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Posted on Sun, Jul 16, 2006 11:47

I am always amazed when I go to some of girl freinds( not involed with ) and see what some of the guys send and say. Do you realy guys realy think that a lady wants to see your ...k. All of them have seen then, and most ladys are more interested in your face or personality. I know it's a shock. There are some ladys that should be more concered with a guys demeaner, and the way they treat them than, if they have a few exrta lbs. I am realy a lttle upset at the amout of lieing and miss represention that goes on in life not just on line. Treat someone how you would want to be treated and you might be amazed at what life will send you!! The karma god are powerful and see all, you can't lie to them. Ride safe. Keep the rubber side down, and may the skies be blue aboue for you every day in your life but remember. AS you soo you will reep. Island living is the best mother natuer has to offer. Ken in Paradise and you can be too

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Posted on Tue, Aug 22, 2006 07:51

This is for AngelNdisguizeus ... I read your post about the guy you went to see 1900 miles away and then he insults you by takin' off, not coming back ... and, leavin' you stranded! (What a LOSER HE is!) Did the Aliens come to earth and ZAP everybodys "CONSCIENCE" away or sumthin'?! Damn! Then, I read YOUR profile ... MY conclusion is: YOU are just too good for him! Hang in there! :^)


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Posted on Mon, Aug 21, 2006 10:43

Just wondering after that statement where Demoman has been all my life :)


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Posted on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 15:55

A lady should be treated with RESPECT ... Especially if she walks like a lady, talks like a lady, and ACTS like a LADY!!! ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ If a guy wants to be treated like a gentleman ... YOU must talk and act like one too! ~~ Give Respect ... Get Respect ~~ ~~ HELL YAH!!! ~~ ;^)


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Posted on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 09:37

I hear ya had a date light a crack pipe up on my bike at 3am in down town CR. I about dumped her in the road but took here the other 8 blocks home and said have good life but don't call me. I don't want to lose my 2006 bike because you are car ring crack.Especial scene I don't approve or partake


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Posted on Fri, Aug 04, 2006 18:03

I am old school you treat a lady like a lady. With respect. I don't think you should use profanity around one.


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Posted on Fri, Aug 04, 2006 09:43

Demoman... your words are so sweet! Good for you!


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Posted on Thu, Jul 20, 2006 17:26

have always treated ladies like ladies. 98% deserve the courtecy, the other 2% don't but they still get it from me. but respect is earned. if you act like a bitch then shouldn't you treated like one? and like ways for the guys if you act like an asshole you should be treated like one. we have all been shit on by the other gender. but leave it the fuck behind. move on and move forward. this is a new chapter in your life. Remember guys what you do to others it will come back on you 10 fold. what you do for others will also come back to you 10 fold. So if you can't treat a lady like a lady and you have the neanderthal mentality, you won't get very far with that backwards attitude. woman are special creatures and should be treated as such. would you treat your mom or your sister or even your own daughter like shit? then why treat the lady you are involved with or dating that way? We're supposed to men not cavemen. bdwolf77


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Posted on Wed, Jul 19, 2006 21:12

Wish I could agree. Went out last Saturday bough a young girl (Wont call her a lady) 2 meals, drinks and danced the night away. At 3 on the way back to drop her off she light a crack pipe on the back of my new Harley. It was the bewitching hours 3 am and cops all around. She had been carrieng it all day. Sorry I don't want to do time for a lying, using, Little ops was that out loud ride safe and heavy drug free


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Posted on Wed, Jul 19, 2006 21:04

Hi girl come fly with me Ill only give ya honesty. Long as I get it back Ill be the most loyal Friend you ever had. I teach and fly water based ultralight from the island over and around 350 island out side Crystal River Florida. My favorite way to fly only room for two and sharing all the way. fly safe and enjoy the air time!! I am am not riding to fast I am flying to low. Is the sticker on my night train, if you can get close enough to read it lol


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Posted on Wed, Jul 19, 2006 20:56

Great attitude!! To bad more don't still have old time respect. Lover or friends, letting folks know you are OK if you are running late is just plan polite . I am sure all of us at time or another have sat bitting our nails with images of road kill, saying dam wish they would call. If you care, you worry friend, family, or lover. You go girl be independent. But still nice to be held and share. Sharing makes the world go round and to me makes every experience in life better. Born to share. I fyou ride this way come by for a island drink and howdy do Ride safe and free Ken on paradise island Crystal River


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Posted on Wed, Jul 19, 2006 16:57

Whelp I get my dime here, don't like it when someone has a good woman or partner how ever ya what it, but if another stayes with you and deals with you, do you not deal in return? So tried of shallow people, has took me from many of clubs, but would rather be the way I am than treat anyone with disrespect, you have honesty and you have respect, some both female and male don't have any, yet have new ones every drop. If she'll ride with me, well srew you all it's just between me and her!!!!!!!!!!


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Posted on Wed, Jul 19, 2006 10:16

hi, i'm new to bk & have been enjoying reading the blogs. this one really struck a cord with me tho. i agree a man should be a man & a woman should be a woman, but why do so many people treat women that ride on there own like dykes. i am 100% female & love to be treated like a lady but that doesn't seem to happen often except by my male friends that really know me. i've found that the more skin you show the more doors get opened & the more chairs get pulled out for you. i don't mean to sound naive, but why can't there be mutual respect between riders-male & female & treat each other as such? just because i'm not jumping off the back of a mans bike doesn't mean i don't deserve to be treated like lady also. is it the independence issue? i'm getting tired of what seems to me like a resentment issue? hell, i had a guy on a bike try to run me off the road one time while i was riding by myself! yet have had nonriders tell me how sexy they think it is. i'm just so confused by the whole issue!! LOL


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Posted on Tue, Jul 18, 2006 15:57

YESSSSSSSS!!! And the ladies should treat the men equally as well..I am from the school of thought that men should be men and women should be women. And I am not saying women should not ride...that does not take away from our femininity in the least. A lady who rides is exactly that...a LADY who rides. When a man treats a woman good (and she is a good woman) he will get it back ten fold. A win/win situation. T


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Posted on Tue, Jul 18, 2006 09:59

It is our job, part of our code as men that we should treat ALL ladies with dignity and respect. We should protect tham and cherish them. Unfortunatly not enough men stand up to this obligation so women are deciding that since we're not doing it they are going to be tough and not allow it when it is offered. If you see a guy being a asshole to a woman, tell him. Maybe he will reach back into the recesses of his mind and find The Code.


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Posted on Tue, Jul 18, 2006 06:48

I have to put my two cents in here..I am one for the doors being opened, the chairs being pulled for me, and for being treated like a woman...I am all about that..and make it known...but on the flip side of that...my special man gets treated the same way back...


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Posted on Tue, Jul 18, 2006 06:41

I believe as long as a lady acts like a lady she should be treated as such. In my everyday life I act walk and talk like a lady. No matter what life dishes out you have to keep your demeanor about you.Lets face it ladies we all know how to pique the interest of a man we happen to be sweet on but as my father used to tell me if you got it flaunt it but leave enough to the imagination because men actually do like surprises!


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Posted on Mon, Jul 17, 2006 18:24

I love the fact that God made us all different. We are what we are...and what we (with His help) have made of ourselves. Personally, I'm fiercely independent: great job, own 2 homes, don't think twice about venturing on a cross country trip alone, yet... I still like to be cherished and cared for. The last morning of my recent 2300 mile jaunt I called a guy friend. Other than just saying hi, I called because I knew he'd worry about me and insist I check in when I got home. I still like being important to someone, even liked getting scolded by my GW group for not telling anyone where I was. I'm only speaking for myself, but HONESTY is the ONLY policy (fudging 5 pounds is okay; 25 is not). Speak the truth in love. Treat others as you'd like to be treated. Pretty simple...? Those gals that are lying, cheating, stealing...and looking for bad boys...probably low self-esteem. Been there; done that. A GOOD MAN (friend or lover) can do wonders...


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Posted on Mon, Jul 17, 2006 18:23

Amen, you said a mouthfull I always believe that what comes around goes around. Nanna


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Posted on Mon, Jul 17, 2006 17:18

Excellent blog island! It truly seems that in this day and age of technology the basic foundation of manners and courtesies have seem to have taken a back seat to rudeness, and most of all the plight of being inconsiderate. regardless of gender, may we all just treat each other as individuals deserving of respect and consideration. May the roads be smooth and worry free! Ram


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