When you get a girl's fone number, what do you do with it?
Can you remember who she was from the night before & can't strike up a conversation, because you can't remember?
If you have hot seks with her that night and never call her... why? When she probably couldn't control herself & is waiting by the fone, taking the fone to bed with her & is totally out of control thinking about you night and day & waiting for the fone to ring? Do you think she does this with every guy she meets?
Does the laundry eat up whatever she wrote it on & you feel like a fool because you lost it? (Nah, don't go there!)
Was she just another conquest in your pursuit of manliness and you have the fone number to prove it?
Do you rush to the bathroom to write it all over the walls with the addition of "For a Good time Call..."
And more ????s...
When you are dating more than one filly, and you make it sound like she's the only one... What's the best lie of them all - "I have the flu!" when you can't juggle it into your schedule? What's your best line?
When you say you are going to do something & then don't, say for example meet a girl, and don't show, stand her up, what is up with that? Do you make excuses later and duck the whole thing. Is it because you just weren't into her, or you were afraid she'd "be the one" and scared of losing your singlehood?
I just don't understand men in a lot of ways & if any of you guys aren't afraid. I'd love to hear some answers & I'll bet a lot of my g/f's here would as well to these questions.
I'm old school as in letting the guy take the role, I don't call them. I think a man should call the woman. I'm not about calling the cell every hour and bugging. Once comfortable with fone after he's called me a few times, I may call, but not before. Is this what a guy expects, or would you prefer a more dominant woman, that bugs the sh*t out of you?
Just some thoughts - would like some opinions here...
I got married on Friday 13th..didn't work out so well.
If I like a guy and he asks for my number, I give it to him, it is up to him to follow through on a call, if he doesn't it is his loss, I won't call a guy..he either likes me enough to call me, or he doesn't..I am not chasing a guy down.
Back in my non-saved days when I was a partier and a womanizer, A one night stand was a mutual agreement, rarely ever traded ph#'s Do I look back and regret those days? Yes, I do not take many ph#'s because I am lookng for that special woman, I have in the past taken some #'s but never rally called more then once or twice reason being the feeling wasn't there. After one or two dates it's usually decision time on how you want a relationship to pan out, sometimes just better to let it die.
Doc..you talking funny to Nodey? lol He can't help it Nodey...I lived up there for almost 4 yrs. and even this lil rebel started to sound funny...sorry Doc...love ya man, mean it! lol Ride safely everyone!
Actually I look forward to Friday the 13's. They've always been lucky for me. Wish today was one of them - just found out my taxes are done & I owe $2693 - that's not a happy number for me! I gotta get another job & stop working for myself!
Wow, it sounds like you girls have run into some real meatheads. As far as ph one numbers, I offer mine first and tell her that she doesn't have to give me hers unless she is comfortable with it. I'll call first but if I think you're not interested in in talking to me I won't call again. I'm a little dense so you have to give me a little clue you would like to talk again. Better make it a big clue, sometimes the density factor is higher when I'm nervous. Yes I'll be nervous on the first call, I'm shy and it's hard to make that first call.
You wouldn't have to worry about me not calling after the first time, I would still be there in the morning. I've never done conquests or one nighters, I have to know you a little better before that first time.
If I say I'll meet you I will be there. I've been stood up before and I won't do that to a girl. It's a hurtful and embarrasing thing to go through.
If I'm dating more than one girl I'll tell you that I see someone else also. Not likely to happen though, I haven't dated more than one girl at a time since high school.
I would never use a girl to get closer to her friend. There again I've had that happen to me and I know what that feels like. I also know what it's like to be the second runner up and just something picked up because I was available.
It seems we've had similar experiences, I guess I've run into some meatheads myself.
I hope this answers some of your questions Katmandhu and Thunderunderme. These are my thoughts and I can't speak for all men, but I hope you can see that not all of us are meatheads.
Okay, call me blonde, but we're galking about too many numbers now and I am getting confused...Brock, what number you talking about..
Pork, what number you talking about...
Doc, you need to send me your numbers again..
Somebody clear up the numbers for me please??
I did dude..thanks for calling, but you didn't leave your number back..and damn if I can't find the piece of paper...thought I told you my official hours are I don't have official hours, workaholic...but tonight was bike nite so left work at 6..CST, by the way, thanks for the chuckles and compliments..you sound like Wolfman Jack..