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Posted on Tue, Aug 02, 2005 13:00

hi im new to this site and i just read the question for the ladies and now im asking the guys.
Is there not any guys out there who wants a good ol'lady. And who isnt gonna dump her after a year. It hurts when you give everything you have and then be told that he wants to be single again. Please tell me.

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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2006 05:23

Well if you gave everything you have then what is left? Don't be desparate. There are people here who post pictures that are not current,they will use you and then leave. There are users here. They know who they are and so do I.
Good luck.



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Posted on Sun, Jul 30, 2006 19:57

yea you should know you been in a few of them



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Posted on Sat, May 20, 2006 21:46

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From the "OL Lady" statement you made. I would gather that he probably had NO respect for you, cause if he had, you would have never allowed your self to be labeled " OL LADY" by him or yourself.
" Every rose has its thorns"
I wish you Luck in your search.
I for one was offended by the OL LADY bit...I am 42 and I refuse to be labeled an OL LADY by anyone.
People seem to be reacting to that statement more then your question.
Work on yourself.. learn to Love yourself... Dont let no one label you as there OL LADY... there's no respect at all in that saying. In order to find love, you must first show yourself LOVEABLE...
Good Luck to you.
Itsy

What truly amazes me is that you would sweat a issue as small as this one. If its meant in a loving manner then why would you take issue with it.. Seems to me there are more important issues than that and how a term is spoken is how it should be taken.

That is true.
If it is spoken in LOVE, then perhaps it would be alright with some people,
I simply would just rather be Called " MY LADY" rather then " Ol Lady".

an 'Ol Lady can be 20, or 60 - or more. it is a term used for one's love, companion, spouse, significant other, etc. it is meant in love and is intended to say "This is MY woman and I am proud to call her mine. She belongs to me and I belong to her". it has absolutely nothing to do with age. why would anyone have a problem with that? maybe that attitude is why you are not anyone's 'Ol Lady. damn. lighten up!



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Posted on Fri, May 19, 2006 22:33

thunderunderme write:
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Ol Lady is a endearing term with "most" bikers!!" I luv when Guy calls me his Ol' Lady.. I call him my ol' man and my Daddy, and My Master and whatever makes him do that thing with his tongue!! LMAO!!



Love the necklace!!


lmao yeah my old man bought it for me... roflmao!!

Well shoot...he must not respect you nor you yourself to give you a necklace like that and for you to actually wear it. In public no less.

I got a pearl necklace from my ol' man a couple times too!! I can't wait til I get another!! ***slutty biker slut**
Im such a happy girl!!

  


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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 16:49

DirtyBikers4Eva write:

contessa_98 write:

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
Ol Lady is a endearing term with "most" bikers!!" I luv when Guy calls me his Ol' Lady.. I call him my ol' man and my Daddy, and My Master and whatever makes him do that thing with his tongue!! LMAO!!



Love the necklace!!


lmao yeah my old man bought it for me... roflmao!!

Well shoot...he must not respect you nor you yourself to give you a necklace like that and for you to actually wear it. In public no less.

  


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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 04:14

contessa_98 write:

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
Ol Lady is a endearing term with "most" bikers!!" I luv when Guy calls me his Ol' Lady.. I call him my ol' man and my Daddy, and My Master and whatever makes him do that thing with his tongue!! LMAO!!



Love the necklace!!

lmao yeah my old man bought it for me... roflmao!!



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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 03:15

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
Ol Lady is a endearing term with "most" bikers!!" I luv when Guy calls me his Ol' Lady.. I call him my ol' man and my Daddy, and My Master and whatever makes him do that thing with his tongue!! LMAO!!


Love the necklace!!

  


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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 01:52

itsybitsyme write:
From the "OL Lady" statement you made. I would gather that he probably had NO respect for you, cause if he had, you would have never allowed your self to be labeled " OL LADY" by him or yourself.
" Every rose has its thorns"
I wish you Luck in your search.
I for one was offended by the OL LADY bit...I am 42 and I refuse to be labeled an OL LADY by anyone.
People seem to be reacting to that statement more then your question.
Work on yourself.. learn to Love yourself... Dont let no one label you as there OL LADY... there's no respect at all in that saying. In order to find love, you must first show yourself LOVEABLE...
Good Luck to you.
Itsy

What truly amazes me is that you would sweat a issue as small as this one. If its meant in a loving manner then why would you take issue with it.. Seems to me there are more important issues than that and how a term is spoken is how it should be taken.

  


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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 01:49

Ol Lady is a endearing term with "most" bikers!!" I luv when Guy calls me his Ol' Lady.. I call him my ol' man and my Daddy, and My Master and whatever makes him do that thing with his tongue!! LMAO!!

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Posted on Sat, May 13, 2006 07:43

Wow, I am impressed with you guys, if all men thought with there big brain like you have expressed life would be easier and relationships might work. I agree with Marzen, we get stuck on the same type of person and wonder why we get hurt! Respect and honesty are the keys!!
Guys I agree the women can be just as bad about not being honest!!
When anyone finds the remedy for this love passion let me know!! :) Oh, and I am not anyones OLE'LADY!! uck

  


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Posted on Thu, May 11, 2006 12:19

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46andlooking write:
hi im new to this site and i just read the question for the ladies and now im asking the guys.
Is there not any guys out there who wants a good ol'lady. And who isnt gonna dump her after a year. It hurts when you give everything you have and then be told that he wants to be single again. Please tell me.

Read the other threads. There are no good or nice guys here. Just ax murderers and people who want puppies. I love puppies. LOL


LMAO YES MARZEN KNOWS. XOXOXX

Hi there



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Posted on Thu, May 11, 2006 12:18

46andlooking write:
hi im new to this site and i just read the question for the ladies and now im asking the guys.
Is there not any guys out there who wants a good ol'lady. And who isnt gonna dump her after a year. It hurts when you give everything you have and then be told that he wants to be single again. Please tell me.

You need a little more self respect. First of all I will never want a "good ol' lady" I know you don't mean old, but anyone who wants a guy that calls her his "ol' lady" gets what they deserve. I really don't find that a very endearing term. Just like being called a bit*h. I am not a prude, but I think women deserve more respect than that.



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Posted on Thu, May 11, 2006 09:08

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I see your point looking for a good man who wont dump you after a year, however..I don't see the point in th "ol'lady" thing? thats all I hear at rallies...is that your ol lady? Do I look old to you mother F**ker? cmon ladies.

  


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Posted on Wed, May 10, 2006 13:59

I see your point looking for a good man who wont dump you after a year, however..I don't see the point in th "ol'lady" thing? thats all I hear at rallies...is that your ol lady? Do I look old to you mother F**ker? cmon ladies.



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Posted on Tue, May 09, 2006 20:06

I would suggest reading the book, "Why Men Love Bitches". and not as in bitch but biatch. Talks about women being strong and decisive in their beliefs/convictions. That turns on Everyone! No one wants a wishy washy person, or someone they can walk all over. Alittle bit of fight is good.



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Posted on Fri, Apr 28, 2006 09:55

Marzen759 write:
46andlooking write:
hi im new to this site and i just read the question for the ladies and now im asking the guys.
Is there not any guys out there who wants a good ol'lady. And who isnt gonna dump her after a year. It hurts when you give everything you have and then be told that he wants to be single again. Please tell me.

Read the other threads. There are no good or nice guys here. Just ax murderers and people who want puppies. I love puppies. LOL


LMAO YES MARZEN KNOWS. XOXOXX



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 10:07

46andlooking write:
hi im new to this site and i just read the question for the ladies and now im asking the guys.
Is there not any guys out there who wants a good ol'lady. And who isnt gonna dump her after a year. It hurts when you give everything you have and then be told that he wants to be single again. Please tell me.

Read the other threads. There are no good or nice guys here. Just ax murderers and people who want puppies. I love puppies. LOL



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 04:10

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My opinion, if I may, is that you have to be yourself and you must allow him to be himself as well, women tend to dig for information from men and then when he thinks its safe and exposes part of who he is with honesty, women will use the information against him or use it to make "herself" feel bad about how he feels about her.. we are not made the same... we do not think alike and that's okay. Once we realize that and quit trying to make them be just like "us" and quit trying to be what "we" think they "want" us to be instead of just who we are.. I think most women have a hard time handling the truth inside the man and most men know it and hide it. I believe its our own fault.. women are not very honest about their thoughts and we tend to act more pure than men. We are taught at a young age that girls are bad if they have sexual or impure thoughts..because of that we create images of our self to the opposite gender that make the man feel like he must be a deviant or something. Society has created a monster in a way. Men have a hard time being honest with us because we can not be honest with them!!! We play a role.. they can't live up to it. and in truth we do not live up to it either!!! We just do not talk about it and they do not dig for information about what we think.. Men take things for face value... women read a million things into every word.


WOW!! And brains, too! So, maybe I'm not just a perv, huh? HA! HA! HA! No, I'm a perv

We are ALL pervs!! Especially women in their 40's!! All the puritan acts, us women put on, is our own insecurity about what a man will think of us if he really knew the truth!! That's why women call each other sl@uts and tramps etc... They are all trying to make their halo glow and what better way than to point out something "dirty" in another woman. I have never heard men calling each other names and casting each other out of their click due to his promiscuity.. LMAO!!

Its also a way to control a man by making him think he's abnormal and he's hurting her... Its a bunch of crapola! By the way though, LOL men are mostly to blame for this phenomenon in women. The way you treat your male children vs. your female children and I say you because Men are the ones who set up the mores (sp) in our society. Albeit to protect the females but it still has its draw backs and this is probably the one that drives men insane the most I would imagine.. lol

BTW, thanks for the comment, I have an occasional moment of enlightenment! I think its called "advancing age!"

  


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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 00:21

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
My opinion, if I may, is that you have to be yourself and you must allow him to be himself as well, women tend to dig for information from men and then when he thinks its safe and exposes part of who he is with honesty, women will use the information against him or use it to make "herself" feel bad about how he feels about her.. we are not made the same... we do not think alike and that's okay. Once we realize that and quit trying to make them be just like "us" and quit trying to be what "we" think they "want" us to be instead of just who we are.. I think most women have a hard time handling the truth inside the man and most men know it and hide it. I believe its our own fault.. women are not very honest about thier thoughts and we tend to act more pure than men. We are taught at a young age that girls are bad if they have sexual or impure thoughts..because of that we create images of ourself to the opposite gender that make the man feel like he must be a deviant or something. Society has created a monster in a way. Men have a hard time being honest with us because we can not be honest with them!!! We play a role.. they can't live up to it. and in truth we do not live up to it either!!! We just do not talk about it and they do not dig for information about what we think.. Men take things for face value... women read a million things into every word.

WOW!! And brains, too! So, maybe I'm not just a perv, huh? HA! HA! HA! No, I'm a perv

  


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