ok guys, whats up with this? Romance

  • View author's info Author posted on Sep 01, 2005 11:54


    Okay grant it, i am not a "gold member", but i can email you all back,(once per your email to me)My question is this...why would you send a ride invitation...especially an ASAP,one, when you obviously dont intend to take a ride? I have had several winks and a few ride invites...never to hear from the guy again.It is becoming an aggravation. Am I wrong for this?
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  • View author's info posted on Nov 26, 2006 17:51


    well...BK..is real slow about this..there was a blog about this...and its happened to me...didnt get winks..and emails..longafter they were sent....
  • View author's info posted on Sep 02, 2005 13:27


    I think it's just a way for them to verbalize what they're thinking....
    does'nt mean it will come to pass.
    Think of it as a compliment, winks are nice, just reply back with one the messages.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 02, 2005 12:28



    jst4fun write:
    Okay grant it, i am not a "gold member", but i can email you all back,(once per your email to me)My question is this...why would you send a ride invitation...especially an ASAP,one, when you obviously dont intend to take a ride? I have had several winks and a few ride invites...never to hear from the guy again.It is becoming an aggravation. Am I wrong for this?



    I hear ya J4F,

    I too am not a gold member. It's a bit frusterating to recieve a wink that you want to respond to and even wink back, just to hear nothing further.

    I suspect that the person that winked at you is also not a gold member, so past the wink exchange, there's no way to contact except the message board.

    Use your imagination. Best of luck and don't give up.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 02, 2005 11:19



    softail1999 write:

    jst4fun write:
    Okay grant it, i am not a "gold member", but i can email you all back,(once per your email to me)My question is this...why would you send a ride invitation...especially an ASAP,one, when you obviously dont intend to take a ride? I have had several winks and a few ride invites...never to hear from the guy again.It is becoming an aggravation. Am I wrong for this?

    Could be two reasons... First; they may not be a gold member- or have one.. lol... and cant email you,,, Second; you didnt mention if you winked back? if you didnt they may have thought you werent interested??? If you did, they do have problems!!!!..

    Im guessing at this though...


    i'm with you on this one--if both aren't gold membes it is harder to get in touch
  • View author's info posted on Sep 02, 2005 09:06



    jst4fun write:
    Okay grant it, i am not a "gold member", but i can email you all back,(once per your email to me)My question is this...why would you send a ride invitation...especially an ASAP,one, when you obviously dont intend to take a ride? I have had several winks and a few ride invites...never to hear from the guy again.It is becoming an aggravation. Am I wrong for this?

    Could be two reasons... First; they may not be a gold member- or have one.. lol... and cant email you,,, Second; you didnt mention if you winked back? if you didnt they may have thought you werent interested??? If you did, they do have problems!!!!..

    Im guessing at this though...
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