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Posted on Tue, Jul 05, 2005 12:32

BEING OVER 40 IS WONDERFUL.... I GUESS IT'S WHETHER YOU WANT TO TEACH OR BE TAUGHT IS THE QUESTION



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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 23:16

Over 40 yes I am...over 50, yes I am. I am so happy to be there too.

Each year I seem to get more and more content with who I am. I feel confident and self-assured.

Last year a mean and ugly person tore my heart out .. threw it on the ground..and stomped it. I picked it up, gently put it back, and let it heal.
My confidence, self assuredness had been crushed.

As it healed..I learned much about me. I had to pull deep from within..had I not been experienced in life b/c of my age it may have ruined me. But b/c I was who I was before, it made me a better person.

I now have an even healthier outlook on myself and life. It hurt like hell but I learned valuable lessons that will carry me on.

As for being a BBW...I am. I feel I am even more appealing now than ever. My beauty seems to come from within now and radiates outward. If a man does not want me b/c of that...then he is not a man for me. I have found that there are many men who do find me attractive and desirable. So now when I am discarded as a person by a man who feels I am too heavy that's ok. They end up being a good friend usually if they are a good person inside. If not, then I wouldn't want that person in my life as a friend or as a manfriend.

Guess it's that old saying..'You must love yourself before anyone else can'.



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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 18:30


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No Tink you helped believe that... Just that a woman I talked to last night helped me through alot.. Noooooooo I am not EYE CANDY but its all good.. I am what I am.. RIGHT? RIGHT!!!!!!!



Ok then, have it your way. But I'm only agreeing cuz I'm too tired to fight.

  


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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 17:31

50+ is a great place to be especially in svaz.us ( SE Arizona )
the riding is the best!



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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 17:30


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BabyGirl4You831 write:

Seeme Sis thank you.. As I was told last night by someone that BBW is great.. That is the truth,,I have the power to change and really why should I .. He married me the same way I am today and for me to change is not nor will it ever make me any less of a woman.. The way I look at it is that just some men like the *EYE CANDY* for their arms and like I said they can have it.. I am the way I am and will NEVER let another man talk me down and because of a converstaion I had last night will make me even STRONGER... This person gave me the strength to really feel what and who I am all about.. I have gotten alot of POSITIVE feedback from everyone on here.
And I can't tell you or express enough
GRATITUDE from everyone..Including the
brothers and the sisters on here.. So if it were allowed I would send you all not a single rose from me but 12 beautiful long stem roses for each and everyone that is helping me through this
Once again thank you......



WOOOHOOOO Now THAT'S more like it sister!! DANG, whoever gave you a talkin to last night obviously has a much better way with words than I, congratulations to them, because they made you BELIEVE what we've been saying all along. Standing ovation for you and your new friend Darlin!!!!!

Oh, BTW, what makes you think you're NOT eye candy Hun? Have I got news for you!!!!

No Tink you helped believe that... Just that a woman I talked to last night helped me through alot.. Noooooooo I am not EYE CANDY but its all good.. I am what I am.. RIGHT? RIGHT!!!!!!!

  


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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 17:12


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Seeme Sis thank you.. As I was told last night by someone that BBW is great.. That is the truth,,I have the power to change and really why should I .. He married me the same way I am today and for me to change is not nor will it ever make me any less of a woman.. The way I look at it is that just some men like the *EYE CANDY* for their arms and like I said they can have it.. I am the way I am and will NEVER let another man talk me down and because of a converstaion I had last night will make me even STRONGER... This person gave me the strength to really feel what and who I am all about.. I have gotten alot of POSITIVE feedback from everyone on here.
And I can't tell you or express enough
GRATITUDE from everyone..Including the
brothers and the sisters on here.. So if it were allowed I would send you all not a single rose from me but 12 beautiful long stem roses for each and everyone that is helping me through this
Once again thank you......



WOOOHOOOO Now THAT'S more like it sister!! DANG, whoever gave you a talkin to last night obviously has a much better way with words than I, congratulations to them, because they made you BELIEVE what we've been saying all along. Standing ovation for you and your new friend Darlin!!!!!

Oh, BTW, what makes you think you're NOT eye candy Hun? Have I got news for you!!!!

  


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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 14:45


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That's it Tink! Remember what I told you last night?? That little posting you have to add to your profile!? LOL Too bad we girls can't clone you!



Awwww, sweetheart you have no idea how much it makes my heart skip a beat when you even suggest 'that little posting'. Thanks sooo much darlin, you made my day...AGAIN!!!

Hot4hogs and Ladyvulcan, I couldn't agree more about the aplause thingy. If they had one, every time I spoke of all you sweet, warm, caring and adorable ladies on BK, I'd tack on a standing ovation!!!!

Here's a big wet one for Angel, my dreamgirl from afar and my new yardstick of all that a woman CAN be.
Luv you Darlin!!!



Tink, Tink, Tink!!! Back at ya Sweetie!

  


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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 14:04

u all see what i look like. I always felt the elephant man was My life story.So a pretty filipina girl had no trouble making me fall for her. After 19 months she left, with citizenship, money, and a pack of lies to excuse her actions that caused family to shelter her and turn against me. ill probly always be alone, but im gonna be the best me i can be,you all have more to work with than me. But if i can be strong, happy,you certainly can. See ya on the Blue Ridge!



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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 13:46


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Babygirl

you are a beautiful woman--and i know what the men we lived with can effect the ego--but he had taste in his butt as far as i'm concerned
the big thing is YOU WERE JUST TO GOOD FOR HIM AND HIS EGO COULDN'T HANDLE IT

so be true to yourself and most of all love yourself

Seeme Sis thank you.. As I was told last night by someone that BBW is great.. That is the truth,,I have the power to change and really why should I .. He married me the same way I am today and for me to change is not nor will it ever make me any less of a woman.. The way I look at it is that just some men like the *EYE CANDY* for their arms and like I said they can have it.. I am the way I am and will NEVER let another man talk me down and because of a converstaion I had last night will make me even STRONGER... This person gave me the strength to really feel what and who I am all about.. I have gotten alot of POSITIVE feedback from everyone on here.
And I can't tell you or express enough
GRATITUDE from everyone..Including the
brothers and the sisters on here.. So if it were allowed I would send you all not a single rose from me but 12 beautiful long stem roses for each and everyone that is helping me through this
Once again thank you......

  


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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 13:36

Babygirl

you are a beautiful woman--and i know what the men we lived with can effect the ego--but he had taste in his butt as far as i'm concerned
the big thing is YOU WERE JUST TO GOOD FOR HIM AND HIS EGO COULDN'T HANDLE IT

so be true to yourself and most of all love yourself

  


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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 10:34


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BabyGirl4You831 write:
Tink thank you for your kind words... However I would LOVE to look some of the girls on this site.. THIN,BEAUTIFUL,
have it altogether, and mostly have the love from some ppl. I thought about a yr ago that I would try this site out and the only way I stumbled across it is because my husband now ex sent me a pic of someone and said that he was in love with this woman. She was beautiful.
The only way I knew she was from here is because it said Bikerkiss at the bottom of her pic.Then I joined thought I thought well I might as well try to fit in SOMEWHERE.. Well anyway that is the sad story.. Maybe someday I will have the love to get and to give.. AGAIN thank you Tink for your kind words

Hugs Babygirl! You are not alone! I'm happy to call you a friend! Hang tough, it just takes time and therapy...BK style!

Awwwww Thanx Hottie,.. I have met some truly awesome ppl and just added one to my list last night .. Had a long talk to someone and she made feel like I was worth something.. Now for all us BBW it is a NATURAL beauty. Something I know I can live with.. And to all you men out here who want skinny (nothingwrong with them) women can have them... Or if ya looking for eye candy your in for a BIGGGGGGGGGG SURPRISE...

  


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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 04:17


hot4hogs write:

eclipsecoach write:
Are you kidding me? There is absolutely nothing sexier than the women in the 35 plus generation. For me it includes not only looks, but the attitude and the maturity that comes with age and experience.

I've never met any of you in person (yet), but all of these qualities come thru on this site with many of you, and it is refreshing and a turn-on. Thank you ladies!

Cheers, Moonman! I flew all the way to Ohio and missed a jewel like you! (And, of course, Thigh, Char, Rev,...)

Thank you for the sweet words Southern Princess.

  
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Posted on Mon, Jul 04, 2005 00:19


BabyGirl4You831 write:

Thank you Tink and Softail.. Words of kindness make us (me) feel good..


My pleasure BG, nothing gives me greater joy than making a beautiful woman feel good.

This bud's for you Hun.

  


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Posted on Sun, Jul 03, 2005 20:45


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tinker1000 write:

BabyGirl4You831 write:
Tink thank you for your kind words... However I would LOVE to look some of the girls on this site.. THIN,BEAUTIFUL,



Awwww sweetheart, it seems that you equate thin with beautiful. Admittedly, thin is usually better from a health standpoint, hence my new diet, but believe me sweetheart, you are a very beautiful woman. The fact that you are also a sweet, sensitive, caring person only adds to the attraction, but your looks alone were enough to catch my eye. I really hope that you do find a very special guy that will love you well and tell you how beautiful you are, maybe then you can start to see yourself through our eyes.


Ladies I have to agree with Tink also... Something about you all is soothing and appealing to me and all us men... that is very sexy and wanting... Do not fear of your yearning. We may gaze for a moment only, but we know in our hearts and souls you and you alone can make us complete.. BBG... and every one else.. You are all beautiful within our eyes..

Thank you Tink and Softail.. Words of kindness make us (me) feel good..

  


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Posted on Sun, Jul 03, 2005 20:12


tinker1000 write:

BabyGirl4You831 write:
Tink thank you for your kind words... However I would LOVE to look some of the girls on this site.. THIN,BEAUTIFUL,



Awwww sweetheart, it seems that you equate thin with beautiful. Admittedly, thin is usually better from a health standpoint, hence my new diet, but believe me sweetheart, you are a very beautiful woman. The fact that you are also a sweet, sensitive, caring person only adds to the attraction, but your looks alone were enough to catch my eye. I really hope that you do find a very special guy that will love you well and tell you how beautiful you are, maybe then you can start to see yourself through our eyes.


Ladies I have to agree with Tink also... Something about you all is soothing and appealing to me and all us men... that is very sexy and wanting... Do not fear of your yearning. We may gaze for a moment only, but we know in our hearts and souls you and you alone can make us complete.. BBG... and every one else.. You are all beautiful within our eyes..



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Posted on Sun, Jul 03, 2005 19:54


beatitudes_5 write:
softtail-thank god your over the 40 year itch.........lol........


Dang... Lmao.... Thank You!!!!!...



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Posted on Sun, Jul 03, 2005 18:16

softtail-thank god your over the 40 year itch.........lol........



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Posted on Sun, Jul 03, 2005 14:36

Over age 40 and over the 40 yr ITCH... Yippie.....

  


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Posted on Sun, Jul 03, 2005 13:46


BabyGirl4You831 write:
Tink thank you for your kind words... However I would LOVE to look some of the girls on this site.. THIN,BEAUTIFUL,



Awwww sweetheart, it seems that you equate thin with beautiful. Admittedly, thin is usually better from a health standpoint, hence my new diet, but believe me sweetheart, you are a very beautiful woman. The fact that you are also a sweet, sensitive, caring person only adds to the attraction, but your looks alone were enough to catch my eye. I really hope that you do find a very special guy that will love you well and tell you how beautiful you are, maybe then you can start to see yourself through our eyes.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 03, 2005 13:15

Tink thank you for your kind words... However I would LOVE to look some of the girls on this site.. THIN,BEAUTIFUL,
have it altogether, and mostly have the love from some ppl. I thought about a yr ago that I would try this site out and the only way I stumbled across it is because my husband now ex sent me a pic of someone and said that he was in love with this woman. She was beautiful.
The only way I knew she was from here is because it said Bikerkiss at the bottom of her pic.Then I joined thought I thought well I might as well try to fit in SOMEWHERE.. Well anyway that is the sad story.. Maybe someday I will have the love to get and to give.. AGAIN thank you Tink for your kind words

  


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