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katiedid2
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Posted on Wed, Sep 13, 2006 20:29

can anyone help me apologize to someone here on this site? I want to start seeing someone but I really screwed up... I wasn't completley honest and it has cost me sleepless nights and headaches for about a month now!!everyone knows him...but first "how the hell can I ask for forgiveness and still expect him to still want me?!! I got the bummed out blues in florida!!


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islandliving
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Posted on Sun, Sep 17, 2006 10:46

Honesty is always the best policy. But unless you aren't human. We all have screwed up in our lives at one time or another. If its meant to be. He'll understand that you were in a unhappy place and wanted some were better and maybe jumped the gun on looking, or maybe were seeking Friends, but found more before you expected it. Either way apology and hope for the best. I am hoping you work it out and can make the Florida BK meet in Crystal River to celebrate you luck. ride safe and almost sane Ken in paradise


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Posted on Sat, Sep 16, 2006 14:42

I want to thank you all for your advice.and well I have "started the ball" rolling, and I think that he is worth it...I was not all honest with him I had an emotional commitment and well I met him before I got to end that,so now I finaly got the heart break rolling I am glad atleast that he still wants to be my friend, I did not tell him of the emotional thing that I was ending because..well... I didn't know how to! I am seeing him this weekend and I will talk to him about it. ALL of it! again thanks I wish that I could have you guy's as my friends even with-out the on-line thing!! Peace, Kate


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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 18:56

Oh well, too bad for him (whoever he is, sorry friend). I think you should totally give up on him and fall madly in love with me! If that dosn't appeal to you, then I agree with SexC: call him, email him, jump on a plane and go see him. Let him know exactly how you feel and why you did what you did. If that dose not work, then he isn't the one.


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james77075
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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 17:49

just tell the truch...and be willing to suffer the consequences


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PADDYWADDY
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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 17:43

trust is like a paycheck....you can't have it till you work for it ,come clean ask for forgiveness and then if they say no at least you have done your part...GOD BLESS YOU


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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 15:05

Tell him , We all make mistakes, that's why there's erasers on pencils! And you made one and would like to apologize for it and would he be kind enough to forgive you and start clean ! If he says no, kick da Bum to da curb and move on ! Pete the Greek


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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 08:54

come on, sweetheart if hes worth it, pull out all the stops to make him see your sorry , and if he still wont listen let him go , and chalk it down to a painful lesson learned. I really hope it all goes well for you honey


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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 08:24

Just tell them you're sorry for whatever it was you did. We all make mistakes; it's how we go about correcting them that matter. As for him still wanting you, that is up to him, not to you. Your apology will make you feel better about yourself; but remember that he is under no obligation to forgive you. You have to forgive yourself first. He'll either respect your honesty and forgive and start over, or he might hear you out and then tell you to get lost. Or, he might use your apology as an opportunity to hurt you. Think it over; if you still want to apologize, then do it, either in person, via e-mail, or over the phone, but do it.


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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 06:53

Go to him and offer your sincere apologies. Sometimes people withhold or may not be honest out of fear...you are human. Give him your apology from the heart and show him with your behavior you are sincere. He, of course, has the choice to accept and continue or to accept but decline any further involvment. Either way, it will help you grow. Good luck. T


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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 00:57

Play it honest...always. well...thats MY philosoFeee....... I don't know who you're refferring to, but seems to me like you should go straight to the "horses mouth" so to speak. Good luck sweetie...


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