Quoting Ashestodust:

It doesn't make any sence to me that there is no common courtesy out there. Woman just don't get it. They wouldn't reply to a wink or icebreaker if you looked like Brad Pitt. I know I put his pic. up as mine and sent out 50 icebreakers and winks. No woman replied.

It doesn't make any sence to me that there is no common courtesy out there. Woman just don't get it. They wouldn't reply to a wink or icebreaker if you looked like Brad Pitt. I know I put his pic. up as mine and sent out 50 icebreakers and winks. No woman replied.

Quoting HarleygirlKathy:

I don't think its the person's fault. I have gotten winks and tried to respond. This website won't allow me unless I pay $30 for one month's membership, which is ridiculous, just to answer a wink or email. I wish I could respond but I refuse to pay that kind of fee.

I don't think its the person's fault. I have gotten winks and tried to respond. This website won't allow me unless I pay $30 for one month's membership, which is ridiculous, just to answer a wink or email. I wish I could respond but I refuse to pay that kind of fee.

Quoting Ashestodust:

so after almost 2 years I have gotten 4 comments on my original post and oddly enough they're all women. I'm a perplexed. Good thing I found a good woman and don't need none of ya anymore.

so after almost 2 years I have gotten 4 comments on my original post and oddly enough they're all women. I'm a perplexed. Good thing I found a good woman and don't need none of ya anymore.

Quoting Junie2006:

yes, I noticed that. Got a wink and looked for a polite "No Thanks" "Not Looking at Moment" BK had taken them off.

Nuts. Unless you are proposing marriage, a coffee or a dirty weekend there is no other choice. BK got the new chnges wrong.

JunieXXX

Quoting: Originally posted by HeathenWoman I used to reply to all winks whether I was interested or not. The site took off any polite no thank you replies/winks. So unless someone emails, there's no way to say no thank you.

Quoting HeathenWoman:

I used to reply to all winks whether I was interested or not. The site took off any polite no thank you replies/winks. So unless someone emails, there's no way to say no thank you.

I used to reply to all winks whether I was interested or not. The site took off any polite no thank you replies/winks. So unless someone emails, there's no way to say no thank you.

Quoting Junie2006:

Don't take it too heart. No answer is an answer "No Thanks."

Could be worse could get a really mean answer like some guys give laying into a girl for having the courage to be positive, out there and flirty.

If you believe in yourself, then you just wont care. You missed the ones you were supposed to miss til you meet the one who wil jump your bones and kick start your heart and give a purpose in life other than yourself .... and your bike (As If!!)

Don't take it to heart. If you were female you could be picked up and mooned and swooned yhen find out he was married or run off with your money or maybe attacked or find that he is really after your kids.

Get it in context. Isn't that big a deal. No response is a response - no interest. Not as if it is anyone you actually know. If you were knocking on doors cold selling I would thnk you would get more rejections than invitations. Blind romance is no different. Get it in perspective.

But also maybe get feedback from others as to how you come across. We are not the best judge of ourselves.

Take care.

JunieXXX

Don't take it too heart. No answer is an answer "No Thanks."

Could be worse could get a really mean answer like some guys give laying into a girl for having the courage to be positive, out there and flirty.

If you believe in yourself, then you just wont care. You missed the ones you were supposed to miss til you meet the one who wil jump your bones and kick start your heart and give a purpose in life other than yourself .... and your bike (As If!!)

Don't take it to heart. If you were female you could be picked up and mooned and swooned yhen find out he was married or run off with your money or maybe attacked or find that he is really after your kids.

Get it in context. Isn't that big a deal. No response is a response - no interest. Not as if it is anyone you actually know. If you were knocking on doors cold selling I would thnk you would get more rejections than invitations. Blind romance is no different. Get it in perspective.

But also maybe get feedback from others as to how you come across. We are not the best judge of ourselves.

Take care.

JunieXXX

Quoting redlilly:

Don't blame it all women.¿ Men are the same way if you don't look like Barbie. They don't want to be bothered.¿ I think I am attractive and I don't get responses from a lot of winks I send out.¿ I just figure Hey, there loss, I am a fun person to talk to.¿ Whats that going to hurt.¿ Thats how you get to know people.¿ Hey if anything, you get another friend.
Reds

Don't blame it all women.¿ Men are the same way if you don't look like Barbie. They don't want to be bothered.¿ I think I am attractive and I don't get responses from a lot of winks I send out.¿ I just figure Hey, there loss, I am a fun person to talk to.¿ Whats that going to hurt.¿ Thats how you get to know people.¿ Hey if anything, you get another friend.
Reds

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