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The Mayonnaise Jar & 2 Cups of Coffee
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Posted on Wed, Oct 19, 2005 07:00

THE MAYONNAISE JAR AND 2 CUPS OF COFFEE

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a
day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee...

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and
empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
agreed it was. The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it
into the jar.

Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the
jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous yes." The professor
then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire
contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the
sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
important things -- your God, family, your children, your health, your
friends, and your favorite passions -- things that if everything else was
lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and
your car.

The sand is everything else -- the small stuff."

"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room
for the pebbles or the golf balls."

The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small
stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with
your children. Take time to get medical checkups.

Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time
to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first
-- the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just
sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
represented.

The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no
matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of
cups of coffee with a friend."

Please share this with someone you care about including who sent it to you.
I JUST DID.
THE MAYONNAISE JAR AND 2 CUPS OF COFFEE

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a
day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee...

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and
empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
agreed it was. The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it
into the jar.

Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the
jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous yes." The professor
then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire
contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the
sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
important things -- your God, family, your children, your health, your
friends, and your favorite passions -- things that if everything else was
lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and
your car.

The sand is everything else -- the small stuff."

"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room
for the pebbles or the golf balls."

The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small
stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with
your children. Take time to get medical checkups.

Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time
to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first
-- the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just
sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
represented.

The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no
matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of
cups of coffee with a friend."

Please share this with someone you care about including who sent it to you.
I JUST DID.

  


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Angelrider800
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Posted on Wed, Oct 19, 2005 16:38

revolutionarypassion write:
AWWW!!! Thanks!!
What a great story!

Now I just have to find someone who doesn't mind if I have tea instead of coffee! LOL!!

Thanks again!

-Rev

Thanks C....verry nice story!!! One of the things I love you much for...your optomistic outlook, Sis! :)

Rev, lil Sister, I wouldn't mind a bit in the world for you to have tea instead of coffee..I'll even have a cup with you...even got honey to go in it...I love hot tea as well as coffee! Come on over and we'll share a story or two with a couple cups!

Love both of you very much!!!

  


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Posted on Wed, Oct 19, 2005 09:35

DoubleDelight write:
Hi!
Thanks for that! Wonderful...

I ran a Fibromyalgia support group for 3 years. International support group leader for 5. Took many fone calls from around the world and had a newsletter that was International. I would write/say: Imagine we all have a jar-filled with marbles. Each one represents energy. On a good day, there will be many marbles, on a bad one: only a few may be there. Each marble also has attached to it- the highest priority things to do for that day. Do what you can, one at a time.
Like it-still works for me.
DD

You're welcome, DD! And very awesome with what you had done also with your support group! I like the jar filled with marbles idea too. Take care & have a great day!

  


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IrishRoseCA
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Posted on Wed, Oct 19, 2005 09:32

Hi!
Thanks for that! Wonderful...

I ran a Fibromyalgia support group for 3 years. International support group leader for 5. Took many fone calls from around the world and had a newsletter that was International. I would write/say: Imagine we all have a jar-filled with marbles. Each one represents energy. On a good day, there will be many marbles, on a bad one: only a few may be there. Each marble also has attached to it- the highest priority things to do for that day. Do what you can, one at a time.
Like it-still works for me.
DD
Hi!
Thanks for that! Wonderful...

I ran a Fibromyalgia support group for 3 years. International support group leader for 5. Took many fone calls from around the world and had a newsletter that was International. I would write/say: Imagine we all have a jar-filled with marbles. Each one represents energy. On a good day, there will be many marbles, on a bad one: only a few may be there. Each marble also has attached to it- the highest priority things to do for that day. Do what you can, one at a time.
Like it-still works for me.
DD

  


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smile2005
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Posted on Wed, Oct 19, 2005 08:22

revolutionarypassion write:
AWWW!!! Thanks!!
What a great story!

Now I just have to find someone who doesn't mind if I have tea instead of coffee! LOL!!

Thanks again!

-Rev

Or Diet Coke, Rev. I'm not a coffee drinker! I love the smell of it brewing but never really liked the taste! And you are so very welcome!

  


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Posted on Wed, Oct 19, 2005 08:19

AWWW!!! Thanks!!
What a great story!

Now I just have to find someone who doesn't mind if I have tea instead of coffee! LOL!!

Thanks again!

-Rev
AWWW!!! Thanks!!
What a great story!

Now I just have to find someone who doesn't mind if I have tea instead of coffee! LOL!!

Thanks again!

-Rev