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Posted on Tue, Aug 08, 2006 05:28

You do need a vacation. Or an attitude adjustment. Both. You need to take time to grieve and mourn your loss before you would be ready to accept anyone else in your life. You can't build a new relationship with someone while you are still trying to figure out what went wrong with the last. Who would want to knowingly immerse themselves into a world of such negativity? Who would be able to have the confidence that they would never disappoint you or hurt you? At the moment, you find yourself alone and afraid to trust again...but that shouldn't mean you are destined to live a lonely life. It looks to me that you are not with anyone at the moment because of your selectivity, rather than any lack of attractiveness. It's not a matter of not having women available to you, it's a matter of you not being willing to take a chance on one. As long as you are hurting and unable to trust, you will be pushing people away, and you will set yourself up for lonliness. But when you decide you are ready to accept someone into your life again, and you know what you have to offer, and the things you need from another person, and if you believe there is someone out there that can meet your expectations and appreciate what you have to offer, then you'll have a much better chance of success. So, can you really find someone? That is entirely up to you.


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