SECKSEAONE write: Ok heres my take on the whole situation................#1..it's not just the men that are players....there are plenty of women that fit that catagory! #2..The problem is it is just too easy now...to get your next "online fix" " "the grass is always greener syndrome" as I like to refer to it! #3..No one takes the time to put forth the effort to know each other REALLY know each other......#4..Men and women are 2 VERY different animals.....Women don't LIKE drama ..it is just part of OUR makeup however big or small ...we handle things differently...what seems like a tiny little thing to a man it is LARGE to us! And vice versa....#5..It's time for people OUR age to start realizing that there is more to life than a large....Bank account(GIRLS) or a perfect body (Boyz) Cuz at the end of the day when all that sh*t falls away you better like whats underneath! #6..Make the EFFORT....TAKE the TIME.........HAVE FUN!!! Don't expect everything NOW! And for GAWDS SAKE......TELL THE F**kin truth for ONCE in your life...HONESTY goes a long way! ...cuz you are hurting innocent people that are honestly looking for something good in their life! Give people a chance we aren't ALL A**holes!!! Cheers!!!!!!! Be safe!
Beautifully said at the end of the day when all is said and done you need more than good looks and a big back account because they won't carry you thru the tough times you need to trust and truly care about each other don't say things just because you think someone wants to hear it say it because it's what you feel...I am no expert on this but I can tell you what I say is true I said it in a earlier post I'm not left but I am good Just ask Sharon! LOL
Ok heres my take on the whole situation................#1..it's not just the men that are players....there are plenty of women that fit that catagory! #2..The problem is it is just too easy now...to get your next "online fix" " "the grass is always greener syndrome" as I like to refer to it! #3..No one takes the time to put forth the effort to know each other REALLY know each other......#4..Men and women are 2 VERY different animals.....Women don't LIKE drama ..it is just part of OUR makeup however big or small ...we handle things differently...what seems like a tiny little thing to a man it is LARGE to us! And vice versa....#5..It's time for people OUR age to start realizing that there is more to life than a large....Bank account(GIRLS) or a perfect body (Boyz) Cuz at the end of the day when all that sh*t falls away you better like whats underneath! #6..Make the EFFORT....TAKE the TIME.........HAVE FUN!!! Don't expect everything NOW! And for GAWDS SAKE......TELL THE F**kin truth for ONCE in your life...HONESTY goes a long way! ...cuz you are hurting innocent people that are honestly looking for something good in their life! Give people a chance we aren't ALL A**holes!!! Cheers!!!!!!! Be safe!
jes69 write: well kitty...i do have to agree with u..at 49 it is really hard to find someone who is looking for the same things in life...either too much baggage and b/s...would really like to find a partner who can also understand the need for a woman to be independant when she needs to be...i can find men, but either they have fear of committment or the complete opposite...oh well (sigh) will keep searching....nothing else to do...lol
We men have the same problems too...as we get older..the chances start to slide away even further.
SeminoleSlim write: i'm a lying, cheating dog. but i'm good at it. does that count?
Slim...You don't seem like a liar to me..but what do I know just from your words?? As far a being a dog....I think if both people know what the nature of the relationship is...and agree, then no one gets hurt. That's why Baskin Robbins makes 33 flavors..to each their own...it's the bullchit of wantin' to have your cake and eat it too that sends me over the edge...the ol' Madonna/'Ho syndrome. I know you will crack me up with your come back..so I await your reply!! Peace/Serenity
i only labeled myself as a liar so i would fit neatly into the category that some women have created for all men on here. although i am a very honest, upfront, and direct person ... i don't want any lady to have to burn any brain cells trying to figure out where they should file me. but really, i am honest - to a fault.
if women were the equivalent of the 33 flavors from Baskin Robbins i be one fat son-of-a-biatch, cuz i like all flavors and want to taste them all. i might even find my favorite flavor and one that i would want to stick with as i went thru them all. and the licking is soooooo much fun. and i don't even mind getting some on me ....
jes69 write: well kitty...i do have to agree with u..at 49 it is really hard to find someone who is looking for the same things in life...either too much baggage and b/s...would really like to find a partner who can also understand the need for a woman to be independant when she needs to be...i can find men, but either they have fear of committment or the complete opposite...oh well (sigh) will keep searching....nothing else to do...lol
Pssst!! Try searchin the southwest, the dry desert climate preserves us longer, or it mummifies us quicker, I forget which......
SeminoleSlim write: i'm a lying, cheating dog. but i'm good at it. does that count?
Slim...You don't seem like a liar to me..but what do I know just from your words?? As far a being a dog....I think if both people know what the nature of the relationship is...and agree, then no one gets hurt. That's why Baskin Robbins makes 33 flavors..to each their own...it's the bullchit of wantin' to have your cake and eat it too that sends me over the edge...the ol' Madonna/'Ho syndrome. I know you will crack me up with your come back..so I await your reply!! Peace/Serenity
i only labeled myself as a liar so i would fit neatly into the category that some women have created for all men on here. although i am a very honest, upfront, and direct person ... i don't want any lady to have to burn any brain cells trying to figure out where they should file me. but really, i am honest - to a fault.
if women were the equivalent of the 33 flavors from Baskin Robbins i be one fat son-of-a-biatch, cuz i like all flavors and want to taste them all. i might even find my favorite flavor and one that i would want to stick with as i went thru them all. and the licking is soooooo much fun. and i don't even mind getting some on me ....
well kitty...i do have to agree with u..at 49 it is really hard to find someone who is looking for the same things in life...either too much baggage and b/s...would really like to find a partner who can also understand the need for a woman to be independant when she needs to be...i can find men, but either they have fear of committment or the complete opposite...oh well (sigh) will keep searching....nothing else to do...lol
BadBikerDawg write: I'm DAMN GOOD but I'm not left! LMAO
Hey when did you go to COUPLE?? lol.. I gotta pay more attention. Ok spi;; it.. who's the lucky girl? I want pictures too! Congrats :O)~
She's someone who I have been seeing off and on for the last couple of years but with my most recent events has turned out to be more than just a friend, she has really been here for me and has shown me what it's like to have someone truely care about me and what happens to me, I never gave her the chance before but when my son passed away ahe was right there and then with my accident she never hesitated she stepped right up to help me she wanted to be the one I never looked at her that way before so she really opened my eyes and I really don't think I could be any happier well maybe I could but I'm not going there.
BadBikerDawg write: I'm DAMN GOOD but I'm not left! LMAO
So does this mean yer right?NOT!!!lmao But you aint single hunny!!!!!
Hey what are you saying???LMAO no you know I'm not right but I'm not left either.... and your'e right I'm no longer a single man I've made the commitment I'm no longer in the game and damn Ms. Kitty I didn't even get to dance with you damn the bad luck!
BadBikerDawg write: I'm DAMN GOOD but I'm not left! LMAO
Hey when did you go to COUPLE?? lol.. I gotta pay more attention. Ok spi;; it.. who's the lucky girl? I want pictures too! Congrats :O)~
She's someone who I have been seeing off and on for the last couple of years but with my most recent events has turned out to be more than just a friend, she has really been here for me and has shown me what it's like to have someone truely care about me and what happens to me, I never gave her the chance before but when my son passed away ahe was right there and then with my accident she never hesitated she stepped right up to help me she wanted to be the one I never looked at her that way before so she really opened my eyes and I really don't think I could be any happier well maybe I could but I'm not going there.
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