Bloody hell....Does everyone else have the same problem as me on this site. Veiwing the Forum and meessage boards while keeping an eye on who is logged in through instant messanger. You check out someones profile out....profile looks interesting.... go onto Instant messanger. say hello..even say that if they don't want to chat you'll sign off.. in less than 30 seconds they have signed out the site, not a bye or leave......... gone!!...Foregive me but, is this not a site for idle chit chat, getting to know people albeit through a computer screen....May be it is me, or are people afraid these days to even say hello. You know if you check out my profile male or female I think I'm right in saying that I have at least sent a thank you back and sayed keep in touch.
I also try to respond to all IM, winks, or emails but some times I don't know if my response has gotten to the person. Since I am no longer a gold member I can't even check on the status ... bummer
Rexbo47 write: I think that there is a serious busybody censor who has to read every single IM looking for tittllating language and suggestive commentary.
It's the only explanation for the lag time between post and response when the board is busy.
Probably a little blue-haired lady with an evil gleam in her eye!
She's the Church-Lady from SNL!!!
She's waiting for anything that could have been inspired by.........let's see..........could it be........
SATAN!!
Yeah, could be. My own guess is that her motives are voyeuristic in nature...
Rexbo47 write: I think that there is a serious busybody censor who has to read every single IM looking for tittllating language and suggestive commentary.
It's the only explanation for the lag time between post and response when the board is busy.
Probably a little blue-haired lady with an evil gleam in her eye!
She's the Church-Lady from SNL!!!
She's waiting for anything that could have been inspired by.........let's see..........could it be........
Rexbo47 write: I think that there is a serious busybody censor who has to read every single IM looking for tittllating language and suggestive commentary.
It's the only explanation for the lag time between post and response when the board is busy.
Probably a little blue-haired lady with an evil gleam in her eye!
She's the Church-Lady from SNL!!!
She's waiting for anything that could have been inspired by.........let's see..........could it be........
Ok I would like to say that I am not trying to be rude either. Just a newbie at this and when someone IM's me I am just trying to respond. Well if someone helps me along the way I would certainly appreciate it.Hey isnt that what friends are for .
Thanks to reading this forum I now know to shut off my pop-up blocker to IM here!! And, alas, get all the porn ads popping up again on my screen. lol Bet my boss will be happy about those...happened once before when he was in my office chatting with me and he seemed very interested!
Thanks for the info all.
my im still does not work right, the blocker is off and everything...next time i am on-i will try to im someone, and if it goes thru please answer and let me know....as for the winks...i found a bunch in the my account/home page that i never got, so to all who did wink or im, i was not ignoring you, i just didn't get it....thanks.......