men, what, besides the usual "beauty", do you want in a woman? Romance

  • View author's info Author posted on Feb 15, 2005 09:13


    Obviously, physical attraction is necessary, but what are the REAL things that you want in a woman? You know, time goes on and outer beauty fades, even if your Pamela Anderson. So what kind of things that don't fade make your blood tingle?
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  • View author's info Photo Verified Certified Biker posted on Jun 26, 2008 09:33


    If you can survive in a relaitionship long enough to get there... Something about the way he/she looked is what got your attention to start with. If what you feel is real that will not go away. You will always like the way they look. What keeps it going year after year? The sound in their voice. The way they look at you and the way that they touch you. All the things that come from the inside. Looks are nice to have but they alone do not make up who or what a persone is...
  • View author's info posted on Sep 21, 2007 05:45


    I know I got the best of all possible worlds. My girl rides her own - and we're good for over 10K miles a year. Outside of riding, as have all the same likes and interests. She's my best friend and soul mate..can't ask for anything more
  • View author's info posted on Sep 19, 2007 18:30


    I like the simple things in life, riding and being with that someone SPECIAL. I don't want to find that someone to love, I want to find that someone "TO BE IN LOVE WITH", I feel there's a difference. Someone to SHARE A LIFE with, not someone to share a house or family with. If we are separated in a room or outside at some event, that when we smile, we send to each other "I'm Thinking About You", a wink with a left eye says "I LOVE YOU", a wink with a right eye says, Let's get out of here and go "MAKE LOVE". I never want to have sex, but to MAKE LOVE to each other every day. Never worry about who's right or wrong in an argument, but to try and understand each others FEELINGS. I DO NOT WANT TO EVER HAVE HER FEEL FOR ONE MOMENT THAT SHE IS TAKEN FOR GRANTED. My friend, partner and lover. I want her to know, that I will not love her until the day she dies, BUT UNTIL THE DAY I DIE !!!!!!!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 18, 2007 11:12


    Meat...

    Oooo, well meat is good, some better than others. I can say that cus age dictates life experiences. A wee bit of respect along with your desire would be very good, gets you more return visits I would say gentlemen!

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  • View author's info Photo Verified Certified Biker posted on Oct 14, 2006 18:52


    easymeat write:
    Obviously, physical attraction is necessary, but what are the REAL things that you want in a woman? You know, time goes on and outer beauty fades, even if your Pamela Anderson. So what kind of things that don't fade make your blood tingle?

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    Yes, physical attraction is pretty much a "must" but a relationship built on just that will crumble quickly.

    I am not the smartest man out there but I am sure that I finally know what I want in a relationship. I want someone that is my equal. She can square off with me on any subject and hold her own, she needs to be funny or at least having a sense of humor because I tend to be a wise-ass at times and if she is easily offended then,,, Oh well,,, ?NEXT?.

    She needs to be independent and have a life of her own, not someone looking for one to adopt.

    She should be confident, sure of herself, Intelligent, Gregarious,, even Cocky, Cocky is good! LOL.

    She should not be Shy, Jealous, Controlling, and Manipulative or stuck up.

    She needs to have an adventurous streak in her or I will provably end up scaring the crap outta her, I am an adrenaline junky and there isn?t much that I wont do or try.

    I guess that the biggest thing that I am looking for in a woman is someone that will not try to change me. I am who I am and I like myself just fine.

    Now,,, is everyone totally confused yet?
  • View author's info posted on Oct 05, 2006 11:06


    Thank You John - I just read you commentary - I now think I know alittle bit more about what kind of a person who I have started to correspond with - I think I want to know morer about you.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 17, 2006 19:43


    I agree, the thoughts of that person when you're apart bringing that awesome smile to your face and heart. What amazes me though, is how hard it is sometimes for guys to realize we're thinking of them, and what we're thinking, even when we tell em.
    How are we suppose to get through to you.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 22, 2006 06:54


    Truthfulone write:
    JustYFORYA, that is just what we thought a man would say, he wants meat. well you can get meat any where but when you get a real woman it's not all about the meat. it is about a good understanding relationship....

    Hi there. Hope you are doing OK. Hey, I like Porterhouse. Remember?
  • View author's info posted on Aug 21, 2006 14:00


    I see your handle and believe that is the answer to your question... what does a man want in a woman... easy meat...hehhe
  • View author's info posted on Aug 21, 2006 13:59


    OK.. Meat and Potatoes.. Vegetables are optional
  • View author's info posted on Aug 15, 2006 19:07


    easymeat write:
    Obviously, physical attraction is necessary, but what are the REAL things that you want in a woman? You know, time goes on and outer beauty fades, even if your Pamela Anderson. So what kind of things that don't fade make your blood tingle?

    Knowing that it's me that takes her breath away. That I am so much more of a man because I'm fortunate enough to be with her. That she will be on "my side" in any situation. And lastly, that she has the brains to back up the physical beauty (the 'steak' with the sizzle').
  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2006 09:47


    Descretion: the good judgment and sensitivity needed to avoid embarrassing or upsetting others.

    And a sense of responsibility for one's own happiness... I can't MAKE you happy.

    Several years ago I attended marriage counselling with the ex... the counselling fell a bit short. After several sessions of hearing what she needed to be happy, the counsellor turned to me and asked me what I needed to be "happy". It completely caught me off guard and actually hit a raw spot deep within me. I had been so miserable for so long happiness wasn't even a goal. I couldn't answer the question because in the pyramid of Mazlow's Hierarchy of Needs (or a close comparison) I was still trying to "not be miserable"... let alone actually "happy". All I needed was for her to get off my ass long enough for me to catch my breath and I'd become happy on my own.

    A physical attraction will bring one to the table, but the ability to keep from pounding every little topic into the ground will keep one coming back for more. Men are quite easy... if he's fed, f'd, and you aren't verbally beating him into submission, you should have him for life. Kind of like a dog... feed him twice a day and he'll follow you to hell and back. That, of course, is a generalization. There are those who will have the world handed to them in a basket and wander out looking for more. I can't comprehend why they'd do that, but to each his/her own.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2006 05:25


    easymeat write:
    Obviously, physical attraction is necessary, but what are the REAL things that you want in a woman? You know, time goes on and outer beauty fades, even if your Pamela Anderson. So what kind of things that don't fade make your blood tingle?

    Pamela Anderson is a phony and Hep C. She faded a long time ago. All things are real in a woman(well exceptPAs boobs). I wouldn't single any one thing out. Although I am partial to certain areas. NICE dimples. lol BTW where is your picture?
  • View author's info posted on Jul 19, 2006 09:59


    Being a frog, the last thing I look for is beauty. Beauty is truly only skin deep.
    I want intelligence,honesty,loyalty, faithfulness, and humor. Does not have to be in that order.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 17, 2006 13:20


    A Sense of HUMOR cause me a funny guy !
  • View author's info posted on Jul 17, 2006 10:33


    A personality that doesnt bore me, something intelligent to say and not afraid to say it. Looks dont stimulate me the way the mind does.... I dont imagine the pretty ones (traditionally pretty according to the magazines) have much to say when you are old and sitting on your front porch with nothing to say. Ive met very few women that pose for magazines that could string a few sentences together cohesively. Who am I to give advice though? Im divorced now as well...lol
  • View author's info posted on Jul 16, 2006 08:38


    yes teddi im want talk you i have tatto my arm ok friend andi

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  • View author's info posted on Jul 15, 2006 05:38


    LEMME QUOTE QUEEN:

    "THEY WANT IT ALL, THEY WANT IT NOW!!!"

    BUT LADIES WANT THE SAME
    "WE WANT IT ALL, WE WANT IT NOW!!!!!"
  • View author's info posted on Jul 14, 2006 11:35


    I want me in a woman/women
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