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Posted on Sun, Oct 29, 2006 06:24

SEEMS LIKE ALL THE PEOPLE IVE TALKED TO REFER THIS SITE AS A CLASSIFIED AD FOR SEX, IS THAT TRUE? CAUSE I AM REALLY LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP, LONG TERM, NOT JUST FOR SEX.LETS SEE HOW MANY RESPONSES I GET


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Posted on Thu, Jan 04, 2007 01:50

the closest thing to sex i've had on here is being told to go screw myself. there is a lot of good people here and no doubt some players too. even if you don't find the love of your life what's wrong with finding friends?


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 18:28

James... thought YOU were!! Buckethead... you do belong here!


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 16:33

...hey who having all this sex she keep talking about??? ;p


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 12:46

SEX?????????? WHAT IS THAT?????? ON HERE? DERN I ALWAYS MISS OUT ON ALL THE GOOD STUFF.(SNIFF SNIFF,POUT POUT )


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 12:46

SEX!?!??! Are you kidding - I'm lucky if I get a wink from a profile with a pic on it.


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 11:21

Sex? On this site? you've got to be kidding. I've even chased a couple men off here by joking that I'd do them! I figure if you don't meet up with the person you are interested in within 2 months time, you are caught in the friend zone. I go meet people because I just like to, not for a relationship. But, everyone already knows I'm not looking for a relationship, just buddies to ride with.


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 10:04

I believe your characterization of this site as a ?Classified Ad for sex? is a bit of an overstatement. I believe most people who utilize these sites view them as merely one of several ways to meet new people with similar interests. As is always the case when engaging others with whom we feel there may be a connection one must exercise a modicum of restraint and caution. For me, sex is an important component of the relationship. It certainly is not the only component but let?s face it, statistics have proven the cause for nearly 80% of divorces in this country revolve around sex and money. And, sex comes in varying degrees. Engaging in the physical act itself is the easy part. Where we tend to disconnect is in our expectations and what transpires afterward. I enjoy the art of expressing myself emotionally in the art lovemaking as much as I do the fun of exploration in down and dirty sex. The challenge is finding that one person who enjoys those two facets equally and on the same schedule (this of course assumes all other facets of the relationship are hitting on all cylinders as well). For me personally a ?relationship? cannot exist without this. That?s not to say I cannot have a platonic relationship with the opposite sex as I have my fair share of those. And, it?s not to say that I am opposed to the whole ?friends with benefits? angle either as I?ve enjoyed one or two of those as well. But, for me to be in a long-term, emotionally charged, passionate, giving and receiving relationship sex / lovemaking will be a factor. And, before I give myself over emotionally 100% that will be determined beforehand.


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 07:36

Hey !!!! If this is a sex site then I am doing something very wrong, the only sex that I am haveing is with myself, and Janet Reno, I do write to a couple of women that I have met here, hell I dont know what will happen, (maybe I will get lucky)at least the women that I do meet here seem to like a few of the things I do, hell I ant into all of that huppie, s--t anyway, I feel compfortable here, maybe I belong here, at least its a start. buckethead


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 06:58

We joke around (alot) and have some laughs, but I wouldn't call this a sex site. Meeting a true love would be wonderful, and in the meantime there's friendship. How great is that?


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Posted on Mon, Dec 18, 2006 22:42

Everyone is here for there own reason. they are all looking for something, it might be a pen pal, a friend, or someone to ride with and then yes for love. What ever your reason is up to you. but making a friend along the way never hurt anyone.


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Posted on Mon, Dec 18, 2006 18:44

IM LOOKING FOR REAL LOVE,,,


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Posted on Fri, Nov 03, 2006 07:41

Harley and Other Girls... Here's my 2 cents on hurt..take it or leave it. You gotta be bold and be prepared to get hurt! Having a baby - is painful - so would you not want that when you're ready? Everytime I got hurt, the next one that appreciated me gave me the most intense great feelings I had. I learnt that I got hurt by my false expectation of something different, so I changed my expectation and instead of wanting to take, I decided to give first. In a physical relationship, I prepared myself to give pleasure to my partner first...then be prepared to walk away...never got far though as I was yanked back quicksmart! If you learn to ride a bike, you will fall off and get hurt. You gotta work through that pain to learn. Anything worth it in life, has the filter of pain...gotta be strong enough to move through it. You'll be happiest if you learn to be happy with giving love and empathy and expecting little back in return. Its the disappointed lack of return of affection or apathy that hurts...Gotta insulate yourself from that. We're all looking for people that give love freely (not sex-love-welcoming, complimenting and acceptance).They are the liberated ones, the special souls, the angels. We cant help but give it back to them and want to make them feel great. Hopes this gives you courage to arrive free to give to the next relationship and not hold back. Write down what you want and examine it regularly...is it really what you want, or what someone else expects you to find? Go with your gut...trust your feelings...your first instinct is usually right. Men entering a relationship rationally and hormones in check usually want someone special...looks fade, so its not all about looks. Its how you make a guy feel, how you earn his respect by what you do for the world, how you work on improving yourself, your courage and how you complete or supplement his weaknesses. How you care about what he does, making him feel good about his vocation and being proud of him. Where are all the good guys? All around you..libraries, churches, bike runs, Repair stores, You have to risk hurt to break through the hard M&M like facade shell everyone wears to protect themselves from the world to find the NUTS you luv! The grungiest hardest looking biker souls I've encountered are usually the gems...they've been abandoned because of looks. But they'll stop and keep you company when you break down, they'll be a pillar of strength and when you bid them farewell they ask for nothing in return. They're like hardened angels...people to respect..Peel their M&M shells...you'll find the sweet angel you've been seeking.


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Posted on Thu, Nov 02, 2006 23:32

huh? what?...you mean all this and sex too??....lol....;p


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Posted on Thu, Nov 02, 2006 23:11

if this is a sex site I have definutely been missing something. I have been here a while, and I have never even met anyone from here in person


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Posted on Thu, Nov 02, 2006 07:57

Spirit.. you are special!!!


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Posted on Wed, Nov 01, 2006 16:39

I am going to have to disagree with you Spunky, because I am ONLY looking for a committed long term relationship. I do not feel that it is immature to think that way. I am not looking for sex, I am not looking to date alot of different women, ( been there done that when I was young). I would hope that anyone who is looking for a long term relationship would get to know a person well before committing to them. So if I happen to find a person here or anywhere online that seems to be a good match I will get to know that person and see where it goes, talk, meet, date, instead of looking at and trying to get to know all the women online at once. There are always greener pastures so I will stay in one at a time. But i will continue to be friends and talk with the people I meet that are not a good match for me. Oh to answer Moldiva Yes I am!!!


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Posted on Wed, Nov 01, 2006 04:14

I would vote no. It's kind of like a bike rally. A lot of people with a common interest - motorcycle riding. At a rally you meet new people and become friends. If a relationship beyond friendship developes, that becomes a plus.


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Posted on Wed, Nov 01, 2006 03:28

I've met a lot of great people through here. Most I've remained good friends with and ride with a few of them too. Just like life, it's what you make of the site. I keep looking, maybe someday I will find one to "date" for a while. But making new friends has been great too.


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Posted on Tue, Oct 31, 2006 13:06

WELL MY GUESS IS ..I AM NEW ON THIS SITE N WAS TOLD BY MANY TO BE CARE FULL ..WHICH I AM SO AFRAID I JUST MIGHT GET HURT.. WHICH I REALLY HATE ..BUT IF THIS IS WHAT THIS SITE IS ALL ABOUT I WONT BE ON HERE TO LONG..I BEEN GETTING ALOT OF RIF RAF ANYWAY ..WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FINE A GOOD MAN ..R THEY ALL TAKIN..HUGS N KISSES HARLEY


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