Eye_m_no_angel write: Those of you that know me from this site know I seldom get serious here very often. But I am dead serious when I say that anyone who does not have an intimate knowledge of 1%ers needs to pay close attention to what HD, Blu, Char, Chessie, Falcon, and others are saying. They know of what they speak.
I've thought about this forum long and hard.. I don't reply to much, but Blu is exactly right! As the one left behind, be d a m n sure this is the life you want. If you've never lived this lifestyle you don't have a clue. It's not for everyone..
DakotaBlu write: Ukin... I was gonna keep quiet on this but decided what the hell.... please understand that I'm speaking as the one that was "left behind" and my words are spoken with respect and concern... "just say NO"... I wish I had said those words to someone else so many years ago......
Ukin, there's one thing I know. Blu knows,take her advice.
Ukin... I was gonna keep quiet on this but decided what the hell.... please understand that I'm speaking as the one that was "left behind" and my words are spoken with respect and concern... "just say NO"... I wish I had said those words to someone else so many years ago......
harleydragon write: it's a gamble and you know they say never gamble with what you are not prepared to lose.I think the odds are stacked against you
I play Poker...and I know when to bet and when to fold...I don't like odds stacked against me. Been invited to "Church" this Friday..decision time is looming HD.
Church? Already? Interesting.
Take your time and think about what you?re doing. This is a culture you need to take very seriously and I can see that you recognize that. Knowing what you?re doing before you do it is going to be your best asset at this time. Educate yourself. You should know RIGHT NOW if your club member material or not. If you don't feel it in your heart then I suggest staying a hang around or it will be a very long and hard road. A road that is very hard to exit. Even more so for membership with a support club. Good luck in your venture.
Ukin, If your askin HDragon his advice..and your studying this long and hard..and your saying the word "looming"...don't you feel somewhere inside you already know?
Sweetie...thank you for the words..and yes, inside me I do have a feeling as to my route. Like Dragon, I have already been "there" albeit, not over here..and over here is a little different to over there lol (hope you can follow!)
I think that we both agree that really, at our age, the time to lay back and relax is high upon our lists!
think long and hard because you know others will try to influence you into making the decision they want. It ain't your first rodeo and you know its a long , bumpy dirt road. I can understand wanting the comradery and feeling of family but bro , you can find that in better places
Yup...ya can and that is true. sent you a letter explaning a little about it...sorry about the typos's in the last couple of words...saw them as I hit the send button lol
Okay, now ya'll got my curiosity going, time for a little research. Put my thinkin cap on. To Be Continued.
Jerry - HD, Gruff & SLB know of what they speak. SLB gave you just one example. Leaving this alone is in the best interest.
Hey Kat, congrads on the book girl. Is that George Jones behind you? congrads again. Made two call's today to some old buds in reference to this original topic, I'm not surprised at the areas they thrive in, not around here though, won't happen. Case Closed.
ok...close friends usually end up with the dirt jobs and low men on the totem pole end up taking the most chances and are the one to take the fall most of the time. I can think of much better vacation spots..
Me too...and I have been hesitant because I didn't have my full residency permit..but now I do have that safely..but deportion still isn't nice lol
harleydragon write: there are good and bad points to what you are considering.the further you are from the top , the more expendable you are and you know which rung on the ladder a probate stands on. You are grown so just use your own good sense and weigh the pros and cons
One thing does concern m..and you made that point, maybe not intentional, but then, maybe it was...the "Grown Up" part. Age is immaterial, that I do know..but MY age could be a pitfall.
Need to clear up though, it's not for the 81, but "Friends" of theirs Close Friends.
I am making logical thoughts Bro, but your advice is more than welcome...and appreciated. I have been there before, just not in the USA.
speedyjerry write: Call me a Redneck, I reckon that I am but after reading every reply in this topic I'm confused. I thought most of those gangs, referred to as "Clubs" here were eliminated years ago as they were around this part of the state. I haven't heard of that sort of activity in Florida for decades. I read all these lady comments about "Feeling Safe"? Duh, If you willingly hang out with a group that drugs and "Gang Trains" women at party's for entertainment you might think your'e safe from your bud's but if they pick on the wrong gal in the wrong town from the right family ain't nobody gonna be safe. I don't get it, this is 2005.