Widow and Widowers post only please. Romance

  • View author's info posted on Dec 19, 2005 22:41


    pom write:
    well friend i know and understand about divorced or widow ladies ...becuse my older sister is widow ..and now days she is with me she is alone person ...also don,t have bf who with she go out or any fun ...but some times or even last month she want to drive bike and i was sit back her she was wear a gown only and i was wear nicker ..and that was i really harding feel and i push my horse between her thighs ...and she was 30 mints drive in forest ..and i discharge on seat ....

    You are lower than low class little boy. Why in the world would you post such garbage in this particular thread?
  • View author's info posted on Dec 18, 2005 09:50


    I want to send wishes to all of the Widows and Widowers here. May you find light and hope under your Christmas tree this year. Here's to a new year filled with dreams of a bright new future. Bea? Merry Christmas and a happy new year to you and Chkn. I wish you both a world of happiness, my friend. You deserve it girl.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 17, 2005 12:17


    yup, its this time of year again........so many mixed and confussed feelings.....it strange but tommorrow the 18 would of been my anniversay, and on that same day, 17 years later i am starting in a new relationship.....i thought that was strange, and of course, with the mind and all the tricks it plays, we compare time-dates, ect and pray to god it's not going to happen again, all the bad stuff...but that is silly thinking-just fear i imagine from somewhere in the gray matter.....but to all of you i wish with all my heart that the season brings many smiles---both new and old---maybe this is the time of the year that we understand somethings are beyond our control, for reasons we don't understand yet, but i wish each and everyone of you a wonderful christmas and dreams that do come true....after all it is that time of year...............
  • View author's info posted on Dec 16, 2005 12:56


    To everyone on BK but a special Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to the widows and widowers. May your Holliday Season be easy and filled with joy. May you get just the right toy. May your season be filled with love, hugs, smiles, laughter, rainbows and butterflies. May your season be filled with good friends and warm feelings deep in your heart. Ride like there is no tomorrow with the feeling of freedom and smile as you ride and feel the cold wind in your face. Keep a grin on your chin and your knees in the breeze. Merry Christmas from the bottom of my heart. Dane
  • View author's info posted on Nov 30, 2005 12:41


    And more Hugs...
  • View author's info posted on Nov 28, 2005 14:10


    Suzananana write:

    verdaineg write:
    Give Thanks this Thanksgiving day for the time we got to spend with them. Look at the wonderful times we had with them and smile all day. I will smile all weekend and even Monday. For Monday would have been her 50th Birthday. Once again. What a great ride. Yeeeeeeee Haawwwwwwww!!!



    Thinking of you today Dane, and knowing that you are smiling.....


    Thank you!! Yep I have been smilin' all day. Tonight at half time of the game. I will toast her and release her totally. She has been talkin' to a lot of folks about that. Thanksgiving day I went to see her head stone at Ft. Logan National Cemetary. I was on call all weekend at work. I only got two calls all weekend. They both occured while I was visiting her headstone. After the second call, I looked up and said, "I can take a hint. You are tellin' me to get a life". I left with a smile on my face and tonight I will toast her at half time and let her move on by moving on myself. It is a great day. It is her 50th birthday. May your day be filled with love, hugs, smiles, laughter and warm wonderful feelings deep in your heart.
    Dane
  • View author's info posted on Nov 28, 2005 06:43


    verdaineg write:
    Give Thanks this Thanksgiving day for the time we got to spend with them. Look at the wonderful times we had with them and smile all day. I will smile all weekend and even Monday. For Monday would have been her 50th Birthday. Once again. What a great ride. Yeeeeeeee Haawwwwwwww!!!


    Thinking of you today Dane, and knowing that you are smiling.....
  • View author's info posted on Nov 28, 2005 05:19


    MSJACQUE write:
    I KNOW WHAT GETS ME IS MY DIVORCED FRIENDS TELLING ME I NEED TO GET ON WITH MY LIFE.AND TELLING ME THEY KNOW WHAT IM GOING THRU,AND IN THE MEAN TIME THEY ARE ALREADY HOOKED UP WITH SOME ELSE.THEY DONT KNOW SQUAT,NOT EXPECTING TILL DEATH DO YOU PART COME SO SOON,BUT THANK YOU FOR THE INTEREST IN THIS,IT MAKES UP FOR ALOT ON HEAR

    they will never understand, or realize how lucky they were to have someone they loved still.....and yes it is a shame that people can't understand the death we do part thing.........
  • View author's info posted on Nov 28, 2005 05:16


    thunderunderme write:
    Shortly after Rocky passed I moved my rings from my left hand to my right.
    I still wear my rings on my right hand. I've had that band on for 36 years and I see no problem with leaving it there. How do ya'll feel about that?
    What do(did) you do?

    when my daughter made her communion, i gave her her dad's wedding band........my engagment ring sits in a box, i wear it sometimes, but it will go to the first granddaughter who marries........char-where ever or what ever you do with the rings is fine....my grandmother made her rings into a mothers ring-both sodered together and the grandchildren's birthstones placed in the middle........
  • View author's info posted on Nov 24, 2005 22:13


    I KNOW WHAT GETS ME IS MY DIVORCED FRIENDS TELLING ME I NEED TO GET ON WITH MY LIFE.AND TELLING ME THEY KNOW WHAT IM GOING THRU,AND IN THE MEAN TIME THEY ARE ALREADY HOOKED UP WITH SOME ELSE.THEY DONT KNOW SQUAT,NOT EXPECTING TILL DEATH DO YOU PART COME SO SOON,BUT THANK YOU FOR THE INTEREST IN THIS,IT MAKES UP FOR ALOT ON HEAR
  • View author's info posted on Nov 24, 2005 18:44


    thunderunderme write:
    Shortly after Rocky passed I moved my rings from my left hand to my right.
    I still wear my rings on my right hand. I've had that band on for 36 years and I see no problem with leaving it there. How do ya'll feel about that?
    What do(did) you do?


    Sweet Char. You are doin' the perfect thing. I personally try to remember in my heart. I think about her when I think about her. I may go a few days without thinking about her but when I do, I think she wants me to get a life. That is just me. Everyone is different and there is no right or wrong way to handle any of this.
    Dane
  • View author's info posted on Nov 23, 2005 19:13


    (((((((Dreamer))))))))
    Chkn: Thanks for sharing footprints in the grass. Beautiful.
    hugs to all, I will be thinking of you all, especially on Thanksgiving Day
    DD
  • View author's info posted on Nov 23, 2005 17:44


    beatitudes_5 write:

    verdaineg write:
    Give Thanks this Thanksgiving day for the time we got to spend with them. Look at the wonderful times we had with them and smile all day. I will smile all weekend and even Monday. For Monday would have been her 50th Birthday. Once again. What a great ride. Yeeeeeeee Haawwwwwwww!!!

    BIG 50, WOW....AND YES YOU ARE RIGHT, THIS CAN BE A VERY SAD TIME OF YEAR FOR PEOPLE AND IT IS HARD, BUT EVERYONE PLEASE TRY TO FOCUS ON WHAT WE EITHER HAD AND WHAT WE HAVE NOW, NOT WHAT WAS LOST.....HAPPY THANKSGIVEN TO YOU ALL..............

    I agree Bea!!!!! And, likewise, Happy Thanksgiving to everyone.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 23, 2005 17:43


    thunderunderme write:
    Shortly after Rocky passed I moved my rings from my left hand to my right.
    I still wear my rings on my right hand. I've had that band on for 36 years and I see no problem with leaving it there. How do ya'll feel about that?
    What do(did) you do?

    I see no problem with that Char, if that is what feels right to you? Then it right. I had my wedding band and engagement ring made into a cocktail ring and I still wear it.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 23, 2005 15:22


    Shortly after Rocky passed I moved my rings from my left hand to my right.
    I still wear my rings on my right hand. I've had that band on for 36 years and I see no problem with leaving it there. How do ya'll feel about that?
    What do(did) you do?
  • View author's info posted on Nov 23, 2005 08:43


    verdaineg write:
    Give Thanks this Thanksgiving day for the time we got to spend with them. Look at the wonderful times we had with them and smile all day. I will smile all weekend and even Monday. For Monday would have been her 50th Birthday. Once again. What a great ride. Yeeeeeeee Haawwwwwwww!!!

    BIG 50, WOW....AND YES YOU ARE RIGHT, THIS CAN BE A VERY SAD TIME OF YEAR FOR PEOPLE AND IT IS HARD, BUT EVERYONE PLEASE TRY TO FOCUS ON WHAT WE EITHER HAD AND WHAT WE HAVE NOW, NOT WHAT WAS LOST.....HAPPY THANKSGIVEN TO YOU ALL..............
  • View author's info posted on Nov 23, 2005 06:47


    Give Thanks this Thanksgiving day for the time we got to spend with them. Look at the wonderful times we had with them and smile all day. I will smile all weekend and even Monday. For Monday would have been her 50th Birthday. Once again. What a great ride. Yeeeeeeee Haawwwwwwww!!!
  • View author's info posted on Nov 21, 2005 17:27


    Shame on you Chkn for making me cry! However, it did bring back some very happy thoughts from a lifetime ago. thanks!
  • View author's info posted on Nov 21, 2005 17:13


    No, the thank you is really to you all.
    I admit it took me awhile to read all the post in this thread. I have wanted to read it for a while but just wouldn't. Maybe cause I was a little afraid of the flood of emotion it would cause. And I was right. All of you here and your memories touched me so deeply it brought out something I haven't thought of in years. What I wrote is for you all, you inspired it, you made me remember.....
    Thankyou
    Chkn
  • View author's info posted on Nov 21, 2005 11:05


    chkn write:
    Wow! I feel like I'm walking on Hallowed ground here, don't even know if I qualify to post. I won't get into my lose cause the relationship was far to complex to discribe, but alot of you brought up some things that bring a happy pain to my heart. And I feel I'd like to share something with you all. You the ones that have lost and you the ones that may be with someone that had a lose.
    Her name was Sue, she had just reached her 15th birthday when we got married 6/26/1972. She was my high school sweet heart, off and on. I wish I could say we had years together like some of you, but we didn't have that. Our life together was just like our dating, off and on....
    Here's what I want to say.
    I remeber every time I here the song "Night Moves". I'm sure there are people that can say that song was there's but beleive me every word of that song fits my situation then, and it spooks me still...
    It's not so much a shame for me to say now that I was driving to school by the end of eight grad. I was sixteen, and had a car. Sue told me she had never had been on a picnic. You know food, blacket and all. I remember thinking how dumb. But I did it anyway for her. You know all the way down to borrowing my mothers basket and all. My mom was tickled about it, but was the one that really did all the work. Anyway for this picnic I knew the perfect spot. and this is where I took Sue on that clear satuday morning, thankyou God still for the weather. As if it was just today, I remember after we got there in the middle of this huge grass field w/trees, the grass was about a foot and a half high and the blankit only floated on top of it. Sue said she was gonna go find a good spot for us, and left. As I gathered up everthing to fallow when I turned around from the truck of the car, she was gone. My hands were full and the car keys werein my mouth so calling out was a waist of time. Then I saw it, in the grass, the path she took. the grass was parted and with the dew of that morning you could see every step she took. And soon I was back with her. And that day was one of the high lights in my life, and at first I thought it was gonna be a dumb thing.
    My point to this is, its not what we did that day, that I want to share, but it's something about those foot prints in the grass that seem so important to me now. I can still see them. We all have had lives before, and in these lives there were people we loved. Like those foot prints in the grass that day.
    Others have left foot prints in the hearst of all of us, always leading us back to a time. To you that lost and to you with those having lost, remember. These foot prints in the hearts are just there, love them, they are the gifts that make us who we are today. There is no requirement for them to be brushed out, as they never can be. Nor are they there to be filled, cause that should not be either and I think would be sad. So rather than if one is to be put off by an others foot prints try to remember, you shall be making youre own in the hearts of others. To the tipe of memory they lead to is up to you. So that somedays, maybe as warm summer breaze brushes the hair of the one you love, maybe just maybee the foot prints you left will lead them back to thoughts of you. This thought gives me contentment today. So remember where ever they are to make room in your hearts and the people around you for the foot prints of others, Gone By.
    Chkn

    Thank you so much, Chkn, for sharing...thank you...
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