Carmenzant write: It's sad to say, but it takes some of us longer than others to "get it"...we live and we learn, thankfully!
I admire your strength, BHG
Not to say I haven't been there..stayed in a bad marriage for a long time..turned the other cheek because it was easier and thought other's didn't know what I knew..after I found out the whole freakin town knew, and more. Your right, live and learn.
TheBossZZ4 write: There's an asshole for every seat. So we've all had our share, and feel for ya hun. Hope you're doing better.
Thanks...doing fine..went out last night..had a little "adventure"..he was there..with someone..felt sorry for her as she was there as sculture to give him reason to keep his eye on me..made sure I knew he was there for quite some time..stayed safe though..poor Doc..but ran into some old "friends" of his..seems they lost him for awhile..they just needed some direction...
BHG, a little late reading this post. Sorry to hear of your heartache. You are a beautiful woman & there is somebody out there worthy of you. (That is what I keep telling myself anyway.) Keep you chin up & keep smiling. Take care g/f.
Carmenzant write: A great friend helped OPEN my eyes after I repeatedly "loved and lost" with the same guy over a three year period...he told me: the definition of INSANITY is going back into the SAME situation time and time again and expecting DIFFERENT results!
That's good advice, what your friend told you Carmen. Of course, if I listened to it that would mean I'd have to stop with this BK thing....
Don't you ever sell yourself short, BHG, and don't think this happened because you have a kind heart. There is someone out there that will love you for that... you just haven't found him yet. As for this guy? I am sorry that this happened to you.... but be glad that he is out of your life. You don't need the crap! Stay safe out there g/f and ride free.
I wish it took half as long as the relationship lasted to get over someone. In my case, the relationship was 2 months and it took me 10 years to get over him. Of course there is a child invovled, he was the only man I'd ever been with, and I am probably the most sensitive person in the world. I even cry at Disney movies.
A great friend helped OPEN my eyes after I repeatedly "loved and lost" with the same guy over a three year period...he told me: the definition of INSANITY is going back into the SAME situation time and time again and expecting DIFFERENT results! Maybe you have heard that one too, but that quote changed my life. I ended that vicious cycle..and I have been perfectly sane, and happy, ever since!