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Posted on Fri, Sep 21, 2007 18:48

I find it hard to find ladies that don't drink on this site. don't get me wrong I'm not a "puritan". just made a decition not to drink. when I chat with ladies and they find that i don't drink they act as if i have the plague or i slapped them. just frustrating. but i'll get over it. bdwolf77


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Posted on Tue, Apr 15, 2014 08:14

I agree it really cuts down the availability of people when you choose to be sober..   Especially in Los Angeles.  Someone needs to start a sober biker site.    

 

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Posted on Sun, Mar 30, 2014 10:27

Check me out...I dont drink or smoke and im tryin  t get on here.

can u help me?



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Posted on Fri, Aug 01, 2008 19:14

WHO HELL IS LECTURING? YOU'RE JUST A N.Y.SNOB. JUST BECAUSE I CHOOSE NOT TO DRINK DOESN'T MEAN I'M LECTURING YOU ON YOUR DRINKING HABITS. I COULD CARE LESS IF YOU DRINK. SEEING I'M OUT HERE IN CALIFORNIA AND YOU'RE IN N.Y. WE'D NEVER SEE EACH OTHER ANYWAY.


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Posted on Wed, Sep 26, 2007 09:06

Re: I'll have a glass of water Noskool and a diamond ring. LOL noskoolbiker write: hey, I'm looking for a gal that doesn't drink, they usually make for a cheap date.lol



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Posted on Wed, Sep 26, 2007 09:04

Re: I like to drink and get merry but not drunk too. Just have fun and no wearing the orange jammies. Junie2006 write: Would think that would be something they would look up to and respect. Especially as it can cause major problems in a relationship. Also more money to spend on bling. I like a drink and get merry but not drunk. You should respect yourself for that. I know I respect you for it. Sounds like a Profile PLUS to me. Junie



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Posted on Wed, Sep 26, 2007 08:58

Re: The pubs here are nothing like our pubs Junie. There's always a good old craic, isn't there? Pass the Taytos g/f. LOL Junie2006 write: Hey Pattie, He would be no good on an Irish "Lock-In" What's the Craik? Junie Re: irishpatti write: Re:Ditto on that. Too old to bloody well change my ways! HDsweetcheeks write: I agree with what Crusin said..have seen both types..ppl who dont drink and can still go out and be social and not put people down becuz they do..and have ben around the other type who always have something to say when someone orders a drink. I drink..If you dont want to thats fine just dont lecture me cuz Im having a beer. LMAO @ Noskool : )



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Posted on Wed, Sep 26, 2007 08:48

I guess the ladies need to be impressed by your other skills....if ones not a drunken party animal, or waving ones 12 inch polish sausage pics around on the blogs, then what else is there to you.....ahhh opportunity to create your own niche...non-drinker, non-poleflag bearer, so what do you do for fun I guess is the 64-million women question.... Paint the picture of a life-in-the-hands-of-bdwolf77 and I hope you attract some nice ladies too...


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Posted on Tue, Sep 25, 2007 18:44

thanks for the comments. AND I WASN'T LECTURING ANYONE. I DON'T GIVE A SHIT IF ANYONE WANTS TO DRINK. THATS THEIR CHOICE. MY CHOICE IS TO NOT DRINK OR DO DRUGS. THIS IS STILL AMERICA THE LAST TIME I CHECKED!!!!! even when i used to drink i never did when i rode. but those are gone. if you don't drink then the smell of alcohol is offensive. i'm not judging anyone here. i didn't start this blog to get anyone's panties in a twist either. bdwolf77


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Posted on Tue, Sep 25, 2007 18:38

thanks for the comments. AND I WASN'T LECTURING ANYONE. I DON'T GIVE A SHIT IF ANYONE WANTS TO DRINK. THATS THEIR CHOICE. MY CHOICE IS TO NOT DRINK OR DO DRUGS. THIS IS STILL AMERICA THE LAST TIME I CHECKED!!!!! even when i used to drink i never did when i rode. but those are gone. if you don't drink then the smell of alcohol is offensive. i'm not judging anyone here. i didn't start this blog to get anyone's panties in a twist either. bdwolf77


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Posted on Tue, Sep 25, 2007 15:01

Re: irishpatti write: Re:Ditto on that. Too old to bloody well change my ways! HDsweetcheeks write: I agree with what Crusin said..have seen both types..ppl who dont drink and can still go out and be social and not put people down becuz they do..and have ben around the other type who always have something to say when someone orders a drink. I drink..If you dont want to thats fine just dont lecture me cuz Im having a beer. LMAO @ Noskool : )

Hey Pattie, He would be no good on an Irish "Lock-In" What's the Craik? Junie


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Posted on Tue, Sep 25, 2007 14:46

everyone has to drink....not necessary alcohol though...If she wants a Gin and tonic, ask the barman for a Gin and tonic, heavy on the tonic and a capful of gin...or hold the gin, or suggest her an alcohol free drink... lower your entry criteria and find a woman who dont stink...rhymes with drink..lots more suitable matches there... why make your life so hard...most women only take a drink or two, because they need to be relaxed to hang out with men. If they're totally sober they'll see the error in their ways! Even if you go to church, the priest is passing around bread and a cup of blood (wine).....LOL


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Posted on Tue, Sep 25, 2007 13:22

Re: irishpatti write: Re:Ditto on that. Too old to bloody well change my ways! HDsweetcheeks write: I agree with what Crusin said..have seen both types..ppl who dont drink and can still go out and be social and not put people down becuz they do..and have ben around the other type who always have something to say when someone orders a drink. I drink..If you dont want to thats fine just dont lecture me cuz Im having a beer. LMAO @ Noskool : )

Cheers Patti! I will drink to that lol : )


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Posted on Tue, Sep 25, 2007 13:03

Re:Ditto on that. Too old to bloody well change my ways! HDsweetcheeks write: I agree with what Crusin said..have seen both types..ppl who dont drink and can still go out and be social and not put people down becuz they do..and have ben around the other type who always have something to say when someone orders a drink. I drink..If you dont want to thats fine just dont lecture me cuz Im having a beer. LMAO @ Noskool : )



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Posted on Tue, Sep 25, 2007 12:51

Re: Hey if your going to earn your Biker belly it better be with good grains and hops grown from Gods green earth. That DQ icecream will kill you. WindJunkie write: I very rarely drink and i Never drink and ride and neither does the friend's i ride with...were all just a bunch of C.O.B.B.'s who like to Ride then stop at A&W or DQ for Ice Cream or lunch or Both :)



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Posted on Mon, Sep 24, 2007 22:08

I don't drink. I prefer a partner who doesn't either. It's just too tempting to be involved with someone who drinks, in fear that I could fall back to old ways.(I am not a puritan by any means,especially based upon my past) But now,I can smell it a mile away.I am able to go to social functions where drinking is happening,but,it bothers me to see it,smell it,or watch people get bombed. It reminds me,it reminds me,it reminds me.... I am sure there are ladies out there who don't drink,and who don't mind that you don't drink. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places. My feelings are,if someone can't accept me for my choice to be sober,then too bad,tough shit,and move on past me.


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Posted on Mon, Sep 24, 2007 06:29

I agree with what Crusin said..have seen both types..ppl who dont drink and can still go out and be social and not put people down becuz they do..and have ben around the other type who always have something to say when someone orders a drink. I drink..If you dont want to thats fine just dont lecture me cuz Im having a beer. LMAO @ Noskool : )


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Posted on Sun, Sep 23, 2007 20:11

I like you. I enjoy a glass or two of red wine in the evening with my dinner and maybe a few beers when I'm out. I recently have ridden with two men who do not drink and I feel so safe riding with them but they don't get upset with me if I have a few beer either. BUT, If I was riding my own bike...NO alcohol.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 22, 2007 09:46

I can take it or leave it. I would not act like that because I know how to have 'just as much' FUN and he** raisin when I'm sober.....LOL's Really 'sorry' you've encountered that attitude bd... I love to have my Corona's and/or Land Shark beers while out dancing, HOWEVER, that is NOT a requirement and I'm fine either way.... There are those of us out here who won't act like that for a non-drinker....I for one! HUGZ Bran~;)


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Posted on Sat, Sep 22, 2007 09:12

I don't drink, never acquired the taste I guess...I haven't run into it being a turn-off for women...but then I haven't run into many women..I lighten it up by saying that 'if you can get a glass or two of wine in me, I'll do anything you want..' And I don't mind other people drinking, if they get too loud or obnoxious I just walk away.. dch.


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