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softailrick56
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Posted on Sat, Jul 29, 2006 04:24

can someone help me understand u women, just got out of a marriage to someone who i did everything for cuz i loved her , housework , yardwork, hell i even kept her van clean and up to date maintenance wise, gave her all the intimate time she ask for . did whatever she wanted or needed in bed(althought i didn't get it back)didn't go bar hopin or nothin so WTF .........help


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Posted on Tue, May 03, 2011 15:32

Rick,

You spoiled her! Maybe you should have told her "no" once in a while. There are those of us out there, that while we do appreciate the attention and the help, would very much enjoying doing things as a partner and giving in return. I have found that there seem to be what I like to call a lot of "me, me's" now a days. They only want what they want, when they want it and do not take into consideration the other feelings. There is little respect by some, both men and women. And while noone is perfect, we have to learn to communicate in both good and bad times. Without communication, what else is there? There has to be give and take in every relationship, and not just one sided. But I am a firm believer in "everything happens for a reason". We may not always like what happens, but you have to just get up and keep on going. :-)

 

Favorite saying:

A woman came from a mans rib,not from his feet to be walked on,not from his head to be superior,but from his side to be equal,under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. (Unknown)

 

Sounds like she did not want to be your equal. But cheer up, there is someone out there that will appreciate all your great quailties and be greatful for having you as their partner.



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Posted on Tue, May 03, 2011 15:15

Right there with you on that one!!! Some people are jsut players and can never be satisified with what they have.



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Posted on Sat, Aug 05, 2006 13:37

HERE KITTY KITTY WANNA GET MARRIED AGAIN??????????? YOU SOUND PERFECT no shit tho ,you gave her too much now all the rest of women will pay the price ,sometimes we are hard to understand cause we are unhappy with ourselves don;t balme you shit does happen and i hurts give your self time to heal tho cause nobody like to be caught on rebound GOD bless and keep you ...patty


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Posted on Sat, Aug 05, 2006 04:50

Well doesn't sound like you did anything wrong - wanna come over cuz I can't get my lawnmower started? But seriously maybe u just weren't a match and leave it at that. I did everything, bought everything, and showed all the love for my last ol man too and it still wasn't good enough so I'm still in WTF mode. You tell me????


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Posted on Sat, Aug 05, 2006 00:10

Rick, Sounds like you are trying to hard, people, not just women, are takers - the more you give the more they take, the less you ask in return the less they give -I'm trying to learn this myself as I"ve been stepped alllll over.


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Posted on Fri, Aug 04, 2006 21:54

This is my first time posting on a blog. I have been reading them for weeks but never posted but your question struck me and I just couldn't resist answering. As to why women do what they do? Well in all honesty I think that we sometimes don't know why we do what we do! Strange I know but, as has been said previously....women are hard to understand...complex creatures...emotional to a fault almost. You sound like a great guy so I wouldn't dwell on this question too much and next time don't loose yourself in the relationship. If you give and give and give then often times you don't get what you need or deserve. Move on, learn from this...there is someone out there that will appreciate all that you do and better yet reciprocate some of the wonderful things it sounds like you did!


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Posted on Fri, Aug 04, 2006 19:09

Well you did what would make this woman tick..dumb broad is all I can say. You are few and far between!


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Posted on Fri, Aug 04, 2006 19:01

Hi Rick, Sorry about your marriage ending. So many emotions are hitting you at this time. Be easy on yourself. In my opinion, and yes it is humble, I think getting to the basics of a person's character comes before gender based behavior. Hopefully the next lady you meet will have a respect for life; hers, yours. An appreciation for simple kindnesses, moral fiber. After the basics of good character are found..then maybe you can see if you find the personality appealing. As to what makes a women tick? I only know what makes me tick and it is hormones, hormones hormones, lol. I am an emotional, passionate female and a man who does not try to quash that in me gets my undying devotion. But that is just me. I would guess most women want to feel secure, safe. That we can trust. That we matter. That what we feel or say matters. That we know your boundaries and you know ours and both are respected. You will indulge our moments of emotional need without complaining of us being clingy or in the way. That you are willing to let us be and feel as completely female as we truly are. And that we can do the same for you. I think women want to know you will always be willing to listen. And that you can confide in us. We WANT to be your best friend and vice versa. Well, maybe the other ladies on here can state it better. I can only give you my own view of it. Good luck to you. Stay safe, T


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