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Posted on Feb 08, 2007 at 01:40 PM

Ok I have this friend and he is a really sweet sweet man, too sweet sometimes. The first of December he told all of us he rides with he had been dating this lady for about 3 months and he and her were going to Vegas for X-mas and New Years. Ok flags went up in my head quickly, but I said nothing. None of us had ever met this lady. Of course don't get me wrong we don't have to live with her he does. So why would he not bring her around? So a week before X-mas we invite him to stop by and have a drink with us. When he entered the bar he had a smile on his face we had not seen in a long time. Well he told us I'm not going to Vegas and I got rid of the girlfriend! Why we ask? Well last night while we were having after dinner drinks she let the cat out of the bag that her main reason to go to Vegas was to get me(him) to marry her. Now this gentleman has money, a busniess, some rental property etc., and we really thought at this point all she wanted was a free ride. After all she does not have a job. So we invited him to our place for X-mas and we found the perfect present for him. Our frind drinks wiskey and I found his brand in a gift package with ONE glass. I told him this was the perfect sign that he was to be single for now. So 2 weeks ago while I was at work he took the girl to the casions in LA for the week end and guese what??? They got married. Ok if thats what he wants I'm happy for him, cause he is my friend and if he's happy I'm happy for him. Here's the rest of the story: So my friend calls and ask if I know of any houses over my way seems she does not like living near the water and she does not like his house. Now this man has LOTS of toys including a boat, motorcycles, a hudge toy box I mean the really nice ones. So do ya think he has a gold digger. He has only been married to her for 2 weeks and she wants him to sell his house and move cause she does not like his house she wants a big house. His house is a 3 bedroom home and he just remodeled it and it is really nice. Man am I going to be able to keep my mouth shut??? What do ya think of this???

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Posted on Feb 23, 2007 at 07:49 AM

Ms henderson yeap, he said as soon as he put the ring on her finger she quit giving him anything, she thought that shit was gold all a sudden and it was to barder with, I just don't get that but he's alone again thank God I told him we'd find him a lady to hang with in Daytona. We are hanging withhim after we get to St. Augustine. He's haulin all the bar owner's in the area's bike there so they can fly in fly out. Busniess owners can't get too far away for too long. LOL

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Posted on Feb 22, 2007 at 11:05 PM

This is really sad to say, but it is a LOT easier to find a woman like the one this blog is about than it is to find a good one

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Posted on Feb 22, 2007 at 10:44 PM

women love simple things...MEN. Just remind your friend that BJ's on the street from someone who is not a crack ho runs about $10. IF he gets any now they'll cost him his life.

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Posted on Feb 22, 2007 at 06:46 AM

If he wants your advice you have to tell him to stand on his own two feet and not move or do nothing but keep what's his. If she don;t like it. She can vamoose. But my guess is he may be too soft and comply but then its his business not mine. Sick of telling friends what is the basic truth then they go ahead anyway then months later wail on my doorstep - like i didn't tell them. you think i am a hardnosed cow who does not believe in "LOVE" (cue tweetie birds and clouds of humming bees etc etc0 Too Bloody Right

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Posted on Feb 21, 2007 at 10:06 PM

Run like the Wind...lol

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Posted on Feb 20, 2007 at 06:42 PM

Thanks for all your input I did tell my friend what I thought and he listened and then he told me she was gone and he had files for divorce already. Thank God! And he said he knew I was a true friend cause everyone else tip toed around him while she was in his life. We will be able to go to Daytona and have a good time now without the stress of her telling him what to do all week.

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 09:39 PM

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh crap..have a awesome weekend

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 12:17 PM

Harleygirl, This is what friends are for to be able to tell the other what one feels and if he is a good friend can listen or say none of your business and understand because you are a friend. But this way you at leaast expressed your true feelings

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 12:07 PM

I must say I am not shocked by your comments just the way I feel. But I must add that my friend is not young he is in his late 50's and has been married 4 times before loosing his azz all 4 times so he is touching that hot stove AGAIN after getting burned 4 prior times I am at work this week but I will have a talk with him when I get home on Tuesday before I leave for WV on wednesday. I just can not keep my mouth shut. I told him why not live together for a few years then if ya want to marry fine marry away but then you'll know if ya can stand each other. But that fell on deaf ears. OH WELL!

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 11:55 AM

O! shoot HarleyGirl, I say tell your buddy to check it out with an attorney soon! He jumped into this quick.. now it's time to consult with counsel... quick!! I'm a paralegal from Colorado and in the Rockies, it's 50/50 at divorce. No matter if you've been married 2 months or 20 years. I also know a lot of folks who have done pre-nups and if not drafted right, STILL get it in the back side. Perhaps telling him... S-L-O-W DOWN is in order! Before the Court makes an ORDER saying half is hers! You know I think time tells alot. I've been there done that... TIME is an amazing friend. But sometimes-- you just can't protect every good friend and they have to learn on their own. You can read a book that says touching a stove is hot and will burn you, or you can go over touch the stove and find out for yourself! Good luck! Good Luck to your friend too. Keep us informed. Angel in Colorado

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 11:41 AM

Sounds to me like he was more in lust than in love. Glad I am not in his boots. Rodman

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 09:31 AM

Bad marriage....Flags went up for me on this one! He should have picked someone who is comfortable with what he already has.

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 09:14 AM

I would be so grateful to have a roof over my head. Sounds like things need to slow down a whole lot. Married for 2 weeks? This is the time to enjoy being a newlywed, that special feeling of finding that one. I would think they would be giddy with the excitement of a new life together. I would have to say, this does not bode well. But we don't know her. Though I am kinda thinking the same as Chop.

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 09:13 AM

Well they have to be married for a while before she gets anything. You can say something but do you think he will listen? I keep my mouth shut. I just sit back and watch. People seem to never learn. Especially ME!

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 07:14 AM

Hes a friend, but shes his wife now, have to be very careful what you say to him about her, he must obviously love her or thinks he does to marry her..just be there when he needs you, if you say to much you might lose him as a friend. : ) Man how come I never find a nice guy like that?? Geeeshhh : )

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 05:08 AM

That's what annulments are for......

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Posted on Feb 09, 2007 at 04:59 AM

If they get a divorce now. she gets very little. If he buys a house after the wedding. it is half hers. She is no fool. She wants community property. If she plays her cards right. She will get him to trade in for a new motorcycle,car,trailer etc. Every thing he purchases after he said I do. is half hers.

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Posted on Feb 08, 2007 at 11:54 PM

Doesn't he have a say so about where they will live? Isn't that a decision made by two? It seems she has total control over him and everything else. Not playing very nice is she?

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Posted on Feb 08, 2007 at 11:22 PM

I think that's alota writing to be reading... Deuce

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