Women's lib. has done some good things, but also some backwards.
I want a man who will open a door, pull out a chair, wipe off a wet seat on the bike, and be MY man, just as I am HIS woman. A man who will put his hand on the small of my back to guide me through a crowd (ok, I am kinda small), watch out for me, call me just to say "hi", someone who I can cuddle up to, claim a spot on his chest as my own pillow (nobody else's!) and is not afraid to wrap his arms around me just because. I want a man who will make me feel safe, cared for and appreciated. I will do the same for him. I have a good job, I don't need his money. By cared for, I want a man who, when catching my eye from across a crowded room, without speaking, tells me that it's time to go home because he's about to rock my world. Again, I will do the same.
A man, who when I travel on business, will tell me that he is going to miss me and mean it. A man who is as loyal to his woman as I am to him. Who will support my passions (horses, kids, etc) even if he doesn't participate. Who can laugh with me when I am cursing during a hockey game and recognizes my potty mouth as "cute". A man who, when we are out together, radiates the fact that I am his and vice versa. Public displays of affection? You betcha! A man who will introduce me to people, even if he's only met them once before, because he's proud that he is with me.
Although I can take care of myself, I want to feel protected and curl up with him at the end of a day, good or bad, and just get lost in his embrace.
SIGH...Hallmark, here I come! LOL
Women's lib. has done some good things, but also some backwards.
I want a man who will open a door, pull out a chair, wipe off a wet seat on the bike, and be MY man, just as I am HIS woman. A man who will put his hand on the small of my back to guide me through a crowd (ok, I am kinda small), watch out for me, call me just to say "hi", someone who I can cuddle up to, claim a spot on his chest as my own pillow (nobody else's!) and is not afraid to wrap his arms around me just because. I want a man who will make me feel safe, cared for and appreciated. I will do the same for him. I have a good job, I don't need his money. By cared for, I want a man who, when catching my eye from across a crowded room, without speaking, tells me that it's time to go home because he's about to rock my world. Again, I will do the same.
A man, who when I travel on business, will tell me that he is going to miss me and mean it. A man who is as loyal to his woman as I am to him. Who will support my passions (horses, kids, etc) even if he doesn't participate. Who can laugh with me when I am cursing during a hockey game and recognizes my potty mouth as "cute". A man who, when we are out together, radiates the fact that I am his and vice versa. Public displays of affection? You betcha! A man who will introduce me to people, even if he's only met them once before, because he's proud that he is with me.
Although I can take care of myself, I want to feel protected and curl up with him at the end of a day, good or bad, and just get lost in his embrace.
Nope, that was exactly the point of that post. I am not going to sit around while a guy dicks around on calling me or not either..I will be off doing something else too, just like you.
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HDsweetcheeks write: OHH were supposed to sit around and wait for them to call??? Thats why I have a cell, if you say your gonna cal at 6:00 you have till 6:10, then im gone doing something else..sorry life is to short
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CinnamonGirlOH write: Call when you say you will. Women hate nothing worse than to sit around waiting for you to call, especially if we have tentative plans with you. It drives us nuts and if you wait too long you run the risk of calling and finding out we are gone. We are not going to wait around for you all day.
Initiate sex, and often. Women hate feeling like they have to ask for it, so just give it up already!! Most of us probably want it more then you do...yes, I know that is shocking to the men, but I know the women here can relate.
Be a gentleman and don't stop being one. The women's lib movement has created this urban myth down in Man Land that says since we wanted equal pay we all turned into a bunch of she bulls with attitudes toward gentlemanly behavior. Not true. We really, really like it when you open doors, pull out chairs, hold our jacket out, etc.
Please don't play "catch and release" with us, we don't like it. This is the game where you pursue us and act like we are everything you want, but then as soon as we decide we want you too, you decide you don't want us anymore, no more challenge.. Kinda like another version of male hunting. Please be more considerate of the does out there, they have soft hearts.
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HDsweetcheeks write: OHH were supposed to sit around and wait for them to call??? Thats why I have a cell, if you say your gonna cal at 6:00 you have till 6:10, then im gone doing something else..sorry life is to short
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CinnamonGirlOH write: Call when you say you will. Women hate nothing worse than to sit around waiting for you to call, especially if we have tentative plans with you. It drives us nuts and if you wait too long you run the risk of calling and finding out we are gone. We are not going to wait around for you all day.
Initiate sex, and often. Women hate feeling like they have to ask for it, so just give it up already!! Most of us probably want it more then you do...yes, I know that is shocking to the men, but I know the women here can relate.
Be a gentleman and don't stop being one. The women's lib movement has created this urban myth down in Man Land that says since we wanted equal pay we all turned into a bunch of she bulls with attitudes toward gentlemanly behavior. Not true. We really, really like it when you open doors, pull out chairs, hold our jacket out, etc.
Please don't play "catch and release" with us, we don't like it. This is the game where you pursue us and act like we are everything you want, but then as soon as we decide we want you too, you decide you don't want us anymore, no more challenge.. Kinda like another version of male hunting. Please be more considerate of the does out there, they have soft hearts.
Nope, that was exactly the point of that post. I am not going to sit around while a guy dicks around on calling me or not either..I will be off doing something else too, just like you.
OHH were supposed to sit around and wait for them to call??? Thats why I have a cell, if you say your gonna cal at 6:00 you have till 6:10, then im gone doing something else..sorry life is to short
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CinnamonGirlOH write: Call when you say you will. Women hate nothing worse than to sit around waiting for you to call, especially if we have tentative plans with you. It drives us nuts and if you wait too long you run the risk of calling and finding out we are gone. We are not going to wait around for you all day.
Initiate sex, and often. Women hate feeling like they have to ask for it, so just give it up already!! Most of us probably want it more then you do...yes, I know that is shocking to the men, but I know the women here can relate.
Be a gentleman and don't stop being one. The women's lib movement has created this urban myth down in Man Land that says since we wanted equal pay we all turned into a bunch of she bulls with attitudes toward gentlemanly behavior. Not true. We really, really like it when you open doors, pull out chairs, hold our jacket out, etc.
Please don't play "catch and release" with us, we don't like it. This is the game where you pursue us and act like we are everything you want, but then as soon as we decide we want you too, you decide you don't want us anymore, no more challenge.. Kinda like another version of male hunting. Please be more considerate of the does out there, they have soft hearts.
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CinnamonGirlOH write: Call when you say you will. Women hate nothing worse than to sit around waiting for you to call, especially if we have tentative plans with you. It drives us nuts and if you wait too long you run the risk of calling and finding out we are gone. We are not going to wait around for you all day.
Initiate sex, and often. Women hate feeling like they have to ask for it, so just give it up already!! Most of us probably want it more then you do...yes, I know that is shocking to the men, but I know the women here can relate.
Be a gentleman and don't stop being one. The women's lib movement has created this urban myth down in Man Land that says since we wanted equal pay we all turned into a bunch of she bulls with attitudes toward gentlemanly behavior. Not true. We really, really like it when you open doors, pull out chairs, hold our jacket out, etc.
Please don't play "catch and release" with us, we don't like it. This is the game where you pursue us and act like we are everything you want, but then as soon as we decide we want you too, you decide you don't want us anymore, no more challenge.. Kinda like another version of male hunting. Please be more considerate of the does out there, they have soft hearts.
OHH were supposed to sit around and wait for them to call??? Thats why I have a cell, if you say your gonna cal at 6:00 you have till 6:10, then im gone doing something else..sorry life is to short
Re: Only if your dating a game player that likes playing head games...and CG you keep writing the men may get it and some of them women may get whats normal...LOL. Oh course I never claimed to be normal, perfect or anything like that, it took a special man to fill the shoes of my husband, and he's doing it well. 07Glideman write: When it comes to women 90% of a relationship is mental, the other half is physical.
Re: Only if your dating a game player that likes playing head games...and CG you keep writing the men may get it and some of them women may get whats normal...LOL. Oh course I never claimed to be normal, perfect or anything like that, it took a special man to fill the shoes of my husband, and he's doing it well. 07Glideman write: When it comes to women 90% of a relationship is mental, the other half is physical.
Call when you say you will. Women hate nothing worse than to sit around waiting for you to call, especially if we have tentative plans with you. It drives us nuts and if you wait too long you run the risk of calling and finding out we are gone. We are not going to wait around for you all day.
Initiate sex, and often. Women hate feeling like they have to ask for it, so just give it up already!! Most of us probably want it more then you do...yes, I know that is shocking to the men, but I know the women here can relate.
Be a gentleman and don't stop being one. The women's lib movement has created this urban myth down in Man Land that says since we wanted equal pay we all turned into a bunch of she bulls with attitudes toward gentlemanly behavior. Not true. We really, really like it when you open doors, pull out chairs, hold our jacket out, etc.
Please don't play "catch and release" with us, we don't like it. This is the game where you pursue us and act like we are everything you want, but then as soon as we decide we want you too, you decide you don't want us anymore, no more challenge.. Kinda like another version of male hunting. Please be more considerate of the does out there, they have soft hearts.
Call when you say you will. Women hate nothing worse than to sit around waiting for you to call, especially if we have tentative plans with you. It drives us nuts and if you wait too long you run the risk of calling and finding out we are gone. We are not going to wait around for you all day.
Initiate sex, and often. Women hate feeling like they have to ask for it, so just give it up already!! Most of us probably want it more then you do...yes, I know that is shocking to the men, but I know the women here can relate.
Be a gentleman and don't stop being one. The women's lib movement has created this urban myth down in Man Land that says since we wanted equal pay we all turned into a bunch of she bulls with attitudes toward gentlemanly behavior. Not true. We really, really like it when you open doors, pull out chairs, hold our jacket out, etc.
Please don't play "catch and release" with us, we don't like it. This is the game where you pursue us and act like we are everything you want, but then as soon as we decide we want you too, you decide you don't want us anymore, no more challenge.. Kinda like another version of male hunting. Please be more considerate of the does out there, they have soft hearts.
CW, I can give you a copy if you'd like, but I really thought that I'd sign you up for personal one on one guide sessions, since I fear you may be almost beyond hope. LOL.. That way I can make sure you get it right!!
BTW, it looks you need to pay attention to the chapter titled "getting some helps us both sleep"... LMAO
Look for your autographed copy soon..
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cwsthunder write: CG.,,CAN I HAVE DIBBSON THE NEW EDITION WHEN IT COMES OUT??ALTHOUGH I MAY FALL ASLEEP READING IT,,AT LEAST I MAY GET SOME,,SLEEP THAT IS LMAO,,CW.
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cwsthunder write: CG.,,CAN I HAVE DIBBSON THE NEW EDITION WHEN IT COMES OUT??ALTHOUGH I MAY FALL ASLEEP READING IT,,AT LEAST I MAY GET SOME,,SLEEP THAT IS LMAO,,CW.
CW, I can give you a copy if you'd like, but I really thought that I'd sign you up for personal one on one guide sessions, since I fear you may be almost beyond hope. LOL.. That way I can make sure you get it right!!
BTW, it looks you need to pay attention to the chapter titled "getting some helps us both sleep"... LMAO
Re:Oh that works both ways byzantium mine tried to rip mine off before I left and wondered why I left lol
byzantium write: Cinn: That's a praying mantis you're thinking of. The female copulates with the male, then bites his head off. I had a woman like that once, married her. I guess that's what's wrong with me........I got no head! ROFLMAO
Re:Oh that works both ways byzantium mine tried to rip mine off before I left and wondered why I left lol
byzantium write:
Cinn:
That's a praying mantis you're thinking of. The female copulates with the male, then bites his head off. I had a woman like that once, married her. I guess that's what's wrong with me........I got no head! ROFLMAO
byzantium write: Cinn: That's a praying mantis you're thinking of. The female copulates with the male, then bites his head off. I had a woman like that once, married her. I guess that's what's wrong with me........I got no head! ROFLMAO
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byzantium write: Cinn: That's a praying mantis you're thinking of. The female copulates with the male, then bites his head off. I had a woman like that once, married her. I guess that's what's wrong with me........I got no head! ROFLMAO
Oh Byz, they weren't talking about human women...they were talking about spiders. You know the kind where the female mates, then kills the male... LOL
Real women genuinely love and enjoy men, and just want to see you understand why we act the way we do and why we do the things we do.. I know.. tough task, but that's why you're men...you can handle it...that's why God made y'all the way you are..
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byzantium write: Well! On page 9,264,065 of the "Be Manly Manual" is says, and I quote..... "Never fall prey to the softer sex for they are ruthless and deadly. The female of the specie shows no mercy for the unsuspecting. Their prevarications of gentleness and romantic intimacy is only a ruse. Women are not what they portend."
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byzantium write: Well! On page 9,264,065 of the "Be Manly Manual" is says, and I quote..... "Never fall prey to the softer sex for they are ruthless and deadly. The female of the specie shows no mercy for the unsuspecting. Their prevarications of gentleness and romantic intimacy is only a ruse. Women are not what they portend."
Oh Byz, they weren't talking about human women...they were talking about spiders. You know the kind where the female mates, then kills the male... LOL
Real women genuinely love and enjoy men, and just want to see you understand why we act the way we do and why we do the things we do.. I know.. tough task, but that's why you're men...you can handle it...that's why God made y'all the way you are..
Four things? Most of us need more than four things before we have our first cup of coffee in the morning! LOL j/k
Those are some good key ingredients you listed, but you know that we women are WAY WAY WAY more complicated than that. You know things like the weather, hormones, what song is on the radio, which way the wind is blowing, if we are having a bad hair day, etc. can add many many variables to how many things it takes to make and keep us happy.
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WindJunkie write: The only four thing's needed to keep a woman happy is. 1.Safety 2.Trust 3.Respect 4.Laughter I would hafta say that's about 90% of it.
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WindJunkie write: The only four thing's needed to keep a woman happy is. 1.Safety 2.Trust 3.Respect 4.Laughter I would hafta say that's about 90% of it.
Windjunkie,
Four things? Most of us need more than four things before we have our first cup of coffee in the morning! LOL j/k
Those are some good key ingredients you listed, but you know that we women are WAY WAY WAY more complicated than that. You know things like the weather, hormones, what song is on the radio, which way the wind is blowing, if we are having a bad hair day, etc. can add many many variables to how many things it takes to make and keep us happy.
In your case we are sending you out the set of instructional practice videos..Hurricane will be your practice partner for these in depth training sessions. I must warn you though, it's a pass/fail system, so be sure to practice, practice, practice. LOL
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RK20032000 write: That is only the Prequel guys. Don't believe it there are 17 other manuals and they don't cover the ever changing mind of the finer sex.
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RK20032000 write: That is only the Prequel guys. Don't believe it there are 17 other manuals and they don't cover the ever changing mind of the finer sex.
RK,
In your case we are sending you out the set of instructional practice videos..Hurricane will be your practice partner for these in depth training sessions. I must warn you though, it's a pass/fail system, so be sure to practice, practice, practice. LOL