everyone of them is looking for a committed relationship. Not every one of them plays by the same life rules that I do. Every one is looking for something different. The trick is to talk talk talk and figure out up front what it is the other wants. If you are a player look for a player don't go for the unsuspecting person looking for a commited relationship and hurt them with your activities, if you are a partyer look for a fellow partyer not someone who does not drink and will never be happy in your partying world. If you want a person who wants only you then you need to act like a person who can be with only one and not the one who is ready to do everyone you meet. If you talk to a person long enough BEFORE YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT WITH THEM, then you will find out what they are all about and there is less chance of misinterpreting what the relationship can and will be. And for gawd's sake do not place expecations on someone that they cannot live up to or are unwilling to live up to for it will only bring disappointment. "Expectaions are nothing but premeditated resentments". Keep searching my friends and may you find what you are looking for.

    Why are you hidden?


    Problems with some peeps on here. My friends know who I am and where I can be found. And you?

    you have my email. resend yours. Our computers were scrubbed here.
    Bob
  • View author's info posted on Jun 22, 2006 19:58


    I need love, love to ease my mind
    I need to find, find someone to call mine

    But mama said you can't hurry love
    No, you'll just have to wait
    She said love don't come easy
    It's a game of give and take
    I can't hurry love, no, you'll just have to wait
    Just trust, give it time
    No matter how long it takes
  • View author's info posted on Jun 22, 2006 12:37


    Nezram write:
    SNJGal write:
    No man hater here! I am happy to report that there are plenty of good men around. Many of my male friends on here are all good men. But not everyone of them is looking for a committed relationship. Not every one of them plays by the same life rules that I do. Every one is looking for something different. The trick is to talk talk talk and figure out up front what it is the other wants. If you are a player look for a player don't go for the unsuspecting person looking for a commited relationship and hurt them with your activities, if you are a partyer look for a fellow partyer not someone who does not drink and will never be happy in your partying world. If you want a person who wants only you then you need to act like a person who can be with only one and not the one who is ready to do everyone you meet. If you talk to a person long enough BEFORE YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT WITH THEM, then you will find out what they are all about and there is less chance of misinterpreting what the relationship can and will be. And for gawd's sake do not place expecations on someone that they cannot live up to or are unwilling to live up to for it will only bring disappointment. "Expectaions are nothing but premeditated resentments". Keep searching my friends and may you find what you are looking for.

    Why are you hidden?


    Problems with some peeps on here. My friends know who I am and where I can be found. And you?
  • View author's info posted on Jun 22, 2006 09:52


    I tried to post this earlier, and something went wrong. Not that I have to explain myself to morons, but I do not take drugs. Yes, I would probably be in a better mood and probably have a man if I did, because I'd be so stupid, I'd put up with anything just to be on a man's arm. Fortunately, I have enough respect for myself and my daughter that I stay sober.
    If you guys are such experts in the field of romance, what are you doing on here? You're probably just jealous cuz I don't want you, and wish I was a druggie so I'd lower my standards to your level.
    At least I have the nerve to get on here and tell the truth. But men don't want honest women it seems.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 22, 2006 06:44


    Wow getting deep on here..Its for sure a two way street..Very well said to all of you...
  • View author's info posted on Jun 22, 2006 05:38


    Badbikerkitty write:
    Hey gene I wasnt pissing moaning...damn now yer the women haters club?You obviously keep wanting to bring it up , go to yer own thread please!!!I am happy , like i said, I love all good men and hope you would love the good women.trust me when I say I aint no man hater , there are all kinds !

    You know me better than that, Kitty. You know I just LOOOOOVE women. Probably too much. And you know I love you, too. If I didn't, I wouldn't waste my time with you. We just probably need to discus some things offline.

    ~Slim
  • View author's info posted on Jun 22, 2006 04:54


    Paula wrote
    "and Slim BTW
    "I could sit here and say the same thing about a lot of the women out there - they are all liars, whores and users. But I have to accept ALL of the responsibility for the people I choose to let into my life. MY choices, MY descisions, MY mistakes, MY PROBLEM!!!"

    I like what you're saying but we are ALL NOT "LIARS, WHORES AND USERS"

    Some of us are pretty straight up"

    >>
    Read closer, Sweetpea. I said I COULD say that, but I don't.

    If you look back at all my posts on this subject you will see that one of the main points I've been trying to make is that not ALL men are that way, no more than ALL women are that way. And that's why it pisses me off so much when people post in that manner.

    Paula, don't make me come down there and have a 1-on-1 reading comprehension lesson. I might have to bring my ruler and spank your azz. And I can see right now you definitely will have to be kept after school.

    ~Slim
  • View author's info posted on Jun 21, 2006 15:28


    SNJGal write:
    No man hater here! I am happy to report that there are plenty of good men around. Many of my male friends on here are all good men. But not everyone of them is looking for a committed relationship. Not every one of them plays by the same life rules that I do. Every one is looking for something different. The trick is to talk talk talk and figure out up front what it is the other wants. If you are a player look for a player don't go for the unsuspecting person looking for a commited relationship and hurt them with your activities, if you are a partyer look for a fellow partyer not someone who does not drink and will never be happy in your partying world. If you want a person who wants only you then you need to act like a person who can be with only one and not the one who is ready to do everyone you meet. If you talk to a person long enough BEFORE YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT WITH THEM, then you will find out what they are all about and there is less chance of misinterpreting what the relationship can and will be. And for gawd's sake do not place expecations on someone that they cannot live up to or are unwilling to live up to for it will only bring disappointment. "Expectaions are nothing but premeditated resentments". Keep searching my friends and may you find what you are looking for.

    thanks kat ...very well said .
  • View author's info posted on Jun 21, 2006 14:56


    Well, Ladies and (I use that term loosely for some) LOL, and Gents, We HOPE that you ALL find what you're looking for. We have, and that's some GREAT FRIENDS off this site...Time for us to say See Ya, take care and mostly RIDE SAFE!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Jun 21, 2006 13:06


    Hey gene I wasnt pissing moaning...damn now yer the women haters club?You obviously keep wanting to bring it up , go to yer own thread please!!!I am happy , like i said, I love all good men and hope you would love the good women.trust me when I say I aint no man hater , there are all kinds !
  • View author's info posted on Jun 21, 2006 12:12


    SNJGal write:
    No man hater here! I am happy to report that there are plenty of good men around. Many of my male friends on here are all good men. But not everyone of them is looking for a committed relationship. Not every one of them plays by the same life rules that I do. Every one is looking for something different. The trick is to talk talk talk and figure out up front what it is the other wants. If you are a player look for a player don't go for the unsuspecting person looking for a commited relationship and hurt them with your activities, if you are a partyer look for a fellow partyer not someone who does not drink and will never be happy in your partying world. If you want a person who wants only you then you need to act like a person who can be with only one and not the one who is ready to do everyone you meet. If you talk to a person long enough BEFORE YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT WITH THEM, then you will find out what they are all about and there is less chance of misinterpreting what the relationship can and will be. And for gawd's sake do not place expecations on someone that they cannot live up to or are unwilling to live up to for it will only bring disappointment. "Expectaions are nothing but premeditated resentments". Keep searching my friends and may you find what you are looking for.

    Why are you hidden?
  • View author's info posted on Jun 21, 2006 08:40


    Nezram write:
    gothic_biker_hippie write:
    Actually, I have met good men, but there is usually something wrong. Either they are boring, or too short, etc. No, I am not a judgemental person, but everyone has there likes and dis-likes or we would just hook up with whoever or whatever like animals do. I have noticed that the older I get, the harder it is. The men I meet that have teh look I am attracted to and have the same hobbies and interests as me, are either already married, on drugs, cheaters or beaters, or a combination of any or all of the above. The men I meet at church that do not have these bad qualities also don't know how to have fun to save their lives. I actually did meet 1 cool guy at church and he's married. Why can't I find someone like me? Someone who looks cool, who likes to go out, listen to rock 'n roll, ride Harleys, but also has a sense of responsibility, respect for home and family. It's either druggies or goody two-shoes. I give up.

    You need stronger drugs.

    HA! HA! HA! TOO funny. Hey, you look almost just like Marzen, a little more serious looking tho....
  • View author's info posted on Jun 21, 2006 06:16


    <----- A GOOD BAD BOY (MAN)!!! HE'S GOOD AT ALL THE RIGHT THINGS AND BAD AT ALL THE RIGHT TIMES!! P-E-R-F-E-C-T!!

    SORRY IF I'M BRAGGIN
    (not really *evilgrin*)

    Ladies they are out there!! I swear it!!

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  • View author's info posted on Jun 20, 2006 11:35


    No man hater here! I am happy to report that there are plenty of good men around. Many of my male friends on here are all good men. But not everyone of them is looking for a committed relationship. Not every one of them plays by the same life rules that I do. Every one is looking for something different. The trick is to talk talk talk and figure out up front what it is the other wants. If you are a player look for a player don't go for the unsuspecting person looking for a commited relationship and hurt them with your activities, if you are a partyer look for a fellow partyer not someone who does not drink and will never be happy in your partying world. If you want a person who wants only you then you need to act like a person who can be with only one and not the one who is ready to do everyone you meet. If you talk to a person long enough BEFORE YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT WITH THEM, then you will find out what they are all about and there is less chance of misinterpreting what the relationship can and will be. And for gawd's sake do not place expecations on someone that they cannot live up to or are unwilling to live up to for it will only bring disappointment. "Expectaions are nothing but premeditated resentments". Keep searching my friends and may you find what you are looking for.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 20, 2006 06:32


    Badbikerkitty write:
    this aint no man haters club gene....get over yerself!!! This site has few good men , but once again , I will say that I for one am happy and don't need a man to make me happy either.oh and arent you the reason there are man haters?At least you do admit it though.Most women here are looking for the 'one"....like any other dating site , now whats wrong with that?
    Ain't nothing wrong with looking for the "one" on this or any other dating site. But quit pissing & moaning & bithching about not finding anything but liars & cheaters.

    I'm the reason? How can me being honest give men a bad rap? Yes, I am honest that I do not get up in the morning and set out on a "mission" to find a woman. I am not looking for a serious relationship. I am looking for (and to be) a friend. If I get laid along the way it wasn't because I lied or made any false promises.

    Any solid relationship has to have friendship as the foundation for it to be successful. If not, when the passion wanes so does the relationship. If I find a friend on here and it develops into more than a friendship, great. I won't run from it. But I will let that HAPPEN on its own. I don't set out to try to MAKE it happen.

    And, I personally am not attracted to any woman who gets sloppy drunk, nasty & mean. And I don't know many men who are. If that's all you got to offer, then that's the kind of men you're gonna attract. I ain't pointing fingers. I'm just making a point. If you want a good man, be a good woman.

    I'm just sick of all this negative bullshit about men. There are just as many women on here that do the same thing to men. But you don't see the men on here crying about it and bashing women. Most of us accept responsibility for our part of the failure and just move on - hopefully wiser. A more positive attitude might bring more positive results. You get what you give.

    Don't piss me off and make me get mean.

    ~Slim
  • View author's info posted on Jun 20, 2006 00:02


    SeminoleSlim write:
    The Man Haters Central Thread is alive and well.

    I am sick and tired of all the whiny azz women on here pissing and moaning about they can't find a good man.

    Let me get straight to the point - maybe if all you attract are loosers, liars and cheaters you might need to look at yourself. If that is what YOU ATTRACT, then what does that say about you? Stop trying to blame the rest of the world for your poor character.

    I could sit here and say the same thing about a lot of the women out there - they are all liars, whores and users. But I have to accept ALL of the responsibility for the people I choose to let into my life. MY choices, MY descisions, MY mistakes, MY PROBLEM!!!

    I have a suggestion for all the Man Haters who love to throw some kind of Pity Party for themselves and want everyone to feel sorry for them because THEY make poor decisions and poor choices in men ....

    Shut The F'ck UP!

    Love & Kisses,
    ~Slim

    this aint no man haters club gene....get over yerself!!! This site has few good men , but once again , I will say that I for one am happy and don't need a man to make me happy either.oh and arent you the reason there are man haters?At least you do admit it though.Most women here are looking for the 'one"....like any other dating site , now whats wrong with that?
  • View author's info posted on Jun 19, 2006 20:23


    The Man Haters Central Thread is alive and well.

    I am sick and tired of all the whiny azz women on here pissing and moaning about they can't find a good man.

    Let me get straight to the point - maybe if all you attract are loosers, liars and cheaters you might need to look at yourself. If that is what YOU ATTRACT, then what does that say about you? Stop trying to blame the rest of the world for your poor character.

    I could sit here and say the same thing about a lot of the women out there - they are all liars, whores and users. But I have to accept ALL of the responsibility for the people I choose to let into my life. MY choices, MY descisions, MY mistakes, MY PROBLEM!!!

    I have a suggestion for all the Man Haters who love to throw some kind of Pity Party for themselves and want everyone to feel sorry for them because THEY make poor decisions and poor choices in men ....

    Shut The F'ck UP!

    Love & Kisses,
    ~Slim
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