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Posted on Sat, Aug 11, 2007 03:02

On the other consideration. have you ever thought what it is to be a woman with the umpteenth a$$hole coming upto you and in your space and asking what your personal living and relationship arrangements barely seconds after getting past "Hi. You Alone?" "You have a boyriend?" "Are you a lesbian?" "So you hate men then?" It literally is that quick. So don't assume we want to be nice to you. You are a stranger coming into our space without an invite. So sometimes the retort is as quick as "Hello . may I...." "Fuck Off and leave me alone. Yes you may" Men expect women to be constantly open, caring, loving etc. Yet I have literally been left in tears in a matter of minutes of a man inviting himself to sit down with me. You really do not know just how offensive men can be in a matter of minutes of sitting down. So sometimes the "Fuck Off" comes first. I am through UNDERSTANDING. Junie


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Posted on Fri, Aug 10, 2007 20:03

charlie you have made a good choice


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Posted on Fri, Aug 10, 2007 19:32

How interesting. As a single woman I have to be independent, I have NO CHOICE becuase I have chosen to be single. Do you prefer dependent woman? Would that be like someone else's wife or girlfriend?


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Posted on Fri, Aug 10, 2007 13:20

I do, I do. Yes ladies I must be crazy for putting myself into the line of fire...Let me slide back against the wall and go back to being an innocent bystander PEACE


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Posted on Fri, Aug 10, 2007 12:45

Ladies, ladies! The venom that some of you are spewing! Perhaps those of you responding with personal attacks recognized yourselves in my blog! Recognizing this in yourself is a big step forward for you! Now, do ya need a hug, or what?


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Posted on Fri, Aug 10, 2007 03:22

So what are you really saying Phil? You need one of us independent arrogant women to support your ass?


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 20:50

You are one sick attention seeking MF'er. Venting your frustration? That is such bullshit. Go tell it to your Therapist. Go have a temper tantrum somewhere else. Who the hell do you think you are to make some sorta circus act outta of us "INDEPENDENT WOMEN" We are not here for your entertainment or enjoyment. However,it is very entertaining and enjoyable to see your arrogant and selfish,hiding behind your disguise pretending to be Dr.Phil,and making a bigger asshole outta yourself,than ya did the first time around.

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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 15:03

I was not implying that all "independent women" are arrogant and selfish. Unfortunately, it only took one such arrogant and selfish person who was hiding behind the guise of being a self proclaimed "independent woman," to bring about my little rant on the BK blogs. I was merely venting my frustration! I must say though, I thoroughly enjoyed your responses!


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 06:00

my independent arse just got out of the bed she paid for,setting at the puter she paid for fixing to bathe with water she pays for drive to work in a truck that costs her blood sweat and a few tears,when she had to give up norman,because her independent arse doesn;t or let me restate that can't seem to find a male person who is not dependent,and willing to suck my pocketbook as well as my energy dry


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 05:59

I am curious how you can come to this conclusion without meeting someone?


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 04:24

I think this bears repeating... There is a fine line between an independent woman and an arrogant woman just as there is a fine line between a confidant man and a pompous ass....which are you Phil???????


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 03:26

And you are one hell of a woman Paddy. Thanks for putting our thoughts into words.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 02:36

Phil U R going to have to make your point clearer. I know there are some rude arrogant women out there who don't give a a$$ about anyon else. But why should that bother you more than if it was a man doing that? If you have an ideal of awoman being nice warm and caring and nurturing all the time you don't know how awoman's life is. This last year I have been raising safety in taxis fro drivers and passengers. I have many testimonies just in my small town of drivers sexually harassing women and children including rape and on Monday a dear old friend aged 75 and rippled with arthritis told me of a driver who tricked his way into her house to use the bathroom. Then came out exposing himself and tried to abuse her. It took her ages to get him out. The reaction from men for me brining this up - I have been punched in the throat, had my car damaged, a a pet killed, pushed up against a wall and abused between my legs. Hate mail etc etc. This is the way men treat women who try to change female abuse. I have been told I should not bring it up becasue it makes men look bad. adn I have to be careful how I make them feel. Our lives are really uneven. Yet you still expect me to be nice. Live our lives for one moment and you would change yoru mind. A couple of experiments of guys dressing and looking like women surprised them how much they were treated like meat how they felt surrounded by predators and how nervous and frightened they felt all the time as they did not know who was who or what they were up to. Live one day as a female and you would change your mind. Women were taught and learned to be nice take care of teh needs of your ego becasue their survival and the survival of their children depended on it and pacifying the man. It wasn't because we actually LIKED YOU!! Junie


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Posted on Thu, Aug 09, 2007 00:27

definition of arrogant exaggerating or disposed to exaggerate one's own worth or importance often by an overbearing manner. Sounds abit like you Phil after making this blog lol


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Posted on Wed, Aug 08, 2007 20:33

Mistaken,Arrogant and Selfish? Them's fightin' words fucko. Seems to me that maybe someone ruffled your little ol' Rhett Butler feathers,and that's why yer posting' this here blog, 'cause yer pissed off. STOP targeting all the women here,and target the one who made you insane enough to write this blog.


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Posted on Wed, Aug 08, 2007 18:26

I just don't get it. You guys whine if we don't work and are needy. You want an independent woman who can think for herself. We give you that and now you whine cause we use our heads to make decisions and make good money. Geezzz just can't seem to make you happy it appears. Phil, is it a jealousy thing perhaps?


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Posted on Wed, Aug 08, 2007 16:38

OK manny is this women with PURPOSE OR INDEPENDENT LOL

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Posted on Wed, Aug 08, 2007 15:11

WELL MY FEATHERS ARE RUFFLED SO IS MY PARTY DRESS...I AM AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN DUE TO THE FACT I SUPPOSE, MY CHOICE, I WORK TWO JOBS ,CARRY MY OWN LOAD,GROCERIES,BUT I AM NOT THE KIND OF WOMAN YOU ARE REFERRING TO,AND YOU SHOULD GIVE A SHEET, IF MORE MEN MANNED UP IN THIS WORLD,MORE WOMEN WOULDN;T HAVE TO BE SO DAMN ROUGH AND TOTALLY HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES,AND THE KIDS...SO WHEN WE HAVE TO DO ALL THAT NO WONDER WE GET AN ATTITUDE,YES I AM A CHILD OF THE KING ,YES I AM A WONDERFUL WOMAN, AND YES I AM ALL THAT, AND A BAG OF CHIPS..HAVING SAID THAT MAYBE YOU SHOULD SHOP FOR A WOMAN SOMEWHERE BESIDES THE DOLLAR STORE

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Posted on Wed, Aug 08, 2007 13:01

Re: Treasure_TTT write: I think I see what you are saying Phil. At least I have seen that in many women on here too. I have been "independent" since I was 15 and there is nothing arrogant about it. It is just life. BUT! Big But coming here...your point could have made with a bit more discretion. Ok, a lot more discretion. There are many women on here who are hard working, independent, self sufficient and are most gracious, endearing, lovely, kind, friendly and feminine. I think it is obvious the ones I speak of.

treasure...I think you should certify those women for us.... In actual fact...we need a rump stamp...so we can ask them...are you Treasure Independent Woman certified...show us yer rump...then we'll know we got the real deal.... LOL


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Posted on Wed, Aug 08, 2007 12:24

man open mouth women swiftly kick his teeth in. they sound independant to me. rlmfao


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