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Posted on Mar 26, 2007 at 07:16 PM

When something important in your life happens or when it is planned and doesn't happen, do you attribute it to fate, planning (or lack of it) or merely coincidence? I'm of the belief that things happen when they're supposed to regardless of our efforts to force them to happen or to suppress them. Many recent events in my life only serve to re-enforce this feeling that there are very few actual coincidences. Romance is a great topic for this discussion since that's what a lot of us are here for after all. I wouldn't have met my current love (and hopefully my last one too) if either of our timings had been off by even a few hours - and very possibly minutes, since we wouldn't have connected here due to our personal circumstances. Of course I may have met someone else, but believe me, we're more than happy with the way fate dealt us this hand. How about your story? What has happened in your life to convince you that one of these three factors influenced the outcome?

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Posted on Mar 26, 2007 at 07:42 PM

I do believe in coincidence unless you are a homicide detective. I was not being facetious. I think sometimes things happen just because they do. But I also believe that some things are preordained so to speak. In other words..some things are life's filler, the cotton in the box to protect the fragile items that are the main gift, the reason, the deliberate actions that were set in motion without any help from us. That is kind of how I think of things. I have not seen my outcome yet, as far as I know. I am in a huge transition right now. If it is my outcome, well, I am still very blessed.

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