Harleydragon I'll have to agree with you! People like to assume they know what the life is all about, but until you live this life you don't have a clue.
I realize as I write this that it will not be a popular post but most of you know that I really don't care about that. When you say clubs to me it means real clubs and not mickey mouse clubs. I have a lot of brothers who belong to several of these real clubs and have no problems there at all and have a good time visiting with old brothers.Most of you have no business there. You may have enjoyed your visit but stay away because most of you do not want what comes with that life.Ask a 1%ers x ole lady.The man might have been great but the whole life wasn't to most
As a woman, I have more fear of men NOT in clubs than I do of men IN clubs. The men IN clubs have an understanding of rules, respect, unity, trust, bonds, friendship and are not set out to impress each other, they are instead peers. Men NOT in clubs feel the need to "one up" each other, induce showmanship, act out, impress others, and have no true leader, no unity amongst themselves, no bonds of friendship or of council.
Club anytime....
the "MEN" i do know are one of a kind people, they show me the respect i give, i have been invited and in, had a freak'n blast.....not to mention the feeling of utt-most safety and protection...but eyes/ears always open..
I have friends that have held office in clubs, that are riders in clubs, and that are presently officers in clubs... never felt anything but comfortable with them all!
Uneasy? No, not very often at all. But it also depends on what type of club you are referring to and what they are doing. (Also what I am doing at the time.) There's quite a bit of difference between a motorcycle riders club and true 1%ers, which is what I have dealt with mostly. I've never been invited to the clubhouse although I have been in it, and never will be invited. Least-ways not around here!
I know lots of guys in clubs, and they treat me well, I have much respect for them, they would help me in anyway.
I have not been to their cluhouse but know them as great friends,