heyyyyy ya all...yes I am a newbie and yes I am already lost here!!!! Can somebody please explain this whole "wink" thing to me? How do you know if you actually are receiving a wink,or if the wink ya just sent even went through. HELP,I never could wink very well anyway!!!!!

I wish I could figure this out too. Seems easy enough, what am I missing?
4uFALNANGELKAT, you're beautiful.

Hi angel,you are quite the fox!! Just wanted to welcome you to the site,and good luck in your search.But in the meantime just have fun great group of people here!!! Til later

Welcom to the jungle baby!!

ok do I HAVE to wear my seatbelt..I may just happen to be a lil maso an like things a lil rough an bumpy,hehe.........but if you say so I guess i wont take that chance

Put on yer seatbelt baby it might get bumpy!!!!!!!

Bea your right...Everyone does what is easier for them...that's how it should be!

Ya! I have now entered the "BK' zone.....where anything could happen!....LOL

Maybe he was just wishin ya did so hard it did somethin!!

omg I didnt know we could look up where people have responded to what ya wrote!!!!!lol I swear im such an airhead..an yes I finally figured out the whole wink thing...but what I just dont understand is why they dont put things that we would actually say on it....something like "holy chit you have such a sexy...." well you get the pointlol... And the last time I said" I think you are cute" I had pigtails in,ok wait that was just last weekend oh nevermind..lol but thanks for the help ,you guys are great!!!!!!!!!

Point taken. T/Y
Chkn

hey guys, i understand what you are saying, but maybe some people are leary or feel funny writing someone, maybe just not sure of themselves and thats their way of taking the leap.........i don't know....but i do understand what you are saying and why......each to their own i guess.....ps...chnk...polyester is long dead and buried thank god, but hey, bell bottoms are cool......

I needed a good laugh this morning! funny! LOL Hey Chkn watch the smiles head bob up and down LOL

LMAO!!!
I'm Sorry the whole wink thing puts me back. For me, I just feel it's tacky. Don't get me wrong, sometimes I enjoy tacky. It's just that I think, whats next. Whats gonna stop me from finding a polyest shirt and bell bottoms. Then bobbing my head to a burnt cd of "What is Love". Whats next? Cruising the bars, saying "I am a "Wild and Crazy guy". Looking for Foxes, in hopes of holding their big american Bre ast........ Got to think about the latter Hmmmmm. Anyway it seems so "saturday night Live"

Maybe an E-note would work better....
Chkn

Ya know, I was going through the profiles the other night and I was caught off guard 'cause it said on one guys profile that I winked him on such and such a day....well it was the first time I ever saw the profile and I never WINKED at anyone......I send a direct E-message....go figure.....I'm
dealing with a computerized system!

Heck, I don't know. I have gotten some winks but since I'm too cheap to spring for a membership I can't wink back or answer ride invitations or any of that. I guess those who have winked me must think I am a non-return-winker, but I am not. It would be nice to be able to at least send a return winkette that says something like, "I appreciate your interest and your wink, and I am truly flattered, but since you're on the other side of the planet I can't devote a whole lot of time to emailing you right now."

Hmmm.. I remember growing up and something else was a winky, winky..... Had to learn how they worked tooo.. Dang thing wouldnt listen till I aged... lol... Took some doing.. hehe

Honey lol all the men answered you which was very nice of them.. But if ya want to send a wink you can do it a couple of ways if your on a post or a thread next to their name it will say Wink me or something like that Wink them that way. Or click on someone's profile and then scroll down to the bottom of their profile and it will say send a wink.. if your a paying member you can send an email and it goes to their inbox on BK and on their private email. You wont know if they recieved your wink unless they answer it.. And hon I am sure your winks will NOT go unanswered. lol Hope I have answered your questions..Have a good one and ride safe and keep your knees in the breeze.. PEACE OUT BABY!!!!!!!!!

hi they work but it is up to who you send them to if they want to answer you but i dont think you will have any non replys