Redd..I spent 4 yrs with a man that did the same thing to me on a daily basis..I finally got the backbone that you show and I ended the relationship a year ago. I salute you g/f! NEVER let anyone make you feel less than special! I know I won't ever "settle" again! Ride safely, Sister!...Angel

searching for something ,sometimes you find what you are not lokking for.let keep it fun and simple.it all good if you want it

Red,
I usually just go through each of these posts and read up on what is going on. I am new here so I read to try to get to know everyone, and this post was a new one, but I did read your previous post and was the first to respond, and needless to say, I was extremely miffed (I don't think they would let me post any other words) about how your date went. I don't believe in anyone tearing another person apart. There is no reason for it. And that is what I said in my post. Some people, doesn't matter sometimes male or female, find strength for themselves in making others feel hurting othes. No one deserves to be treated like that, not men, women or children. And if your a social worker, you know what I am talking about. Just be glad you found out on the 2nd date and not the 2nd anniversary. There isn't another way to find out about each other, which is what dating is by the way, without asking questions about each other. You keep your chin up, keep your curiosity and strength, and you go girl. Let him find another whipping post.

I have to agree with y'all. Some of the topics have been a bit crude.... and some folks have been a little nasty to one another. I hate to see people get their feelings hurt, and I really do hate drama. I try to stick to The Golden Rule or I just stay away from them.

I'd post a comment...but i don't see what the topic is. Redd's post in not here to be seen.

i though this was for finding your match.but more like a chat room.and alot will not respond back.iwould just to be respectful.some maybe do not know what that is.so if you do iwill howl back.CURIOUSITY.

hang on

Redchapps, I read the posts that you are referring to and likewise I chose not to respond to them. Actually, I chose to quit posting in the forums period! The posts seem to have gotten a bit too off the wall for me and I find myself biting my tongue a lot. Like you, I am sensitive and respectful of others feelings and wouldn't post anything hurtful or mean to anyone. I have read many of your posts and I know that you are a very peaceful and caring lady and I have seen you jump in to defend someone who was being personally attacked in these forums. That is what true Sisterhood is all about, in my book. And, personally, I don't think you have to defend yourself for any of your actions. True friends and Sisters accept you for who you are and what you stand for. Stay safe out there and ride free!

Redchapps, I read the posts that you are referring to and likewise I chose not to respond to them. Actually, I chose to quit posting in the forums period! The posts seem to have gotten a bit too off the wall for me and I find myself biting my tongue a lot. Like you, I am sensitive and respectful of others feelings and wouldn't post anything hurtful or mean to anyone. I have read many of your posts and I know that you are a very peaceful and caring lady and I have seen you jump in to defend someone who was being personally attacked in these forums. That is what true Sisterhood is all about, in my book. And, personally, I don't think you have to defend yourself for your any of your actions. True friends and Sisters accept you for who you are and what you stand for. Stay safe out there and ride free!

redd

i ask tons of questions myself--i try to sell houses so it is part of my business--it also is a way of getting to know about the person

the one thing i do make clear is if anyone is uncomfortable with anything i'm asking they have the right not to answer
and they can ask me anything with the same perminters(sp)

there is no reason to be rude to anyone--if you feel uncomfortable about anything being asked--let the person know--end the date

there is no reason for anyone to have ripped you apart--we weren't flies on the wall