Here's a question for both genders: What do you do when you have someone who won't leave you alone, especially when that someone is a "married" person? You have made it perfectly clear that you are not interested but they keep coming back anyways. You have blocked them on this site and from any other "personal" sites but they have found a way to get around. (May I add that when you first connected with this person, they weren't married at the time BUT have since married.)So what would you do: keep on ignoring OR take other measures???
Hooch2005 write: Just ignore the jerk...he's married now and needs to grow his ass up. I feel sorry for the wifey because he obviously isn't very committed to their marriage. Good thing you got out when you did, Ms. Harley.
Now if the guy doesn't get the hint after a few weeks of no response, then maybe a phone call to the wife would be appropriate.
Hootch, Don't quote me on this but I'd hand them a tooth brush and a bottle of mouth wash......Say where am I in your photo?
msharley0759 write: Here's a question for both genders: What do you do when you have someone who won't leave you alone, especially when that someone is a "married" person? You have made it perfectly clear that you are not interested but they keep coming back anyways. You have blocked them on this site and from any other "personal" sites but they have found a way to get around. (May I add that when you first connected with this person, they weren't married at the time BUT have since married.)So what would you do: keep on ignoring OR take other measures???
Thank you all for your advice. There are no threats just a nuisance. I have no idea who is wife is and I really dont want to know, she is the one who is in for heartache. I am sure if he still keeps trying to contact me, there are other women out there that he's trying the same things to. Again, thanks to all and hopefully this will tell others to be careful to who you befriend, you just never know. Peace, MsHarley
BadBikerDawg write: Are you keeping the e-mails or whatever they is sending you? If so tell him or her you have keep what they are sending you and if they continue to contact you you'll have to give it to their spouse and if they don't stop send it.
Dont open his email, dont respond in any way to anything he does to try and contact you. Whether you feel angry , sad for him or whatever DO NOT RESPOND. If you do..he will continue.
Trust me I know..Had some guy do that to me he ended up in a psych ward for 4 days. He continues to this day to email me every 6 months or so now instead of 50 xs a day....I never respond and it's 2 years later. You might also consider filing a restraining order at the local police dept.
IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE, UNLESS he is threatening you. then other measures should be taken immediately. But in what ways is he bothering you. you didn't quite say or maybe we would have better answers for you
Are you keeping the e-mails or whatever they is sending you? If so tell him or her you have keep what they are sending you and if they continue to contact you you'll have to give it to their spouse and if they don't stop send it.
msharley0759 write: Here's a question for both genders: What do you do when you have someone who won't leave you alone, especially when that someone is a "married" person? You have made it perfectly clear that you are not interested but they keep coming back anyways. You have blocked them on this site and from any other "personal" sites but they have found a way to get around. (May I add that when you first connected with this person, they weren't married at the time BUT have since married.)So what would you do: keep on ignoring OR take other measures???
Make them an offer they can't refuse.
Call Heckler and Koch
Call me.
Just ignore the jerk...he's married now and needs to grow his ass up. I feel sorry for the wifey because he obviously isn't very committed to their marriage. Good thing you got out when you did, Ms. Harley.
Now if the guy doesn't get the hint after a few weeks of no response, then maybe a phone call to the wife would be appropriate.
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