Quoting Meechi:

I too have replied to winks, and mails. Have met a couple of great guys, one I thought was really going to go somewhere, then just kinda didn't....and suddenly. I don't want to be an obligation or a fly by night, or time to move on to the next one! Oh well. I'm not stupid, or like choas and drama. No BS guys, lets keep it real. I did meet someone new however, and really liking where its going, but now I'm a little skittish on how long he is going to last or "keep me around". Don't know what I am really pointing too. But, I will say "Guys, if you post what it is you are really looking for, then don't pass or turn it down. But, also KEEP IT REAL and HONEST!"

I too have replied to winks, and mails. Have met a couple of great guys, one I thought was really going to go somewhere, then just kinda didn't....and suddenly. I don't want to be an obligation or a fly by night, or time to move on to the next one! Oh well. I'm not stupid, or like choas and drama. No BS guys, lets keep it real. I did meet someone new however, and really liking where its going, but now I'm a little skittish on how long he is going to last or "keep me around". Don't know what I am really pointing too. But, I will say "Guys, if you post what it is you are really looking for, then don't pass or turn it down. But, also KEEP IT REAL and HONEST!"

Quoting Meechi:

You nailed it Serenity

You nailed it Serenity

Quoting wind_ryder:

I do have to make a defense for some of the men as well so here goes.. not all women put the information on their sites correctly either so the men aren't always getting what they are expecting as are the women.. Goes both ways

I do have to make a defense for some of the men as well so here goes.. not all women put the information on their sites correctly either so the men aren't always getting what they are expecting as are the women.. Goes both ways

Quoting Heretic:

In defense of the guys here, sometimes it is difficult to put exactly what you want into words. There are so many variables that a few blanket statements just cant cover it all

In defense of the guys here, sometimes it is difficult to put exactly what you want into words. There are so many variables that a few blanket statements just cant cover it all

Quoting Stevep714:

You are a good lookin' lady and something will pop for you soon enough. Heck, if I was closer I would come calling for you.

You are a good lookin' lady and something will pop for you soon enough. Heck, if I was closer I would come calling for you.

Quoting Meechi:

Thank you very much for your kind words

Thank you very much for your kind words

Quoting nolines:

So True Meech people should post what they're really lookin' for & not give false hopes. Men & women can be misleading at times but more to the truth most men don't really know what they want. I know Im a man. I usually start out telling myself & the people I meet that Im not looking for a relationship but one thing leads to another & end up in a relationship for years on the other hand when you're lookin' for that with one they seem to slip through you're fingers for no reason. Who can tell us why we can't always get what we want. The road to helll is paved with good intentions but people should say what they want from the start it would save a lot of broken hearts.Keoep fightin' the good fight girl don't give up you're a beautiful girl & you seem intellegent enough keep you're eyes open your man will ride right up beside you some day. And don't be afraid to ask him what it is he really want if he avoids the question just be careful ok.
No Lines Edmonton, Alberta, Cananda

So True Meech people should post what they're really lookin' for & not give false hopes. Men & women can be misleading at times but more to the truth most men don't really know what they want. I know Im a man. I usually start out telling myself & the people I meet that Im not looking for a relationship but one thing leads to another & end up in a relationship for years on the other hand when you're lookin' for that with one they seem to slip through you're fingers for no reason. Who can tell us why we can't always get what we want. The road to helll is paved with good intentions but people should say what they want from the start it would save a lot of broken hearts.Keoep fightin' the good fight girl don't give up you're a beautiful girl & you seem intellegent enough keep you're eyes open your man will ride right up beside you some day. And don't be afraid to ask him what it is he really want if he avoids the question just be careful ok.
No Lines Edmonton, Alberta, Cananda