What makes a hottie hot is in the eye of the beholder. It is the whole package that matters. If you don't have that initial attraction, then your not going to want to even think about sharing coffee in the morning. If a person isn't nice on the inside, then that's a major stopper for me too. Hope this makes sense. Think of it this way - if we all looked alike & only had personality and values to consider in a mate vs: we all think and act alike but all looked different... It has to be a combination with mutual goals and interests. At least that is the way it is for me.
falcon, as I said to you earlier, you are the kindest! You said the nicest things to me anyone has ever said! You know, I think it wouldn't hurt if every once in awhile, all the single people could be put in a big Yahtzee cup and shaken so as to re-mix us and give us other opportunities.
My dew rag is off to you!!!
Excellent, very well put. Some totally hot all around guys can open the mouth and they are nothing, same for the females, but be whoever you are, those that like it, rock n roll, those that don't just roll.....the other way....
Harleygirl, I thought you ladies were all taking turns at being the 'hottie'. I mean, come on; what more could a guy want? Beauty of all shapes and sizes here. And as I've said before, God has a sense of humor. She makes sure that every time you find a real potential partner, they're in another state.
Eye and Techno, u 2 ever hook up? Inquiring minds want to know.
Ah Squid, you cut yourself short, see I think you are quite cute! But as you note, looks aren't everything, so maybe your lacking confidence is what is inhibiting your ability to get Jennifer's phone number??
These days all it takes is money and time to look beautiful on the outside. But that is not where true beauty comes from. As Loren and others say says it can be the touch, the glances and all the little things that make up a relationship.
Mark I don't fault you for wanting particular things in a partner at least you are honest and up front. There are too many on here that do not and I am not just singling out the male gender.
We all have sort of lists of what we would expect in an ideal relationship but generally when we meet the right person nothing matters except the feelings created by the meeting.
I truely hope you find the person you are searching for, You seem like a nice person.
Anyhow that is my 2 cents worth. Take care stay safe and have a great weekend. Ride with the wind at your back.
To add men have to subtract ! And to subtract could take away the best part of the women . To be beautiful is as they say the eye of the beholder not the way the guy holds her. Your all good looking people in your own looks and ways . Know need to let one know what they appear like to you we all end up bones and roses
Mark, Mark, Mark! LOL Man, I bet you think about your wording of a statement or question twice next time, huh? It's ok, Sweetie! When we find "the one" he/she will be our own personal "hottie"! This I know! ;) In the meantime, all of the girls on BK are beautiful, in our own rites...send an email...we'll talk to you.. until then, ride safely All! Angel :)
To the guy who is waiting for Jennifer Aniston, I'm waiting for Brad Pitt. Not only is he hot, he's a vegetarian. I always say if I could find a vegetarian man, I'll throw all my other "qualifications" out the window.
I think you are too hard on yourself, you are not a bad looking guy. Why do you feel that way?
Personally, I think I am a "hottie". I'm not going to lie, I also think I need to lose 60 pounds. But I'm still hot, even with the extra weight.