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wantsmfrmu
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Posted on Sat, Nov 18, 2006 21:34

Okay if you're here saying you're wanting a long-term relationship, marriage, ... and then you meet a woman that is a really good person....then after a few months decide one day that I'm scared and withdrawals......what is really going on. Is the guy really confused as he said, scared to fall in love because he has had a terrible history. What is it?


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neicie58
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Posted on Sun, Nov 19, 2006 13:01

it's very frustrating......were all here basically w/the same desire,wants & needs......I have faith though.....that one day Mr.Right will come riding in....stay positive & just live your life....when the time is right it will happen


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Posted on Sun, Nov 19, 2006 09:28

It's all pretty simple really every one want's something that they cant have, like the song say's(if you can't have the one you want love the one your with) buckethead


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Posted on Sun, Nov 19, 2006 09:21

i hate to say it, i have done this , but i really was scared, and carrying way to much pain from a bad marriage. I thought i was fine and ready to look for someone to love , when a really nice guy got close i closed up like a clam and dumped him, i regreted it very quickly and have ever since. leah juno


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Posted on Sun, Nov 19, 2006 09:07

Welcome to the Confused About Men Club. I don't think it is just men, I think it is both genders and...by the time you get to your 40's and 50's and you are single you have probably been through relationship hell a few times. Fear of trusting your own judgement, fear of trusting others. I say I am committment phobic, I am really not, I am terrified of committing and then getting scr*wed. I am actually quite good at committment, it is the getting scr*wed part that I and others on here have not mastered. If they will talk to you, maybe you can find out why? I hope they do talk to you. I hope they do tell you what happened. Take care, T


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PADDYWADDY
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Posted on Sun, Nov 19, 2006 05:52

MMMMMMMMMMMM LET ME THINK..YEP IT IS CALLED THE CHICKEN SHEET SYNDROME...YEP ...MAYBE IT WILL HAPPEN TO THEM...WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND BOYS...MAN UP I SAY,GET THE LEAD OUT....THERE ARE SOME REALLY GOOD GIRLS ON HERE...


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Posted on Sun, Nov 19, 2006 01:56

Define really good person!!! People seldom see their own flaws. And women are no different then men in this. Could be you have a personality trait that he decided he can't live with. Personally If I find that if a women is really jealous or controlling. I hit the ground running. Some times these traits don't show up at first. Maybe she farts too much. Got to go. The mother ship is here.


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