Whom should I date ??? Relationship

  • View author's info Author posted on Aug 03, 2006 23:28


    I?m a female student and I am seriously confused about my sexuality. I spend most of my social life getting drunk, so that I don?t have to face this problem. I have dated guys, but I never get very close to them. Girls make me feel safe and I can relate better to them. I may sound like I am straight and they are just best friend, but I recently met a girl at university and took an instant liking to her and dated her a few times ?that?s different to the way I feel about my other mater; I just want to be near her. I?d love to tell her about my feelings, but I don?t know her well enough and she can blab to other and made my life a misery.

    Should I date men only, am I straight?

    Kate Jones

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  • View author's info posted on Sep 20, 2006 05:13


    jonekate23 write:
    I?m a female student and I am seriously confused about my sexuality. I spend most of my social life getting drunk, so that I don?t have to face this problem. I have dated guys, but I never get very close to them. Girls make me feel safe and I can relate better to them. I may sound like I am straight and they are just best friend, but I recently met a girl at university and took an instant liking to her and dated her a few times ?that?s different to the way I feel about my other mater; I just want to be near her. I?d love to tell her about my feelings, but I don?t know her well enough and she can blab to other and made my life a misery.

    Should I date men only, am I straight?

    Kate Jones

    I'll put on a wig and you can do what you want. I won't mind that you are strange.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 31, 2006 13:18


    I had to make a comment now!!!! I didn't read her profile. She may have forgotten to check the right box for her ethnicity, the other shit cracked me up.. Look at her discription and then her match..Same thing.. Come on peeps give the confused girl a break she is trying to find herself!!!!!!


    dammit I feel so smart now!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Aug 15, 2006 18:49


    You're exceptionally blonde for someone of African descent. Good luck on your search in Bangladesh. BTW, Canberra is in Austalia, not Armenia.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 14, 2006 13:08


    jonekate23 write:
    I?m a female student and I am seriously confused about my sexuality. I spend most of my social life getting drunk, so that I don?t have to face this problem. I have dated guys, but I never get very close to them. Girls make me feel safe and I can relate better to them. I may sound like I am straight and they are just best friend, but I recently met a girl at university and took an instant liking to her and dated her a few times ?that?s different to the way I feel about my other mater; I just want to be near her. I?d love to tell her about my feelings, but I don?t know her well enough and she can blab to other and made my life a misery.

    Should I date men only, am I straight?

    Kate Jones

    Go home to mommy and continue using her.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 06, 2006 07:34


    i think you have too much time on your hands and are playing on the helpful nature of those here
  • View author's info posted on Aug 05, 2006 02:57


    jonekate23 write:
    I?m a female student and I am seriously confused about my sexuality. I spend most of my social life getting drunk, so that I don?t have to face this problem. I have dated guys, but I never get very close to them. Girls make me feel safe and I can relate better to them. I may sound like I am straight and they are just best friend, but I recently met a girl at university and took an instant liking to her and dated her a few times ?that?s different to the way I feel about my other mater; I just want to be near her. I?d love to tell her about my feelings, but I don?t know her well enough and she can blab to other and made my life a misery.

    Should I date men only, am I straight?

    Kate Jones


    Be confused for as long as it takes. You may simply like both.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 04, 2006 16:12


    I just had to reply to your post. I looked at your profile and you stated that you are looking for a women; so, I think you know what you want. Seems like your religion (LDS) will not support your selection in partners. Why is your pic of a white women and you stated your ethnicity is Black/African Descent. Are you s****** us? If you meet a gal you like, and you believe coming out to her might socially hurt you, then don't.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 04, 2006 10:55


    If you are spending most of your life getting drunk at 22, you're missing out on a lot of life. And drinking to avoid a problem or issue never works - the problem or issue is still there when you sober up.
    As to your sexuality issues, why does it matter what we think? What you need to determine is why you feel safer with women than with men. I would suspect something bad happened with one or two relationships with guys, and other women can easily identify with that. This is something that you should probably discuss with a psychologist rather than a bunch of bikers. This is because people in general will direct you to date men or women based on their own personal agendas without finding out the underlying reasons for your confusion.
    Good luck, and however you decide to handle this and whatever the outcome; safe journeys.
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