Why is it that the chase, the buzz that I got, the thrill of the hunt just isn't there anymore. I'm nervous, scared even. Is it because I'm not ready for a relationship? I know I'm not, but I thought this would come easier with age and experience, not harder! Any one care to comment or explain!?! I've no problem talking to anyone at a rally, party or in the street. I'm Irish after all! But I find now when someone mentions 'date' or 'relationship' I want to run a mile in the other direction. Why is that?