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Posted on Wed, Jun 28, 2006 12:40

Search for yourself...by yourself! Do not allow others to make your path for you! It is your road & yours alone! Others may walk it with you...but no one can walk it for you! Be tolerant of those who are lost on their path... Ignorance, conceit, anger, jealousy and greed stem from a lost soul! Pray that they will find guidance!


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Posted on Sat, Jun 24, 2006 14:34

BT, First off, let me apologize for confusing the title of your blog and the message that you wrote. You obviously have a handle on what you are looking for and how to find her, the title just seemed to state that you did not. If you took offense to my words, I am truly sorry. Maybe though, they helped someone that read them.


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Posted on Sat, Jun 24, 2006 12:40

Who said it, "When someone shows you who they are the first time, you should believe them". Some women think they can change a man (and vice versa)! Me included. It was a tough lesson for me to learn, but I finally, finally, learned I can not.


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Posted on Sat, Jun 24, 2006 11:58

i met this man on this site, we haven't met in person, but he has become my best friend,we share each other's happy time's sad time's and the relationship pain we've both been through, whoever wind's up hooking up with this man will be one lucky lady, i should be so lucky, but i live in NY and he live's in s. carolina, well some thing's just aren't ment to be, but he'll alway's have a special place in my heart.


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Posted on Thu, Jun 22, 2006 03:25

BT, You are not supposed to understand us. You are supposed to love us for the beautiful creatures we are. The minute you try to understand us, all is lost and so is the intrigue and mystery that attracted you in the beginning. It is the same with us and men, you are all different wonderful souls, to be loved, cherished and yes, occassionally slapped on top of the head for doing dumb stuff. HeHeHe. Anyway, my point is that when you are the best person you can be, the right one will just pop into your life and you will know it that very second. It sounds complicated but it is really not. You are obviously on the right track, just at a crossroad of confusion. Hugs, babe.


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Posted on Thu, Jun 22, 2006 01:36

I just want to share something that life has taught me recently,years ago I thought that if I plan well I could have total control of my life.Yes, we can have SOME control,But never total.Give up control of your heart and live for today because we don't know what will happen tomorrow.There is no love that is free of pain.If you have ever loved someone you feel every hardship they suffer.Love is the most beautiful pain one can know......


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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 20:11

Biketeach - it is hard when you haven't been in the dating scene for awhile - - I was married for 24 years, and I have been divorced for 5 years now... it is hard to find yourself with no one when you are use to having someone there for you. I have dated some great men, and have been in a couple of LTR's, but I want to find the "one" and enjoy everyday with him... sadly, we don't always get what we want. When you say you want a woman to let you know what you want... I think maybe you just want a relationship to come naturally... hang in there, the right lady is looking just as hard for you... you are a cutie, and I've read some of your posts... you have good sense too... lol one day - when you arn't even thinking about it... the "one" will catch you by suprise, and then, you won't have to figure out what you want - - your heart will already know all the answers.... happiness to you alway!!!!


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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 14:52

That was well-said! I don't know what EXACTLY has happened this time around, but I have met some great men & made some awesome contacts. I forgive the past & all of the mistakes & try to do better everyday & not let myself be taken advantage of. I try to bring out the best in people, and I love to make people laugh!!! However if there is fault to find, I think we sort of live in a blame-game world. (my kids TRY to play it.. well, don't we all??) When someone has a hard time, bad relationship, it seems to be everyones fault but their own... let me tell ya, every bad time that I have had in a relationship has been my own choosing!!! I put myself there!! I have become fairly quick at noticing those "red flags"..but jeesh that took some time!!!! (but who knows about tomorrow?? hehe..) Perhaps still some mistakes to make but jeesh I have had some fun making them!! Live & learn & love it.... & let the past go... look forward to the future!!!


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Posted on Tue, Jun 20, 2006 22:20

Keep a bank account in your name, good credit and keep working Never give-up your freedom to anyone!! So no matter what happens later you can GET OUT! Forget all the stuff I said before...lolol


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Posted on Mon, Jun 19, 2006 16:14

bikerteach , got a good chuckle at your comments . But alot out there dont have any common sense !


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 23:38

What's to understand? I am and always will be a complicated creature, accept it. lol Misty.


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 23:21

I agree with you to a point. I loved a man with all of my heart, yes I saw some "red flags" but I saw the good too, thats what love is about, believing in the good while acknowledging the not so great. I spent 10 years with him, and I'm sad, but one day perhaps I'll meet someone who will appreciate my intelligents, sense of humor and all i can bring to a relationship, He definitley taight me one thing...I have no tolerance for irrational behavior!


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 17:58

Shadow, that really was a very nice take on my profile. I have been single for only 2 years, and I spent 8 months of that in a pretty serious relationship. I have found that I have lost touch with whatever being single means, and to be honest, find that most of the single scene really sucks. I really do wish that I could make a list of what I expect from a woman, but I am not really sure any longer if that's possible. I was in my late 20's the last time I was single, and everything has changed since then. Like most men, and I know this will draw the ire of many, I need a woman to more or less let me know what I need in a subtle but direct manner. I know what I don't want, my problem is figuring out what I do want.


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 13:11

It would be great if the "truth in advertising" laws applied to people! But people lie - not always out of malice but often to present themselves in the way they WISH they were, rather than the way they ARE. Sometimes they are so out of touch with themselves that they don't even have a sense of falsehood. I think any worldly woman can pretty quickly spot an out-and-out jerk or bum or wastoid, but what about all those confused guys who - in middle age -- are still trying to "find themselves?" These men aren't bad, but they can do bad things in the context of a relationship, and can use up a lot of their partner's time and energy. I see a lot of sad old guys holding up the bar in biker roadhouses and I suspect they're what becomes of those waffling middle-agers who talked the talk but could never walk the walk. I'm not sure psychotherapy is for everyone, but I do think a lot of people - both men and women - need to work harder at self-assessment and self-improvement. Sure as heck would making dating easier and more productive. . .


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Posted on Sat, Jun 17, 2006 01:16

everyone makes mistakes, but if you're in a situation if anything happens once it can never happen again, but if it happens twice, it will surely happen a third time... :-) KM.


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Posted on Fri, Jun 16, 2006 19:26

bikerteach, even you wear shiny, clanging, tinkling armor- to protect oneself.


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Posted on Fri, Jun 16, 2006 19:20

Hey bikerteach, its called a rash...road or relationship. We all have it....it hurts.


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Posted on Fri, Jun 16, 2006 13:23

you are sooo right. I would know this today but I was once young and stupid but I had a great ass and set of tits and that was all the guys were interested in then therefore so was I.


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Posted on Fri, Jun 16, 2006 10:23

The people that we choose to surround us are nothing more than a mirror reflection of how we feel about ourselves.... I have learned this all to well as I am sure have most have atleast a time or two....I think women tend to have an innate need to want to 'rescue' a mans emotional state or something like that plus there is something intriguing about living on the edge to some degree...warped but true. Who knows....is all I know is that the next time I am going in with with my head and not my heart and other things....


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Posted on Thu, Jun 15, 2006 20:28

sound so simple when you put in like that lol kinda like reading 'hes just not that into you'... if only we could put it into practice in real life :)


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