Any ladies in Tenn (and the surrounding areas) beware if you get a contact from harleyrider221. Don't believe a thing this guy says. He can't even tell the truth about his age (I know for a fact as I have seen his birth certificate that he will be 53 in May of this year). I have referenced him before in a post I made about distroying my self esteem. He can throw out a smoothe line but in reality, he is a pervert, the ultimate definition of a procrastinator, and a liar through & through.

before anyone takes me the wrong way.I do look at the whole person.I also have a preference of the kind of person i like,as do most everyone.some women I would like to talk to wont give me the time of day cause I'm not to their likeing or preference and I understand that,,really doesnt bother me.and i have gone gainst my preference and had a good time and made good friends

Softheart, I will answer your question as I am the one that said it. The "wrapper" refers to those of us that are not exactly Barbies or models but have hearts of gold. Most men don't want to give the "average looking" woman the time of day but would rather have the showy thing hanging on their arm. Another term is "eye candy".

Help me out here.....wrappers? Sometimes the written word can be taken in many ways. Hey are the outside wrappers as important as in the inside of the wrapper or vice versa....read my profile again FF. Not a member or would have emailed you.

unfortunatly?lots of folks dont understand what i say and take it wrong,,i;m not really a player,but not ready to settle down,unless THE ONE as they say,comes along and she hasnt yet,,so in the mean time i enjoy the "wrappers".lol.just love to meet people and have many friends as it were.not really shallow,,I;m just misunderstood

not from Tenn so reckon its none my bussiness. But since when did a "wrapper" equate to shallow ?

I;m not That bad,I just speak how I feel so anyone I talk to knows how I feel.I just find that when ,now this is just me, that when I go out with someone a few times ,they automaticaly wanna say we are dateing.I have my personal preferences as does everyone.Believe it or not,there are things people dont like about me.Dosent bother me,maybe the next person will like me.But everyone should just have fun and enjoy this life to the best

Lt Lynn

Mdhunny, thanks for your support. SOME people have no business putting their 2 cents worth (if it is worth that much) on a thread that is not directed at them. And to you, Firefgter, good luck with your "wrappers". When you tire of the shallow, give real women a shot. You might be surprised to find the best is what you wanted to overlook.

Amen TN...AMEN!

well,to be honest,,,,I;m still looking at the wrappers.Spent a life time doing what others wanted me to do,now that its just me,,gonna enjoy it til one day ,if and when that one comes along that i cant live without,,,til then,,,bring on the wrappers.Not really as shallow as i sound,just enjoy the company of others without attachments

Not worthy in my book when then aren't even considerate enough to answer emails sent to them. But then, that goes for guys in all states. All of us ladies on here are not model quality, so to speak, but I'd be willing to bet that most have a heart of gold & get shorted because men only want to see the candy wrapper and not the true person underneath.

I just tend to be honest,,maybe a little too much .Dont lead anyone on for for no reason.Honest up front.

Can't prove it by me!

Not all Tenn guys are bad,still a worthy one or 2 out there

Thanks LadyV, and not to worry. That was a couple of years or so ago now & am long over that one. I took a lot of crap off of him and was even engaged (thank God we never married!!) He surfaces ever now & then & when he showed up here, I just had to warn all my BK g/f about him. Sure wish somebody had warned me.

Hmmmm, I am really beginning to worry about you poor girls in Tn. First brightside's bambam, now this guy? All kidding aside, I am sorry that you had to go through this BrownEyes, but just remember, there are good and bad everywhere. Leave your heart open enough for the good guy to find his way in.

OMGosh ladies..they are everywhere...I still open my heart..I survived the last heart crushing after some healing in a cast..lol..I'll survive another if that's the price...

Thanks Nodey but I waste no more time on that one. He has recently showed up on BK & has even winked at me (like he wouldn't know that was me in my picture). Just wanted all my G/F here on BK to beware of this one. And you came to mind first as distance wise, it is about the same to you as to me.

Gee,sorry to hear of your experience Browneyes.
Unfortuantely, soemtimes we have to pay a price for opening up our hearts. Next one will have to really knock my socks off to get me to open mine again.
Thanks for the heads up on the loser. His time will come around. Chin up G/f.