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canyontrilogy
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Posted on Thu, Feb 08, 2007 09:31

Having been single for almost 10 years, I have begun to consider the possibility I may never find that special someone to ride off into the sunset with. I am open to and even look for the illusive friend and or partner. What happens as we get older? Do we get so set in our ways we cannot include anyone else into our lives. Does the Internet become just a candy bowl of endless possibilities so why stay in one spot long enough to find out what someone is really about? Oops, there's a flaw. Move on. We all have baggage, scars and road rash. Especially seniors. I teach a class where people are asked to list the top four values in their life. The top two are almost always "family" and "loving and being loved'. Even big, strong, strapping men list loving and being loved. If we all want it so much, why are so few willing to stay around long enough to find it? If you need a valentine, I'm right here. An untouched, unloved infant will die. I wonder if the same is true for us seniors?


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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 13:55

Please add me to the Hug A Day Club...everyone can use a big hug at times Rick


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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 12:42

Oh Red you thought of it but I'll join in here's my HUGGGG to all of you for the day. I think we all long for that wanting to be LOVED. I do I long to be held at night again, someone to cook for, someone to talk to, and someone to go on long rides with that will hold my hand and wlk along the path of that special place we stop. My room mate and I travel well together but she just aint the right sex! LMAO


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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 11:03

Canyon, I so understand what you are saying, I am one senior that is staying around. Long time ago I faced my flaws, imperfections and so called baggage, it's all part of life we all have them. I'll accept theirs if they accept mine, now it's just a matter of time. But I'm willing to hang in there. I also feel as you do. Anyone need a valentine I'm here. We never know what may be right around the corner.


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TreasureTheHobo
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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 09:17

HUGS!!!!!


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leahjuno
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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 08:09

i will join your hug a day club red , canyon,i think its just the same for seniors as it is for any one else , i have an 18 year old daughter , she suffers from the much the same worries and fears as i do at 45 , a special hug to you sweetheart all the way from across the pond ,we all need hugs believe me , i am surrounded by family,and have met a nice guy on BK, but i still feel alone,


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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 07:02

Canyon, it looks to me like you got a lot going for you....biker /cowgirl....what more could a man ask for?


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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 05:55

Here's a big bear hug to all the sexy ladies of BK over 50 - you still got it going on or you wouldn't be hanging around here!


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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 02:29

GROUP HUG......AWWW DANG IT just what I needed this morning to make my Friday!!! yyyiipppeeeee HUG, HUG, HUG, HUG I am in agreement with you both on this. I SO want someone in my life. I have (going on) 9 yrs of stored up love, compassion, caring and giving and no one will really 'take the time' to get to know me or ask or even really try!!!! aaaahhhhhhhh How sad, how really sad that this is like this for us at this age. We ALL have so much to share and give. Have a good one Luv ya both S~ ;)


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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 00:45

Canyon, perfectly stated! Seems because of fear and trust issues from past times, no one will take the chance to say "I'd like to get to know you." BUT HERE'S MY HUG FOR YOU G/F...HUGGGGGS!!!! We need to start "A HUG A DAY CLUB"... we can give out a GROUP HUG to make a person feel better!


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