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Posted on Sun, May 14, 2006 07:53

I'm getting ready to quit BikerKiss. It seems if you are a woman, you will be contacted many, many times by guys. I think that's great for you, but it would be nice for you women to reply to an e-mail that is sent to you, even if it's just to say you're not interested. I think a reply would be the courteous thing to do. And I am sure I'm not the only guy who is experiencing this. If the women have read my profile they will find that I am very laid back and am not looking for a one night stand or to be a pain in the butt to any woman. It would just be nice to get a reply after I send an e-mail, it makes you appear stuck up. I guess this site works for some people, but this is probably not the right place for me. Refelecting on my past, I think I have always been too giving to women and got taken advantage of. I definitely know I have not met the right person yet. Thanks, I wish everyone good luck in their search for happiness.

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Posted on Wed, May 17, 2006 12:38

ah,thank you very much u are very sweet.im sorry u have had trouble on this site.no one has looked at my pics.they just dont know what they are missing.you are a very sweet person.good luck to u.anytime u want to talk,u know where to find me.great talking to you.


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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 08:20

Thanks to everyone for taking the time to reply to my concern. I have to say I feel a lot better about this site and especially for everyone's kindness sending all of these responses. I have taken all of your comments to heart and will learn from them. Several comments had to do with suggesting that I not take things too personally. You all are right, sometimes I wear my feelings on my sleeve and look to deeply at things. Also, one person said to stop being the victim -- again I agree with this, I will stop being the victim - it's never a good image. I've learned plenty today and sincerely appreciate everyone's thoughtful words. I hope you all find your true happiness! Fernando..........


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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 05:51

This site is really goofy. It is possible a lot of your emails are not even being received by the women you are writing. Also, they may not be members anymore and cannot reply. The screename 'Peach_Eater' might be seen as a ploy to get women thinking you are advertising for plenty of fresh kitty. best of luck...don't give up kissing frogettes! DD

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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 05:49

PEACH, I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN. FOR ALL, IF YOU GET A WINK, OR EMAIL, AT LEAST SHOW THE RESPECT AND SEND A COMMENT BACK. IF YOUR NOT INTERESTED JUST SAY SO. THIS WAY THE PERSON CAN CONTINUE LOOKING. DON'T JUST LOOK AT THE PIC AND SAY NO AND CLICK OFF. HAVE SOME COMMON COURTESY AND REPLY WITH WHATEVER YOU WISH TO REPLY WITH. MAKES A WOMAN FEEL GOOD IF AT LEAST SHE GETS A YES OR NO. THEN WE KNOW WE ARE AT LEAST PAYING FOR SOMETHING. DOES IT TAKE THAT LONG TO REPLY? SO IF EVERYONE HAS RESPECT FOR ALL BIKERS, ESPECIALLY ON THIS SITE, SEND BACK A NICE YES OR NO. THEN GO ON WITH YOUR SEARCHES. ALOT OF PEOPLE DO PAY FOR THIS, AND WOULD LIKE TO KNOW THEIR MONEY IS AT LEAST WORTH IT. HOPE YOU ALL REPLY ONE WAY OR ANOTHER TO YOUR WINKS, ADDS, EMAILS, ETC. JUST SO WE KNOW THIS SITE IS USEFUL. THANKS ALL, RIDE SAFE & GOD BLESS. ;0) HEY, YOU MIGHT EVEN MAKE A GOOD FRIEND ON HERE. AND THAT IS EVEN SUCCESS!!!!!!!!!


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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 19:53

Sorry to hear you so sour/bitter. I agree, it would be nice if people would honestly let you know they aren't intersted, BUT DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL. If you were out and about, made a pass at a woman and she didn't respond, would you walk up to her and ask her what's wrong? This is kinda the same situation, it just allows us to think/look outside the box. Sometimes you have to kiss a lot frogs first.


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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 18:23

Stop looking at yourself as a victim and don't take it personal.


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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 17:08

I don't think it's just guys. I rarely ever get emails and when I do they are from people far away. What's up with that? I want to find someone close to go riding with....not sure they exist. Or may they are out riding and now on the computer, lol.


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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 16:51

I am here but not member yet, and live in WI."Peach-eater" was a bit intimidating; a picture with rider: implies you have many contacts. Goes to prove that things are not what they seem. Sorry that you have not had better responses.


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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 16:05

I always try to reply to everyone - However, it would help if an email address is included in messages so I could reply. I'm no longer a paying member so we are stuck with canned repies which are usually stupid and not what we would like to say.


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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 14:15

I am with you 100% on your thoughts


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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 14:00

I have had the same experience with the men not responding even after they wink at me, PeachEater! (Love the name btw!!) I think an important part of making this whole thing work well for everyone is to be responsive... even when not interested. I always respond to everyone who contacts me whether I am interested or not. If I was inclined otherwise I would not be here. I understand being shy or anxious about taking it to the next level (chatting or meeting) but have some cajones people! We are all here because we are looking for some great conversations and experiences with each other. When you don't respond it certainly does come off snobby even if you are really just hiding behind your handlebars because you are shy. We can't see you there so come out and play! ZB


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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 13:02

Sorry you had a bad experience. Guys are just as bad about replys. I just want to have some fun and make new, cool friends. I'm sure you'd like the same. You can't give up just because it didn't work out right away. I'm always the one doing all the giving in a relationship so someone like you would be a breath of fresh air. And your good looking too!


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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 12:37

Sorry to hear you haven't had much success with meeting someone on this site. You have to hang in there. The right woman will come your way when you least expect it. Be patient, it does take time! Best of luck on finding your match.


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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 08:21

Hi Peach, how you doing? Nice profile btw. Well this woman isn't getting contacted a lot. Somethings not right here. I'm not ready to quit the site, but my membership is nearly run out and I'm thinking I'm not renewing it. I won't be near the computer a whole lot anyways as the weather breaks. I do wink & write to those I am interested in, it's rare I get a response. I totally agree it would be nice to receive a reply even if it is just to say, I'm not interested. I'm thinking I'm not showing enough boobage in my photo's or I am truly butt ugly and don't know it. hahahaha I wish you luck in your search for happiness, if your ever up North gimme a hollar. Ride Free, Vickie


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