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Posted on Mon, Aug 06, 2007 08:19

Ok guys and gals.....brown paper package brought out a very important point....action in your relationships.....how do you show the lady of your life or the man in your life that you care...... give us your best scenario....AND it can't involve having !!!


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Posted on Sat, Aug 11, 2007 08:29

Okay...let me shove the depraved multitudes of my 48 personlities in the closet, and bring out ROMANTOR.... Its all about creating an experience that borders on fantasy. Remove the real world cares and build an experience around what she likes. In my case, my wife likes Carmel and Big Sur as those places have a special spiritual significance to them. So I have to place the world on hold for her, create this fog like experience where she can stop the planet, get off and be in NON-DISTURBIA. So if she gets a choice of bike or car as transport, best hotel accommodations with the right decor and airconditioning and ambience and suitable weather, a choice of place to dine that suits her palate and dietary requirements, an evening of dancing or beach walking, light and pleasant conversation, wine if she wants it. Point is, I put all my requests on hold and gently guide her through the experience she needs. This is not easy and can be extremely frustrating if you dont agree to sacrifice your own needs...must do that up front. Remember when you were first in love, you'd die for your love, so sacrifice came naturally. SO you have to seek pleasure in organizing and watching your partner glide through the romantic experience, but not appear as though you are really working. Then in the quiet moments between events such as transport, eating, attending events etc, just absorb those quiet moments of silently walking on the beach, staring into a bonfire, looking up into the stars, holding her hand or trajecting the bike across the Bixby bridge, watching the sunset or listening to her breathe as she falls asleep in your arms...thats where you can say quietly to yourself....this is heaven on earth. And once or twice a year, is worth the effort as practise in selflessness.


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Posted on Sat, Aug 11, 2007 06:12

Re: You have a great guy Deb..How was your trip cant wait to see you at the Rodeo... cruisineasy1 write: Cooking a nutritious hot meal before Dan leaves for work, and making up meals he can nuke when I am away since he refuses to cook for himself. He is also old school and loves for a woman to wait on him. Buying him tools he is lusting after, moving machinery around in the barn so he can build his ultimate tool/chop shop. While I was on vacation, biking through the Blue Ridge, Dan power cleaned and organized the entire house and the barn. Dan couldn't get away to go..if the shoe was on the other foot, I would have been pouting. Love for me is having Dan fix and maintain all this ancient farm equipment,jeep, truck, bikes, and tractors.He swears more now under his breath, but it all runs and works again. Yes there romantic times daily, moonlit motorcycle rides, late dinners, watching glowbugs dance in the night while snuggling on the front porch swing, working on projects together, late night campfires under a starry skies.



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Posted on Fri, Aug 10, 2007 02:53

Example Lily was a large tall overweight lady who was Charge Nurse at the Unit I worked in. But she had a 36 year old toyboy boyfriend who couldn't do enough for her. Bought her computers, cars expensive holidays etc. But Lily said when she first met him she was on a night out and was cross because she had been nice but got the usual bs men gave. So when he came up she gave him short shrift. He couldn't get enough The more nasty she was the more he wanted to go out with her and eventually they went out. But Lily said she has to keep it up and remember be a bitch now and again as he can't get enough of it. I also find that when I have been sharp the guy can't get enough. Once in a bar I gave my order and exact requirements for my drink in such a manner the 30 yr old bar man has been asking me out ever since. He said it was becasue I was definitely memrable becasue I stuck out among the doubting polite females as someone who knew what I wanted and how I wanted it. Junie


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Posted on Fri, Aug 10, 2007 02:22

Red A few years ago i was sat in the kitchen drinking a glass or two of wine after work and reading the back pages of the local free rag. It was where the "Adult Connexions" pages are. Usually a fun titilation to read. But I was cross at how many overweight middle aged and up men wanted a slim blonde tall 20-25 year old. and wondered what the response would be with the reverse. So being Junie I put a spoof wind-up ad saying "Fuller Figured Mature Professional Woman would like to meet younger men willing to serve her. Must be fit, good looking, eager to please. Must have endurance and not tire easily" I went to bed and forgot about it. Few days later I got a message on my mobile to say that 85 men had phoned. Then 145 by dinner time and it went up over the first week to quite a few hundred. And the offers really did come from professional men, and men in their 20s and 30s. I picked some of the messages up and absolutely howled in laughter. My landlady thought I was having a fit in the kitchen. I was just rolling about convulsed with laughter. These guys wanted to do anything for me. They were just glad they could find a female who was so up front with what she wanted. Be a Dom. Practice that look of complete comtempt and disdain like She Who Must Be Obeyed. I would be a Dom but I could not keep my face straight for long enough. "Mistress Did You Snort Just Then?" "Just a bout of Hay fever" "Its December" "Hm Yes. I tend to suffer it all year round." (stuffing rags into my mouth and biting hard on my whip to stop my gafawing and gagging on my tears of laughter) Junie


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 19:22

Re:Know what you mean about energy.....sometimes I wear out my kids and they are 30 and 35...lol!!! Ok...Ok....I'll put batteries on my list....what size........batteries that is...lol! TeachOnWheels write: Sunset, the one reason I would date a younger guy is because he could keep up with me. Most of the guys my age or older don't do much other than riding and that includes talking. I think they run out of energy pretty early. Oh well, it isn't the end of the world, I still get to ride, dance, camp, and do just now I find women who have lives to do it with. As long as I get to play I don't care who it's with and as for sex, I think that's why toys were developed. I just need to get more batteries, you and SC are using them all up on the GI Joe dolls. Gotcha!



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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 19:14

Thanks Man I appreciate the support. Being alone doesn't stop be from living. As long as I can ride, I'll be happy.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 19:12

Sunset, the one reason I would date a younger guy is because he could keep up with me. Most of the guys my age or older don't do much other than riding and that includes talking. I think they run out of energy pretty early. Oh well, it isn't the end of the world, I still get to ride, dance, camp, and do just now I find women who have lives to do it with. As long as I get to play I don't care who it's with and as for sex, I think that's why toys were developed. I just need to get more batteries, you and SC are using them all up on the GI Joe dolls. Gotcha!


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 18:27

LMFAO Yaaa what he said


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 18:19

Here's some advice for some peace and quiet for husbands...guys do not pass go..go directly to the doghouse...if you always wanted to be a roman catholic priest and go without sex forever...this is your guide Buy her some pink bags for her vacuum cleaner get her the latest weight watchers guide get her the guide to middle aged womens cellulite removal clinics get her a bigger bathroom scale that goes to 400 pounds buy her new underarm spray by febreeze get her a G-string from parachutes-r-us get her a 7 year subscription to the Atkins diet give her a 2-for 1 coupon for droppy boob bras from Big Lots or McFrugals and last but not least...cancel your life insurance policy, so that when she kills you, she'll cry. doh!!


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 17:01

Re:Well ladies...I haven't said too much on this blog even though it is mine...everyone has been giving their input which is really nice. I guess for me...and I can only speak for myself....men and women seem to prefer younger....at least somewhat younger than they are...if you look at profiles both men and women...they are looking for someone either 10-15 years younger or no more than 2 years older. What both sexes fail to realize whether we are 50-55-60-65....we have a lifetime of experience, laughter, heartache, wisdom and insights to share.We are all fun, funny, witty, risk-taking, hearts full of love types of people. I say....don't look at the age...if you like their looks and what they have to say....go for it. maneater write: Re:Well....call me a "Hopeless Romantic" then......I just think you are to intelligent, funny, I just have a hard time thinking that there are not men out there looking for the same thing you are...I don't know you personally like I know MsProse.....but if the two of you are anything alike.....the men are missing out!! MsProse keeps me laughing, keeps me in check....she's beautiful... even drunk...lets...well let...me color her hair...she did'nt care for the fact I wanted to get her eyebrows and eye lashes too...okay I am drifting here....anyway...I am sure you got my point!! TeachOnWheels write: Maneater - I have kissed enough frogs to feed an army. Sorry, just stating the facts not pissing and moaning. I have some great friends from this site and will make more at rodeo, but think I'm history in the dating area. Sad to think but true. I finally reach my prime, willing to take risks, love to ride and I'm now discardable. Go figure. It's like my aunt use to say, eat your dessert first because there might not be room later. Guess I should have been more of a player younger and not such a good mom. Can't go back so I'll just keep riding.



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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 16:40

Look at how many guys look at your blogs though...some over and over, right? So wink at them..what can you loose? Sometimes we limit ourselves. Go for it. :}


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 05:55

Maneater - I have kissed enough frogs to feed an army. Sorry, just stating the facts not pissing and moaning. I have some great friends from this site and will make more at rodeo, but think I'm history in the dating area. Sad to think but true. I finally reach my prime, willing to take risks, love to ride and I'm now discardable. Go figure. It's like my aunt use to say, eat your dessert first because there might not be room later. Guess I should have been more of a player younger and not such a good mom. Can't go back so I'll just keep riding.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 05:33

Re:Try hitting the 60!!!!!.....either it is someone totally unsuited to what you want or it's the young ones looking for who knows what. I am here to blog, meet people for friendship....just came out of a relationship from here....still trying to put my life back together......friendship works fine for me for now. Msprose write: Tech I have to agree with you, it seems being over 50 must be the kiss of death on this site. Even when there profile states there looking for friends also. I just don't feel this a dating site. However I've met some awesome friends on this site and stay around for the entertainment. Who knows what may happen.



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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 05:23

Long as I'm in the top two that will be fine. But #1. " I would like to thank all the people who helped make this possible. The people I have insulted, the women I have jilted, I'm sorry just getting a little choked up. " Thank you all for this great honor!


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 05:17

Tech I have to agree with you, it seems being over 50 must be the kiss of death on this site. Even when there profile states there looking for friends also. I just don't feel this a dating site. However I've met some awesome friends on this site and stay around for the entertainment. Who knows what may happen.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 03:23

Junie - Thanks for your post on my comment about men only wanting the young ones. I've been around the block many times and it just ain't happening. I enjoy your honest approach to life and saying what you think. Sher - I've been on this site for 3 years off and on and it's the same ol same ol. I'm not leaving because I am meeting some great people, but I don't consider this a dating/single site for women my age.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 02:50

Cooking a nutritious hot meal before Dan leaves for work, and making up meals he can nuke when I am away since he refuses to cook for himself. He is also old school and loves for a woman to wait on him. Buying him tools he is lusting after, moving machinery around in the barn so he can build his ultimate tool/chop shop. While I was on vacation, biking through the Blue Ridge, Dan power cleaned and organized the entire house and the barn. Dan couldn't get away to go..if the shoe was on the other foot, I would have been pouting. Love for me is having Dan fix and maintain all this ancient farm equipment,jeep, truck, bikes, and tractors.He swears more now under his breath, but it all runs and works again. Yes there romantic times daily, moonlit motorcycle rides, late dinners, watching glowbugs dance in the night while snuggling on the front porch swing, working on projects together, late night campfires under a starry skies.


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Posted on Wed, Aug 08, 2007 19:19

Re: Now teach thats BS you havent been on here long enough to find the right guy this takes time and is always a work in progress..You have to date a few before you can give up...LOL TeachOnWheels write: Yes but the good guys only want the younger gals. If you are over 50 women, take a hike this isn't the site for you. Unless of course you just want friends and you can find some great ones here.


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Posted on Wed, Aug 08, 2007 13:57

Teach - It took some time and these girls can tell you they once stood where you stand and asked "What's the Use?" But Harleygurl and Cruisineasy both found someone who were genuine and loved them for therselves and their size and their age. So hopefully someone will come along for you. Just be yourself, do your best and enjoy all of life while you are waiting. JUnie


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