contessa_98 write: Wow Slim, you don't want much do you LOL
isn't that what women mean when they want a deeper relationship and not a relationship based just on the "one" thing us guys are always after? just trying to show what a caring, sensitive guy i am ... is it working? lmao!
I THINK IT GOES BOTH WAYS. ITS JUST A MATTER OF GETTING TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE TALKING TO, AND IN TIME SEE IF ITS WHAT YOUR LOOKING FOR. IM SURE BY CHATTING FOR A PERIOD OF TIME, YOU CAN TELL. IF THERE IS A PERSON VERY INTERESTED, HE/SHE WILL GO TO ANY EXTREME TO CONTACT YOU, MEET YOU, ETC. WHEN CHATTING WITH ONE PERSON ONLINE, IF THE SUBJECT SEX COMES UP RIGHT AWAY, VOID IT. IF THE PERSON TAKES TIME, SLOWLY TO GET TO KNOW YOU, ALWAYS EMAILS, CHATS, ETC., AT ANYTIME, THEN YOU KNOW THERE MAY BE A GOOD POSSIBLITY HE/SHE IS SINCERE. SOME PEOPLE JUST LOVE TO PLAY GAMES, BE DISHONEST, AND STUPID. ESPECIALLY THE MARRIED ONES WHO CAN'T GET THEIR HEAD OUT OF THEIR A** AND THINK THIS IS A JOKE WHEN ALL THEY ARE DOING IS HURTING THEIR SPOUSE AND OTHERS. WHY DID THEY GET MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE? GET THE DICTIONARY OUT AND LOOK UP "LOVE". THATS WHAT IT SHOULD BE. WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND.
BE SAFE & GOD BLESS
lovey03 write: They all only want one thing! And when they feel they aren't going to get it they are gone.
i'm not sure how you can claim ALL men are after only one thing. you didn't reply or even acknowledge my email so how do you know what i am after? wouldn't that determination require some communication? or maybe you're employed as a psychic and you already know. btw - what is the one thing all men are after?
~Slim
btw - i'm just looking for someone to cook, clean, work while i stay home, pay all the bills, be ready and waiting in bed for me when i come home drunk, and (most important!) keep my bike washed and polished. so i guess that means i want a much deeper relationship than that ONE thing all the other men want.
lovey03 write: They all only want one thing! And when they feel they aren't going to get it they are gone.
I'm sorry but I have to stand up for the men, I have to say thats your opinion not a fact. I've attracted and have been with nothing but sincere and genuine loyal men. Its what you project that draws a certain person to you. If you have your mind set that men are All that way as you put it, then you close the doors to real happiness. I'm not bashing you, your just too pretty to be so opinionated, that can be a turn off to guys. Open up your heart and allow the possibilities and learn from your past and move foward. My best to you!!!
I agree with you Blonde. I have met quite a few men from this site. And the majority are here looking for a real,loving,honest,relationship.They are great men,and I've made some really great friends. It does seem like the majority here are playing,but you have to look in the right places and truely know what you want out of a man.
The best way I can explain it is to quote a verse from Bob Segar's song:
Once inside a woman's heart
A man must keep his head
Heaven opens up the door where Angels fear to tread
Some men go crazy
Some men go slow
Some men go just where they want
Some men never go
Men are all different and have had their own experiences in love just as we have.And they handle the remains of those relationships differently,just as we women do.
We just have to take it with a grain of salt and move on.
lovey03 write: They all only want one thing! And when they feel they aren't going to get it they are gone.
I'm sorry but I have to stand up for the men, I have to say thats your opinion not a fact. I've attracted and have been with nothing but sincere and genuine loyal men. Its what you project that draws a certain person to you. If you have your mind set that men are All that way as you put it, then you close the doors to real happiness. I'm not bashing you, your just too pretty to be so opinionated, that can be a turn off to guys. Open up your heart and allow the possibilities and learn from your past and move foward. My best to you!!!
In my opinion many on-line dating site users of both sexes spend so much time being fuzzy that before they know it their really on-line for the entertainment value. They get side tracked and seem to forget why they joined up in the first place.
carpasser
could it be that with the arrival of summer,they are out riding instead of being online? personally I would find a woman with her own bike attractive, I tried to teach a couple of my exes to rided,and even offered to give them bikes if they learned. One scared herself on the bike I built for her, the other tried to sell it to her dad before she even got it
hdbabygirl73 write: Probably scared to admit they did time..lol, no seriously,I really don't look to hook up on these things, there are alot of falsified profiles on here, alot of ppl are married or in serious relationships.
Then there are the rest of us that are truthfull, single and here. trust me sweetie, it's the same for us guys to.
Probably scared to admit they did time..lol, no seriously,I really don't look to hook up on these things, there are alot of falsified profiles on here, alot of ppl are married or in serious relationships.
I feel men just want to be sure we're not here playing games, if your interested in him and he has contacted you, then girl, keep the communication going. Sometimes they like to know they're wanted just like we do. Men or Woman, we all have feelings. Make someones day and let them know your thinking about them without expecting anything in return. Hugs, Terie