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Posted on Mon, Jun 21, 2010 21:18

I absolutely detest, despise, and dread Mondays..............yet this one ended OK.  I recently started going to a therapy group(on relationships).  Actually, this was the second meeting........twice a month for six months, each session 2 hours in length.  I had never participated nor even thought of being involved in a group, but I have to say......this is gonna be a blessing in multiple ways!  I KNOW it was a total "God thing" that this group was starting  shortly after I started going back to my therapist(not the moderator of my group) for some more healing and growth, etc. I think I wrote some on my earlier post about all the damage my ex caused me.  So tonight, I made some beautiful progress, and in the process, set another goal which I think I need to obtain.  We shall see if the progress is real or imagined as these next two weeks pass.  It's all about relationships, isn't it?  This website is about the same thing.  Our thoughts are bombarded with questions, worries,  and "what if" scenarios daily(at least in my case), and that consumes tons of energy.  I realize not everybody is looking for a relationship, and some people already have their "one true love".  However, for the rest of us mere mortals, we undoubtedly occassionally face the grim spectre of whether we will live the rest of our lives WITH someone or alone.  I'm at the point now that I'm thinking I could be OK with the latter possibility...........at the same time HOPING that my "one true love" is out there...........just waiting for me.  I'm confident that as my healing and growth continues, God will show me more of His plan for me................I have total faith in that!  Yall keep YOUR faith always.  Peace, Dragondog52



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Posted on Wed, Jan 12, 2011 21:39

OK...........it's been a loooooooooooonnnnnnggggg time since I made an entry.  Here goes whatever it is.  God has been shoving some important lessons down my gullet, and despite my protests.........He continues the lessons.  I think more than anything, that it's His lesson for truly embracing the role of "grownup or ADULT", and I have to say............message received.......LOUD and CLEAR!!!!  'nuff of all that for now.  God bless all yall and your families.

             Peace,

       ​        ​   Dragondog52



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Posted on Wed, Jan 12, 2011 21:35

To: msbreezeifuplez,

          You know.......I've known of the benefits of journaling for quite some time.  However, I've just never jumped that chasm to actually DOING it.  Who knows......maybe tomorrow will be the day.  Keep me in your prayers, please.

          Peace,

              Dragondog52



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Posted on Tue, Jan 11, 2011 18:56

Take it from me...You will never be alone, nor lonely, if you just realize that there is more than one person there inside... ME, MYSELF, AND, I!! Teeheehee. It's gotten me through some hard, yet, lonely times and I'm glad I took the time to get to know me. Now, I'm strong enough, in my own right, to deny anyone bringing me down. Mind you, I'm not stuck on myself, but, I'm better company than some bloated, over-confident, negatively opinionated...Get my drift? Great job on the therapy. Another way to help yourself gain ground is to keep a notebook and once a week, when you're in a positive mood, read it ALOUD to yourself and see what transpires. YOU WILL BE AMAZED!! Self-realization is soo gratifying when you're on a mission of self-help.. Good luck and I hope this works as well for you as it did me. P.S.,,,Don't forget the reward system.


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Posted on Sun, Aug 22, 2010 19:50

Vixenkitdance,

     Thanks for the wonderful comment.  I just reread my words, and .........wow..........I think I STILL stand by all that........and that's a good thang!  God bless you and your family.  Peace, Dragondog52



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Posted on Sun, Aug 22, 2010 15:01

What a very brave man you are!! God's Blessings!!!



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