There is no such thing as a little on the side that will not hurt the relationship. I have met people that knew me and my ex wives 1/2 way arround the world from where we lived and the truth always comes out. If you put the time into your relationship that you put into finding someone on the side. Y ou would not have to look anywhere else.
NYCHICK! Sorry you and your sis have to lay claim to being related to IT! 3 points more and he might have the I.Q. of a Twig!! ....and you "Builderboy",, "POST" your "pic" to screw around. Man,,I've met some very intelligent people in my walk of life but you sir...are DUMBER THAN DIRT...nothing good is going to come of it!! BAD!!!