A little history lesson from his point of view, hopefully....
He's separated. Means he's been out of touch for a while. He isn't thinking about your safety issues, just Hey, if you'd like to come talk, here's where I live.
In other words, it isn't personal. Let him know that you'd prefer to meet somewhere public instead, and that it's for both of your safety. He'll understand that.
Now are there zeroes out there that have nothing better to do than play games and hurt people? Sure. Of both sexes. Hope that helps.
well now let me just tell you a bit of fyi or for those out of what is the looooop
Darling we may as well face the sad arse truth of it...
It is not all about the heros its more about the BIG ZEROS.
Good lord knows you have to pick many a weed these days to find just one flower.
But what real woman wants a fn flower so there you have it