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Posted on Sat, Apr 30, 2005 12:33

i received this from a friend--if we see or hear things that aren't right--we need to stand up for those that can't

the more people that are aware the more the survivors get silent recognition and the kids today don't feel betrayal and abandonment by society


~*~*Sarah*~*~*

My name is Sarah
I am but three,
My eyes are swollen
I cannot see,
I must be stupid
I must be bad,
What else could have made
My daddy so mad?
I wish I were better
I wish I weren't ugly,
Then maybe my mommy
Would still want to hug me.

I can't speak at all
I can't do a wrong
Or else I'm locked up
All the day long.

When I awake I'm all alone
The house is dark
My folks aren't home.
When my mommy does come
I'll try and be nice,
So maybe I'll get just
One whipping tonight.

Don't make a sound!
I just heard a car
My daddy is back
From Charlie's Bar.

I hear him curse
My name he calls
I press myself
Against the wall.

I try and hide
From his evil eyes
I'm so afraid now
I'm starting to cry.

He finds me weeping
He shouts ugly words,
He says its my fault
That he suffers at work.

He slaps me and hits me
And yells at me more,
I finally get free
And I run for the door.

He's already locked it
And I start to bawl,
He takes me and throws me
Against the hard wall.

I fall to the floor
With my bones nearly broken,
And my da$*&=@ontinues
With more bad words spoken...

"I'm sorry!", I scream
But its now much too late
His face has been twisted
Into unimaginable hate.

The hurt and the pain
Again and again
Oh please God, have mercy!
Oh please let it end!

And he finally stops
And heads for the door,
While I lay there motionless
Sprawled on the floor.

My name is Sarah
And I am but three,
Tonight my daddy
Murdered me.

There are thousands of kids out there just like Sarah. And you can help.

Sickens me to my soul ??
If you just read this and...

  


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Posted on Thu, Aug 18, 2005 16:02

My heart and prayers go out to each of you who has had to put up with that kind of abuse. never did, so really don't know what's it about. Thank the good Lord. Have a daug-in-law who did tho and it's not pretty. my son help her get out of the mess and now they have a beautiful relationship and marriage. Faye



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Posted on Thu, Aug 18, 2005 15:04

Things are a lot different now than when our generation was young. I heard many times, "Boy... that's a domestic problem. I can't do anything about it". Now you can call the police and do something about it. Don't just sit on it. It will not get better. It will only get worse. My heart goes out to all of us that have been or are in that kind of situation.
Dane



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Posted on Thu, Aug 04, 2005 14:32

i am sorry to hear anyone has to go through that s h i t! i would like to see them locked up and give them what they have dished out! killing them would be to nice and not worth the the trouble! for those of you that have that problem go hitech. they have all kinds of cameras from flower pots,books, cigarette packs, flood lights and many more to prove the abuser was there insted of your word agenst thers good luck and put them in jail!!!!



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Posted on Sun, Jul 31, 2005 19:47

Thats so sad..just to hear of some child being abused boils my blood..
Its just not right..I dont see how any human can hurt a child..we do need to stand together..

  


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Posted on Thu, Jun 23, 2005 06:36


beatitudes_5 write:
sorry to hear about the surgery, didn't know...i will keep you in my thoughts and you will do just fine....someway to get the summer off....lol....i appericate all your help and support, your a good lady....ditto on the help situation, anytime, just call............



actually now i'm doing good--wound up just meniscus not the a c l
thank God
i was up in lake george for americade but just for fri-sat-and sun we left
didn't get a chance to get to duffy's--went by one day and couldn't get near it(sat)

and thnx bea

  


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Posted on Mon, May 23, 2005 03:34

sorry to hear about the surgery, didn't know...i will keep you in my thoughts and you will do just fine....someway to get the summer off....lol....i appericate all your help and support, your a good lady....ditto on the help situation, anytime, just call............



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Posted on Sun, May 22, 2005 05:44

bea--just remember if you need me get in touch--if you aren't a member either read my profile

i will keep you all in my prayers

the big thing that got me thru my divorce was the serenity prayer

my daughter and i are alot alike--our birthdays are 2 days apart sooooooo even the stars have us alike--hahahaha although at this point we can live together--yes we do have our moments though--i will be out of touch completely thurs having a c l surgery

peace and love to you and special cyber hugs for your daughter and grand children

  


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Posted on Sun, May 22, 2005 04:52

seeme---she live in saratoga, about two hours from here,(on a good day) so i rented my apt yesterday to a girl at work and i am going up there this week to find a place close by to help her out....and to let the bastard know, oh yea-i am close by, try any s-h-i-t again you bastard.......nicloe and i can't live together, we would kill each other, were to much alike, and she can't come down this way because all the babies specialist are up in albany and he gets sick so fast, he needs to be close to them, yea i know it's some scarey stuff, and i honestly don't think my daughter realizes the serveriety of things of what can happen, she always had a good heart and give people the benefit of the doubt, but i told her that life doesn't exist anymore, she needs to let go of that world....the police, and cps and ss are there and helping her alot, and we talk a couple of times a day....they are setting her up with counseling and then the kids in time will go, which is a move in the right direction, but a woodchipper does sound good........lol.....hey seeme-thank-you for your support, i do get scared if she doesn't answer the tele, or the thoughts i sometime have...strange-she never grew up around any abuse, but his family thinks that we have over reacted. all but his sister, and to let by gones be by gones...hellllllloooooooo, are they crazy or what..........



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Posted on Sat, May 21, 2005 13:31

bea---you can borrow my 38 special if needed-or we can get bikeman and eye to bring up the woodchipper!!!!!!

unfortunately it usually starts with verbal and emotional abuse--and the kids need some help--protect her--DO NOT LET HIM NEAR HER PERIOD--i had a client in ga whose brother-in-law killed her sister in front of her 2 boys and he is in jail--it is scary--where is she???? in NY or closer to me--if you need me let me know--i'm not paying anymore--my butttt has been on the line before with an abuser along with being a survivior(parental and spousal)--helped a friend and her partner followed me home with a shotgun--but we can always find some good ole boys to give us a hand also

  


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Posted on Sat, May 21, 2005 03:28

seemme........last week my daughters other/better/worse half decided she should become a punching bag, well he is well out of the house and she is now dealing with all this s-h-i-t- with three little ones.....he pretty much broken her, but i talk to her several times aday and working things out to move up that way to help her (she can't come here because the baby need the specialists in that area)....p-i-s-s-e-d- off isn't even the word to describe what i am feeling....murder is more on my mind....what the hell is wrong with people....she's a tuff girl, and will survive this, but no-one, and i mean no-one ever has a right to hit or hurt someone else, except me, i am allowed to commite this murder and maybe will take you up on the space in the wine cellar............



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Posted on Wed, May 18, 2005 08:53


earthgoddes2 write:

seeme1st write:

earthgoddes2 write:
i was a victim of child abuse in all aspects, family knew and did nothing,i made it through all on my own,repairing the hurt they inflicted alone,i am a survivor,never looking back,my eyes are open and always looking out for the kids around me, if i can help,i will.I AM WHO I AM, and noone can change that,friends are very important in my life,they are my family.some come,some go,but will always be apart of my life.



i am a true survivior also and the thing most don't understand is that we can heal and mend yet there will be times that things trigger the past pain or memory and we need space to put it in perspective!!!!

thank you seemefirst good to know im not alone out here.



we all need to stand together and scream at the top of our lungs--to make sure we are the cog in the wheel to help put an end to the abuse--whether it be emotional, verbale, physical or sexual
the after effects can be horrid and generational and can be self-defeating

  


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Posted on Tue, May 17, 2005 08:28


seeme1st write:

earthgoddes2 write:
i was a victim of child abuse in all aspects, family knew and did nothing,i made it through all on my own,repairing the hurt they inflicted alone,i am a survivor,never looking back,my eyes are open and always looking out for the kids around me, if i can help,i will.I AM WHO I AM, and noone can change that,friends are very important in my life,they are my family.some come,some go,but will always be apart of my life.



i am a true survivior also and the thing most don't understand is that we can heal and mend yet there will be times that things trigger the past pain or memory and we need space to put it in perspective!!!!

thank you seemefirst good to know im not alone out here.

  


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Posted on Tue, May 17, 2005 04:58


earthgoddes2 write:
i was a victim of child abuse in all aspects, family knew and did nothing,i made it through all on my own,repairing the hurt they inflicted alone,i am a survivor,never looking back,my eyes are open and always looking out for the kids around me, if i can help,i will.I AM WHO I AM, and noone can change that,friends are very important in my life,they are my family.some come,some go,but will always be apart of my life.



i am a true survivior also and the thing most don't understand is that we can heal and mend yet there will be times that things trigger the past pain or memory and we need space to put it in perspective!!!!

  


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Posted on Sun, May 15, 2005 13:26

i was a victim of child abuse in all aspects, family knew and did nothing,i made it through all on my own,repairing the hurt they inflicted alone,i am a survivor,never looking back,my eyes are open and always looking out for the kids around me, if i can help,i will.I AM WHO I AM, and noone can change that,friends are very important in my life,they are my family.some come,some go,but will always be apart of my life.

  


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Posted on Thu, May 12, 2005 22:18


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LadyVulcan write:
Whoaaaaaaaaaza, you gals are getting a might bit serious in here, lol. Seeme, that dragging them in first doesn't work any more... so I have been told. And if you only wound them (and don't kill them) they can sue you for their injuries. Geez, what is this world coming to?



That is what I am going to turn to..drag men into my house and chain them up..got a closet big enough to hold about 15 of em..oh yeah..storm cellar too, and guess what? It's 6 feet deep..



f o r e p l a y!!!!!

  


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Posted on Thu, May 12, 2005 20:28


LadyVulcan write:
Whoaaaaaaaaaza, you gals are getting a might bit serious in here, lol. Seeme, that dragging them in first doesn't work any more... so I have been told. And if you only wound them (and don't kill them) they can sue you for their injuries. Geez, what is this world coming to?



That is what I am going to turn to..drag men into my house and chain them up..got a closet big enough to hold about 15 of em..oh yeah..storm cellar too, and guess what? It's 6 feet deep..

  


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Posted on Thu, May 12, 2005 05:30

LV--hahahahahaha

i just want to make sure that the people male and female are aware of the kids and/or abused spouses--male and female--it can happen to any one us

we all just have to stand up and be counted especially for the kids--they can't fight for themselves



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Posted on Wed, May 11, 2005 21:47

Whoaaaaaaaaaza, you gals are getting a might bit serious in here, lol. Seeme, that dragging them in first doesn't work any more... so I have been told. And if you only wound them (and don't kill them) they can sue you for their injuries. Geez, what is this world coming to?



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Posted on Fri, May 06, 2005 13:35

SS i'd drag his butt into my house because you know he tried to break in!!!!!grinning--abd yes no man is worth the cell or being injected with poison

  


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